Singles & Dating - 27 October 2006

Repost (Sorry!) but it's urgent.
If you want the details, check out my "Urgent Q..." question.

Look, I know you love me and I know you know how much I love you, but I'm really confused about what's going on w/ you and us. I keep hearing and seeing what I think are mixed signals from you about what you want. If it's not working for you, you can tell me. In fact, I need to hear it. I don't even need to know why. If you're just confused and scared, please just tell me that. That changes things dramatically. I think we both value honesty in any relationship and hope we're being honest with ourselves.

2006-10-27 05:49:06 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6

2006-10-27 05:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by Donny 1

sometimes i feel ugly when in reality i am complimented a lot! my family and freinds along with my man for 4 years+ are always telling me im beautiful....i am 5'3 120 pounds blue eyes, dirty blonde hair, people say i have a black girls butt, and my cup size is a 34c, along with my washboard stomach....yet still i dont feel exactly beautiful on the inside and half the time on the outside either....i dont know wether this pain comes from my childhood, or maybe deep insecurities, but i have a boyfriend that loves me soooo much,,,why cant i love myself????

2006-10-27 05:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3

2006-10-27 05:48:00 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

actually I am going to armwrestle with my friend. She is 5 ft 10 in tall and I am 5 ft 8 in tall. She told me that her weight is 64 kg and my weight is 60. I dont know size of biceps but they are almost of same size. Both of us havent been into any sport. She always teases me and recently we had an argument about who is stronger. I think being boy I must be stronger but I am not so sure as she is taller and heavier than me. plz reply as soon as possible. Have anyone of you armwrestled with girl?

2006-10-27 05:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father moved out of our house in Maryland and is living with his mother, and when he moved out my mother also left and moved to Albany, NY with a woman who hates me, and my brother, sister, and I had to come with her since we can't drive and had nowhere else to go. Now I am back in MD for my 3rd year of college and the only place I have where I can stay outside of college is with my grandma, and it feels so wierd and scary to stay there. I feel like they are having to cater to me, and I don't want that. I want to get married and get my own place. My mother is white and my father is black, so I guess I feel like I should marry someone of a different race, like an asian person. I like asian people^_^ And I am really cute and nice. So anyone want to get married when I get out of college? It doesn't even have to be an asian person, just someone who is like me and not all about 1 thing (and you know what I mean). Maybe even someone who is my age (20) + and still can't drive now like me.

2006-10-27 05:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just curious if anyone knew. My bf dumped me for his ex. They were together for a year and a half, but broke up many times during that time because they had issues. She said she changed, and he says he sees it. Do you think they will work out? It's been three weeks now.

2006-10-27 05:46:15 · 14 answers · asked by nursejuley 1

i like this boy in my class for about a month now and dont know what to do he flirts and all but he's talking to a senior and im only a sophmore but i think its a better match if were both sophmores but anyways should i just go up to him and tell him how i feel straight out or just forget about him and move on ?

2006-10-27 05:46:12 · 3 answers · asked by devon a 2

i have posted a lot of garbage here but this one is reality.

i am 40, been loyal to every woman i have been with, never cheated or did anything immoral.

i am just your average dude with a great sense of humour.

i make very good money and spend it well, i enjoy everyday of my life.

how in the name of CHRIST do i end up with a woman that is a manic depressive? i am paying every day, i have tried everything!

what the hell am i going to do?

divorce is not an option, all day i smile and when i go home i am miserable every night!

any other brothers in the same boat?

2006-10-27 05:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 05:44:31 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

Why do men ask for such weird things?

2006-10-27 05:44:31 · 19 answers · asked by passion flower 1

Hey, this is my first question on this site.
I'm good friends with a guy from school.
I've started to develop feelings for him, and I was wondering....
Is it a good idea to tell him how I feel or should I wait it out?

2006-10-27 05:43:35 · 3 answers · asked by shirah_life 2

Do you agree with this? I am quite a successful Chef and I have found that initially guys are really impressed by this, but after a while, they cannot handle the fact that I too have a job and my own responsibilities, and they become child like i.e. temper tantrums, sulking etc! WHY??? Ladies, also feel free to give your input and examples!! Im sure that the guys are tutting in disbelief already at the mere thought of their masculinity in disrepute.......... LOL

2006-10-27 05:43:16 · 24 answers · asked by S 28 2

I recently put up my profile on match.com site and I contacted some of them whose profile piqued my interest. What I don't understand is they respond to my email after 4 or 5 days when I think its all over. When I give 'em my phone # they don't call even after exchanging 6 emails. So my questions are

a) What's the standard practice should I give my phone # to call or directly plan a date after 3 emails or 5 emails ?
b) Some who contacted me first when I write back asking them simple q (for example their fav. vacation spot) they don't respond back ? Why ? Are they all playing ?
c) What should I do ?
Thanks

2006-10-27 05:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 05:42:32 · 4 answers · asked by morts 1

I just want to know what is normal.

2006-10-27 05:40:49 · 19 answers · asked by Lalalalalala 5

i dont think hes very comfortable with the idea, since i made a big deal when i found out he was doin it in the shower but i want to watch him

2006-10-27 05:40:44 · 41 answers · asked by RACHEL M 1

to some of your boyfriends/girlfriends from the past with whom you were, who would it be and why???????????What makes her/him so special for you?

2006-10-27 05:40:11 · 6 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6

he called me and said that he stopped in love with me.and hates every second he lived it with me..and denied that he sent for me love messages on my mobile..and that was his friend..iam freaking out ..i dont know what to do..plz i need your help /
p.c: he was my whole life..!!!!

2006-10-27 05:36:38 · 17 answers · asked by bobo w 1

My bf and i broke up because i'm moving and he is saying that he will never have another gf in his life because im the one he loves and he thinks that no other girl will like him what do i say to him? Help me please!!!!

2006-10-27 05:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by Brooke H 2

she doesn't care what movie we go to. i don't care either. what do you guys suggest?

2006-10-27 05:35:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I like these two girls in my class, but the problem is they are friends, so I can't try and talk to both of them.

But I don't know which one to choose.

The one is kinda short, cute, sexy and she's into her school work.

The other one is a little thicker, cute, more sexual looking, and she has this I-dont-give-a-f*ck kinda attitude. And very sexy lips.

Which one should I try to holla at?

2006-10-27 05:34:47 · 5 answers · asked by Samuel 1

They say gay men have a thing called "gay-dar", where they can look at another guy and tell if he is gay.....so why dont we get ho-dar? Where we can just look at a hottie, and know if she is a dirty ho that will put out for us? That way we dont have to waste our "A game" on chicks that wont give it up anyways...and we can go right towards the guaranteed lay!!! Whos with me?

2006-10-27 05:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 05:33:09 · 6 answers · asked by wolfball 2

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, well almost... on November 4th. For our highschool graduation I got him a watch, but "somehow" it turned up missing, and we can't seem to find it. Anyway, he's been hinting that he wants me to get him another one. His birthday was October 10th, and to make him think that I'm not going to get him another watch I got him a money clip. Anyway, for our anniversary I got him this really neat watch, you can lift up the face and it's kind of like a locket (which I will most likely put a picture of us in), and IT IS a mens watch. Anyway, my question is to the guys mainly... would you like it if your girlfriend got you something like this??? If you plan on answereing try checking out this link 1st!

http://www.thingsremembered.com/webapp/w...

And also, please make sure you veiw it larger to get a good look!

2006-10-27 05:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

My partner is of the opinion it's all my fault when she doesn't have one.I say if she's not doing her part mentally and physically it doesn't matter what I do it ain't happening.

2006-10-27 05:30:54 · 16 answers · asked by chuckwilmoth@sbcglobal.net 1

and you haven't seen him in like 5weeks and you start to like another person what do you do bu you know he's not cheating on you what do you so?

2006-10-27 05:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14 and I'm meeting up with my boyfriend on Saturday but at the moment we have only kissed and I want to maybe take it a step further. I don't know where to do this and how to give him the idea that I want to go further. Where can we go and what can we do. I dont want to have sex or anything like that i just want to go a bit further than a kiss. Please help lauren xxx

2006-10-27 05:29:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 05:28:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just starting talking to this girl and i dont know wat to talk about(i like her but i want to be good friends before asking her out)

2006-10-27 05:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by Samuel C 1