My bf and i broke up because i'm moving and he is saying that he will never have another gf in his life because im the one he loves and he thinks that no other girl will like him what do i say to him? Help me please!!!!
2006-10-27 05:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really think there's no future in it...just tell him honestly and say that you dont see a future. So, it's best that both of u move on healthily and build on your own lives with new friends. That said....do you still love him or are you prepared to let go of this 101%? No turning back whatsoever? If you've decided, then walk on and dont look back. I've done it, we parted peacefully because i was just sincerely honest with him and said this really isnt going to work and it's no point wasting our time and life away. If he still doesnt listen...then it's not your responsibility to bail him out. He should be matured enough to come out of it after some time...
2006-10-27 05:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you really love him you should not break up with him, even if your moving away. If you still decide to not be with him then just tell him exactly what you think, what's on your mind, and let it be. Tell him you just want to be friends and that time will tell if you guys should be together or not. It sounds like you were his first love, when some one breaks up for the first time they always think " Oh, i'll never fall in love again." Time and distance will change his mind.
2006-10-27 13:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by gatika2oo5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to keep you.. He will find another girlfriend in time. Right now he is just broken-hearted.. Give him a hug say sorry and if you must really move on then that is what you need to do. You can try to keep the relationship going but I don't know about you but long-distance relationships don't work well with me.
2006-10-27 12:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you break up with him because of you moving or because you have no feelings for him? If your answer is yes to the second question and no to the first, I say move on. If its vise versa, I say stay with him, and see how it works out. A lot of long distance relationships work out.
2006-10-27 12:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by meamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a drama queen trying to give you a guilt trip.
2006-10-27 12:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Gina J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are yall breaking up. You can have a long distance relationship or stay or tell him to come with you.
2006-10-27 12:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both will find friends wherever you are-deep relationships happen over time, and healing as well to loss of one moving-can still be friends by phone, writing, or pc...
2006-10-27 12:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your are 13 and 14 yrs. old
2006-10-27 12:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in that kind of postion.... i was moving and he dumped me... but i stilled loved him and still do.... now that i moved, its like i don't exsit to him... at least he still loves you
2006-10-27 12:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Love to be Hated 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to move on, and that he will get over it... he will, don't feel bad.
2006-10-27 12:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋