sometimes i feel ugly when in reality i am complimented a lot! my family and freinds along with my man for 4 years+ are always telling me im beautiful....i am 5'3 120 pounds blue eyes, dirty blonde hair, people say i have a black girls butt, and my cup size is a 34c, along with my washboard stomach....yet still i dont feel exactly beautiful on the inside and half the time on the outside either....i dont know wether this pain comes from my childhood, or maybe deep insecurities, but i have a boyfriend that loves me soooo much,,,why cant i love myself????
2006-10-27 05:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will you talk to my gf? I will refrain from answering too harshly, other than to say you need to stop it b/c your bf will feel like his love means nothing to you if he doesn't already. Trust me.
2006-10-27 05:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u sound gorgeous...like the girl everyone wishes they could be!!!! do u love ur boifriend becuz i've always been told u have to love urself before u can love anyone...and whats not to love?!? i'm sure u r beautiful on the inside and out...u can't let ur childhood be an excuse...everyone has had problems...be u...and maybe there is just something missing inside of u and u don't feel "whole" even tho u have ur boifriend...u need something more...trust me, i've been in the same situation! what u need is God...and if u already have him...u just need to build ur foundation and become a strong Christian. i used to feel the same way, and i never accepted myself until i accepted Christ...if u have any more questions, feel free to e-mail me at beachxchicaxmg@aol.com! i'll be praying for u! :]]
2006-10-27 12:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by beachxchicaxmg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps it is something from the past. No one assured you how beautiful you are. Try go to a counsellor or a psychologist? Self-acceptance is the FIRST step to a happier life... you are not alone. Heaps of women out there r like u. I used to be like that too but I've gotten over it...I think. You ARE beautiful...dont listen to the voices that say otherwise :)
2006-10-27 12:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learn a lot about myself from making lists. Make a list of things you like about you, things you would like to change about yourself, things you cannot change....and then make a stab at working on the things you can change and living with the ones you cannot. It sounds like you are being too rough on yourself and I think we all do that at times, I am heavy and I get so angry with myself for eating when I am not hungry, it is always something we would like to change! Good luck and enjoy life all you can!!!
2006-10-27 12:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You take a good look at yourself... not only what do you see but who do you see... go on. take a good long look then listen to everyone who tells you that you are beutiful....YOU ARE.. remember it matters mostly of who you are on the inside and if you are as beautiful on the inside as you sound like on the.outside YOU are a 10... Get your self esteem built up and keep smiling ,,It sounds to me you have a lot to smile for...Good day!
2006-10-27 12:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by driver1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must be ugly if they keep telling you that you are beautiful hun
try a face lift or a tanning salon
also if you are a cow, you should lose some weight
good luck
2006-10-27 12:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My opinion wold be that you should see a counseller who is familiar with that type of problem.
2006-10-27 12:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're surrounded by good people-turn it around and find good in others'. if you need approval or constant applaud to make yourself feel good, you can not grow to share your inner good qualities to those around you..learn to enjoy who or what you are, and share ...
2006-10-27 13:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think you are most beautiful in the world
2006-10-27 12:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by subha_rjs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax your mind
2006-10-27 12:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by babitha t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋