I have been with my boyfriend for a long time (3years) and since we graduated college we've been in different cities. We decided we'd both move to NYC since that is where I applied to grad school and where I want to work. We decided this months ago and he has been supposedly applying to tons of jobs in NYC. Well last night I'm over at his house and asked to check my e-mail on his comp. His e-mail account was open and I saw (I know this is bad but it was SO hard not to, besides it was already open), he had TONS of e-mails from companies in California. Turns out he has job interviews there and he hasn't applied to ANY jobs in NYC. He's been lying to me. I didn't pressure him to move where I am going to be, in fact I was always open minded, but he is stringing me along. Do I break up with him? Or should I give him a chance to explain? But how do I tell him I looked through this stuff? Sorry for the length of this. Any advice I'd really appreciate. Thanks
2006-10-27
07:03:26
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Kristina
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