he called me and said that he stopped in love with me.and hates every second he lived it with me..and denied that he sent for me love messages on my mobile..and that was his friend..iam freaking out ..i dont know what to do..plz i need your help /
p.c: he was my whole life..!!!!
2006-10-27 05:36:38 · 17 answers · asked by bobo w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety, guy's come and go; and that's how it should be until you find the perfect one for you. One that adores you for who you are and that gives the world for YOU! Remember that you should always be # 1, dont let anyone play with your feelings. About that dumb A** that is treating you like that: My advice is that you ignore him, do not look at him, don't talk to him, dont let him talk to you, dont continue a friendship. I bet anything that once you start acting like this he's the one that will want to get with you, but since You are # 1 and you VALUE your self and he treated you like crap, your not going to get back with him, RIGHT? Sweety, time heals everything, you sound like your young, just like i am. Start having fun, meet other guys, and LIVE your life, be happy.
2006-10-27 06:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by gatika2oo5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was not your whole life! get that out of your head! Now!
Think of the other things that are "your life"...friends, family, work, school, pets. You are healthy and breathing. Be grateful. He can't take your heart and soul away from you. It hurts, yes. Badly.
He doesn't love you. Well, good for him. He's missing out then, isn't he? To heck with him. You don't need it. You deserve better. You don't want someone who doesn't love you in your life. You don't have time for someone like that.
Make time for the other important people in your life. And eat a pint of ice cream!
2006-10-27 05:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just forget him. He is obviously an idiot and doesn't know what he's missing. You deserve someone who loves you for you and won't make false promises and will never lie to you and there are plenty of decent guys out there who are just waiting to be discovered so go out and don't let this dent your confidence or lead you into thinking that all guys are like that because they arn't!
2006-10-27 05:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This loser isn't you whole life no matter what you think. What about your friends, hobbies, interests, career? Throw yourself into all the other aspects of your life and keep busy. He isn't worth thinking about. Believe me you'll get over him soon. Good luck x
2006-10-27 05:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by katem1992 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey relax. he sounds like he has serious problems and is lashing out like a spoilt child. sadly you're an easy target. Girl He wasn't your whole life (unless you're about 99 and read to drop). you will get over him, you should learn from this experience. you really wil be fine. yes it hurts but it will be fine.
Honestly.
God bless
2006-10-27 06:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by belickcat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're young. You'll get over it, it just takes time. Go out with your friends...look at other people...and completely cut contact with the guy you speak of.
2006-10-27 05:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by jasonstroble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you upset him and now he is hurt and saying nasty things to make you feel bad ????or maybe he is just a ratbag that treats girls like this if so find a nice boy who will treat you like a princess.
2006-10-27 06:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just delete the notes from your mobile i am sure you still got them in there look up and see your self and that you deserve someonte better thatn what he is or was and you need happiness sya i will belovedfor all the right reasons .
2006-10-27 05:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by vomissie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser. Ditch him. ignore him(men hate being ignored) and find someone new. he will realise in time that hes blown it.sad idiot that he is!
2006-10-27 05:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by so bored at work 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him.. Get a new guy and rub it in his face. I am sure he'll think differently then...also dress to your best.
2006-10-27 05:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋