I was just curious if anyone knew. My bf dumped me for his ex. They were together for a year and a half, but broke up many times during that time because they had issues. She said she changed, and he says he sees it. Do you think they will work out? It's been three weeks now.
2006-10-27 05:46:15 · 14 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it would be difficult for you to accept that you were used by the guy for the girl to get jealous and realize what she's loosing. going back to the ex may work if they both have changed and accepted their faults and indifferences. if i were in your shoes, i would just move on and face the reality. dont feel bad, coz in anything bad that happens, there's a good lesson to learn. one of that is never fall for a guy who just broke up with his ex. these guys are not sure with what they are doing. they dont care of what others feel...selfish fools.
2006-10-27 06:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by elaine bonita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dirt always comes out in the wash.... they are ex's for a reason. Sure people change if they have the will to do so... but the amount of time they were apart will factor into the whole turnout of things.. 3 weeks isn't a long time or enough time to notice if that persons changed for good...
2006-10-27 12:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not work.I left my b/f because i was not happy with out relationship,met this guy enjoy myself thought i was in love and found happiness,but it was just a dream.Anyway me and my b/f before met at a part dance got hot and had fund end up back together,i guess i was hoping things would change but it's worst,and now I'm looking for a way to tell him,b/c it hurt him alot the first time,i don't want to do the same or worst again.
2006-10-27 12:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could. 2 many factors. I have a deeper question 4 u though. If he dumped u 4 his ex would u really want him back?
2006-10-27 12:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably it won't work since he went from his ex to you and then back again. It sounds like he needed more transitional time. People need time by themselves to be better for another person. It probably won't work out for him and his ex, and, no offense, it probably won't happen with you guys again either. You need to move on and find a good guy or spend some time by yourself for awhile.
I hope he wasn't using you, but face reality, he probably was.
2006-10-27 12:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Amaranth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know sometimes it does, but it is weird to see that. i will say that they wont be together for a long time, they could still have issues, and if their relationship doesn't work, you can go back with him, don't do it, and just move on girl
2006-10-27 12:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by crazygirl123 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Move on dear - it probably won't work but guess what you're an ex too now so the thought of reuniting is not ingenious
2006-10-27 12:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were off and and b4, that year and a half was just another off. It just so happens that you and your feelings wound up being collateral damage. I recently got back with my ex, and everythings seems okay so far. Who knows what'll happen?
2006-10-27 12:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are exes for a reason, and if it did not work out before it won't work out now.
2006-10-27 12:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. It sounds like he's pretty into her though. Best to move on and be pleasantly surprised if he comes back to you, but chances are you won't want him after that.
2006-10-27 12:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋