My father moved out of our house in Maryland and is living with his mother, and when he moved out my mother also left and moved to Albany, NY with a woman who hates me, and my brother, sister, and I had to come with her since we can't drive and had nowhere else to go. Now I am back in MD for my 3rd year of college and the only place I have where I can stay outside of college is with my grandma, and it feels so wierd and scary to stay there. I feel like they are having to cater to me, and I don't want that. I want to get married and get my own place. My mother is white and my father is black, so I guess I feel like I should marry someone of a different race, like an asian person. I like asian people^_^ And I am really cute and nice. So anyone want to get married when I get out of college? It doesn't even have to be an asian person, just someone who is like me and not all about 1 thing (and you know what I mean). Maybe even someone who is my age (20) + and still can't drive now like me.
2006-10-27 05:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you doing? Do not put yourself out like that. You know that there are men that will take you and totally abuse and mistreat you. There are other alternatives than setting up a marriage.
Don't you want to be married to someone that you have fallen in love with?
And another thing, remove your full name off of your profile. You do not know what you are about to get yourself into. Do not put all of your personal information out there like that!!!
You could work during your 4th year of college and save your money for an apartment. You also could work on campus through the financial aid program.
Do not cheat yourself and marry someone you do not know. You will be divorced a year later if not sooner!!!
And another thing, remove our personal information from your profile. Girl, you don't know what you are about to get yourself into.
2006-10-27 05:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ellie, You shouldn't tell the guy or his wife even though you know the pain of being cheating on. The only person you could say something to is your friend. I think it is a dumb move to be in college at 20 and is cheating with a cook in the cafeteria. Does he give her extra helpings. Dating a college guy is great. If you talked to her all you could do is try to impress upon her the pain you went though when your guy cheated on you. When a man cheats there is no guarantee he is going to leave his wife and definitely not his children to be with the woman he is cheating with. He is out for a good time for as long as the good time last. She may not know it, but she is not the first girl and won't be the last this creep has been with or will be with. His wife may even know it. Your friend should be majoring in courses that could land her a great career and studying, but her extra cirriculum activity is screwing around with a married school cook. Is she crazy or just horny. If the school became aware of their behavior it may cause problems for the two of them. You are not to interfere what's done in the dark will soon come to the light. He'll break it off with her after he has used up her body and then will set his sights on another girl. He is too old for her and old men ego trip when they get the opportunity to be with a virgin or someone that is not really sexual and they will do ANYTHING that will keep the girl or woman ready to lay on her back.You have to be careful what you do in this life, If ever she gets a bf or husband she is going to feel the pain you and his wife have felt cause what goes around comes around..
2016-05-22 00:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I'm writing you because I had it hard too. My parents both split and the only reason why I'm making it is because I went to school for architectural drafting. When I got my first job I was 19 and scared (Anyway back to the point). I know you want somebody to marry you and your probably not looking for this type of response. But, I think that since your only 20 and going to College, make your life better. Don't just limit yourself to marriage. I'm sorry if I've offended you with my answer but I just turned 20 October 6 and I don't know much about life. But I know that for someone who went through what you went through your very strong minded to still go to school and not be sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself. So please stay strong and DO THE DAMN THANG. Much love to ya. dvdatlas@yahoo.com
Ps. By the way I'm black. :-)
2006-10-27 06:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by dvdatlas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
Have you ever heard of human trafficking??? You are setting yourself up for some potentially very bad things by putting out a question like this on the internet??? Getting married for the wrong reason, like having a place to live is definitley the wrong reason, can only end in disaster. You grandmother is your family and she loves you. She would much rather you stay with her than to do something crazy like marry a stranger to get your own place. You have to be SO very careful today about who you date and are friends with. Please don't put yourself out there like a pawn, for some crazy nut job to take advantage of.
2006-10-27 05:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married is not the answer to your problems.
This will just create one more problem.
If you want to change your life then YOU need to take steps to change your life.
First off you need a job
You university will have jobs.
Then you need to move out of where ever it is you are living now.
Your university will have low cost housing or you can simply rent a room this is a safe option.
You do not need a husband to stand on your own tow feet.
Why sell your self in to marriage to get a place of your own?
2006-10-27 05:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Honey, but if you get a response to your marraige proposal, you probably will want to do a REAL GOOD background check on the person before you even meet them.
I do hope that you find someone to love you and care for you. I hope that you find a place to belong and that all works out for you.
I don't think that this is the way to do it.
May God bless and protect you in your journey.
2006-10-27 05:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by hotmamaof3_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to get married to get your own place!!! Why not find a girl to share an apartment with you? Definitely get out of your moms and her friends house! That sounds like a very bad place to be. Why do you want to rush into getting married?
2006-10-27 05:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by cynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you must be really desperate. Go get proffesional help. You can't just ask someone over the internet to mary you. That's pityful. I just saw your profile and pictures. You're not that cute you know. Matter of fact, kinda ugly. Sorry just being truthful.
2006-10-27 05:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by Unknown Artist~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you get out of college, get a job or go to Uni and learn to depend on yourself you don't need to sound desperate a good man will find you when the time is right
2006-10-27 05:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey this post is so sad and desperate. You should delete it.
2006-10-27 06:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋