Singles & Dating - 20 October 2006

I have been going out with this guy for 3 mounths, we have been on one date and i don'tsee him much out side the bus, i see him twice a day, evry school day. But reacently I have noticed we don't seem to be talking so earily and i think the *sparkle* has gone out of our relationship. I would also like it if he was a bit more physical, he gives me a quick peck as i get off the bus but i have only properly snogged him twice but i also seem to be reaching out to stroke his hair etc but I get nothing back. I still want to be friends though. I dated his best friend as well and it ended in the same way, is this what its going to be like with all my relatinships? I'm just really confused, he and I have thought about ending it before, just can someone tell me what to do...

2006-10-20 07:25:22 · 17 answers · asked by midgetryley 1

I stayed out to really late last night and am not sure if I want to go out tonight. Should I stay in and just watch a movie?

2006-10-20 07:25:04 · 22 answers · asked by marie 4

I feel so much sadness and stress over my ex boyfriend who dumped me and this has been going on for months and months now. I wish I could believe I will get over it... I wish I could believe that I'll meet someone better (I don't believe that AT ALL). I'm sounded like a really broken record and I'm just tired of it. I feel so wounded by the way he treated me. He was the first guy that I ever had a real connection with and he wounded me so deeply. How do I let it go?

2006-10-20 07:23:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was sooo surprised when he said hi today. We only dated for one month, he ended it 8 months ago saying he was "busy" and it was so innocent, only kissing, cuz he knows I wanna save sex for marriage, so why does he still care? Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know?

I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Guys are soooo weird, they dump a girl, but still wanna know what goes on in her life, WHY??????

2006-10-20 07:23:11 · 7 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

I have always been friends with guys, my whole life, but not once have i ever had a date. Am i just the friend or am i flat out hopless??

2006-10-20 07:21:58 · 39 answers · asked by BaybeeMacc 1

We had a ridiculously great realtionship for a few months, but lately things have been a little rocky. She has become withdrawn but we have talked about it. She said she is scared she is going to hurt me because she has hurt people in her past relationships. I want to believe her for obvious reasons, but she also said she went to counseling for this stuff a while back but didn't stick w/ it. Now, I'm not naive. I understand this could very well be a situation where she wants someone else but doesn't want to hurt my feelings. If that's what she wants, I'd have a lot easier time letting her go if she'd just be up front. Any suggestions for getting to the bottom of this, getting her to say YES w/out accusing her of lying?

2006-10-20 07:20:07 · 24 answers · asked by randyken 6

I just had a 3 week long relationship with this wonderful girl. I felt things that I didn't know I could feel. I was nervous around her as I always am around some girls, but with her it was different; I felt a sort of natural nervousness. I was nervous, but everything seemed so right. She ended it just over a week ago because "she doesn't feel the same way about me." I do though. I wrote her a letter laying out all of my feelings just so they are known. What should I do?

2006-10-20 07:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by smartypeeler 1

'semen' as men do? When we orgasm do we release anything? I have heard that when men go down on a women and they orgasm they have white stuff, but that's never happened to me. My husband seems to think that women don't release anything, and I think we do. If so what does it look like, and how can you tell the difference between men's and womens 'stuff'?

2006-10-20 07:17:58 · 31 answers · asked by Susa 3

Is it holding the door for you? Paying for your dinner or Paying for your car? My view concerning princess treatment is biased. I want a Princess to explain these rules. Educate me!

2006-10-20 07:17:41 · 19 answers · asked by elliott 4

I have known this girl for a few months, she is on my sports team and i really like her. I have spent time with her watching a movie with just the 2 of us and what not but I don't know what I should do. Should I kiss her when we're alone or should I ask her out first? Thanks.

2006-10-20 07:16:51 · 16 answers · asked by Adrian J 1

i have a boyfriend but the problem is that we fight a lot about if one of use us cheading on one another i fell that he is ceading on me beause he as a lot of grils number in his phone but he say that they are only his friends but then he say that he is coming to my house and he doesent he always have a excues to no come and see me and he alwaye have some thing to do just to not see me
i wonder if he is cheading on me or is only mind?

2006-10-20 07:16:22 · 18 answers · asked by cristal 1

They all have a man and want me to play with her and her man and I have one of my own. The women that are, are so fake and don't care to go past cyber sex. I mean please, let's grow up already! I can't find a perfect woman for just me to save my life!

2006-10-20 07:16:06 · 3 answers · asked by nonnasmomma 1

Because sometimes they say no even if they mean yes when I ask them up-front. Is it better to just look for signs, play it cool, and go from there?

2006-10-20 07:15:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and i have been going out foe nearly 10 months now, although he hasn't kissed me once and is only just starting to hug me.i've dropped hints like lead balloons but he either ignores them or's just plain dumb.he also plays realy stupid and imeture,and i want to step the relationship up to antother levelwhilst he is being him and not playing the clown for his and my mates.i think i love him but how do i show my love if he won't talk to me about his feelings or let me near him without turning into stone.i wouldn't even mind if it was just a snog,at least that's better than nothing.

2006-10-20 07:15:27 · 14 answers · asked by bxiok 2

This might seem wierd, but I think womwn with shaven cooters are sexy as hell. I can't help it. I have only once slept with a girl whi actually was completely shaven. I was just curious, how common is this now?

2006-10-20 07:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by Scott K 4

I've had my first night together with this guy that Im seeing and I want to make it even more special by putting a rose on his car while he's at work. The only thing I can think of it to get the rose and then text him to let him know that its from me. What color rose should I get and what should I say on the text. Or should I not text at all and just leave a card or something. I don't want to do the whole "thank you for last night" crap. I want it to be a bit more original. Help me please.

2006-10-20 07:13:09 · 7 answers · asked by Fuzzybunny95531 4

is there any way to make a guy want to be with you? I'm not talking about sleeping with you, but want to have you in their life on a more serious level? There's a guy i'm into, and i know full well he's into me, but we're really just taking things slow right now. Is there anything I can do to reassure him that i'm not going to hurt him, and that i do want to be with him? any ways to make him feel the same for me?
my apologies for sounding like a 12 year old girl, i'm just really confused right now.

2006-10-20 07:11:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

The person i love lives in cali and i live in Louisiana i want to move to cali but then again i want to finish skool i am leaving to go to cali on nov 15 is this the rite decision or is it a mistake??? But i think it's worth it how bout u they r my dream come true

2006-10-20 07:10:20 · 14 answers · asked by moneybaby_2007 1

when your with a person for a year and a half and it is obvious that you are not happy in the relationship, why does it hurt so much to end it? i dont like the pain, i'm not trying torture myself. i know that me and him arent getting along but i just cant stop thinking about him and wanting to be with him. Am i crazy?? i know this sounds crazy but i do love him and i am in love with him but we just argue so much and it's stressful on me. i'm confused...dont know what to do...

2006-10-20 07:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by girlwiththegoodies 3

I am madly in love with a guy, and he has even asked me to marry him. He is pretty manly about things, almost macho. Except when he has to leave me for work or to finally to go sleep, when has to do that he cries and tells me how much he will miss me, how much he loves me. Should I be concerned?

2006-10-20 07:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

I am a nice guy, but kind of picky. Any advice on meeting good, honest women.....let me know if I am missing something. I'm in good shape, good job, I have personality. Help a fella out!

2006-10-20 07:07:34 · 36 answers · asked by clipsegsxwidsm 2

if you were going to be served to your man as a sushi platter, how would you decorate yourself? Would you use fake levels over your breasts and private area, then place sushi on the leaves? What would do do?? THis is going to be sooooooo much fun!!!!

2006-10-20 07:07:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 07:07:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What i mean is if youre a girl and youre even remotely attractive all you gotta do is leave your house in the morning and guys will que up to date you. But it dont work the other way around. If youre a guy(even a good looking guy)girls will never que up to date you. I know everybody gotta make an effort to find somebody taht it doesnt just happen but sometimes it seems its a little easier for girls. Is this the way the world is, one of those things you cant change and gotta accept?

2006-10-20 07:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf broke up with me recently and left me stranded after being with him for almost 3 years. I was young and realized how psychologically "infantalized" i was under him even though i was socially and educationally sound. I was 19 then. Now, i've met a younger guy (but still 4 years older) and he is very Handsome. He looks just like this picture and his personality is sweet.
http://www.photorazzi.com/store/category.cgi?item=JTM-017166&type=store
The only problem is my "ex" still calls me and in his voice he seems to indicate a kind of sticky attachment thats still left in him and i'm afraid it would reignite a messed up relationship. My question is, I'm afraid to date again and the new guy asked me (a week ago) if i was in a mood to travel with him to US Virgin Island. I like him but i'm also very afraid to fall into trap? Please help. Thanks.

2006-10-20 07:06:50 · 2 answers · asked by savio 4

between the ages 38 and 50 feel like emailing me.
just to get to know each other.
heartssnarrows@yahoo.com

2006-10-20 07:06:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i get the guy i've started seeing to tell me how he feels, and what he wants from our relationship? we're not officially a couple, but we are sleeping together. I hope that things will evolve into something more serious, but i dont' know how he feels about it. he says that i'm "10 steps ahead of him." what do you think?

2006-10-20 07:05:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you judge each situation by the guy or do you always do the same thing?

2006-10-20 07:03:51 · 29 answers · asked by mydollar 1

I am a 24 y/o with a situation. I am about to move out of my parents house in with my Boyfriend. My parents are very traditional, and I think they will have a problem with it. I am planning on moving with or without their support, but I want to know what's the easiest way to break the news. Thanks!

2006-10-20 07:03:41 · 11 answers · asked by flwrgyrl 2

When meeting for a coffee. Jeans and a white T-shirt a suit or just a nice shirt and pants?

2006-10-20 07:03:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous