Singles & Dating - 15 October 2006

Where was it? What did the people do when they saw you? What did you guys do when people saw you "having fun in nature" and getting a tan while you were at it.. ;)

2006-10-15 08:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

I am 13 years old(almost 14) and i am very close to a girl
shees pretty, cute, and smart
one time at the movie theater witha group of freinds we made out
is it strange that we arent "going out"
all my freinds are trying to pressure me into asking her out, but i say that since we have done things like just hang around together or such that we have gone out just without the title and commitment with which it goes
does anyone understand or have tips or thoughts?

2006-10-15 08:20:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 08:20:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 08:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by MizzzIndependant9 1

2006-10-15 08:20:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 08:19:21 · 22 answers · asked by MizzzIndependant9 1

2006-10-15 08:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by MizzzIndependant9 1

2006-10-15 08:18:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just got a new cell phone so one knows my number yet. they don't even know i got the phone so no one will suspect it's me. I want to send my boyfriend a text message. it can be about ANYTHING because he won't know it's me! =] it can be funny,dirty,stupid, whatever! thanks!

ps-we're 16...

i like the whole pretending to be his secret admirerer but what should i say??

2006-10-15 08:18:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 08:17:17 · 21 answers · asked by want to know 1

Okay, I like this guy a lot. His locker is about 20 lockers away from mine. Well, I catch him staring at me in I.Tech. a lot, and my friends even see him staring at me, too. Well, I.Tech. is the only class that we have together, and he sits way on the other side of the room. We also have the same lunch period as well, and he only stares at me a couple of times during lunch.

Well, I had my friend ask him if he liked me, and he shook his head, "No". But he still continues to stare at me. I don't know if he was just lying to my friend, or not, but I have to find out if he does like me or not!

Than, there was a or going around the school that I was going out with him, which was not true of course, so I asked him why people are saying that we're going out. He didn't even know that it was happening! Than another guy right next to him told me that the ors were true, and I, as well as him, were just like, "What?".

My friends think that he likes me, but I'm still not sure...

So, please, help me clear some stuff up! I am so clueless! :D

Thank you so much!

2006-10-15 08:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this gurl i like in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her and once i even gave her a teddy bear and i've been really nice 2 her without her acting diferent in any way. But in the last few days i've noticed that shes acting diferently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me. When she says bye 2 me shes starting 2 say it in that i like u-ish tone. Has she picked up my signals and started 2 like me or is it just my imagination?

2006-10-15 08:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a freak when it comes to the bedroom and i like to have threesomes but my boyfriend doesn't ive been trying to get him to have one but he won't i even offered to let him pick the chick we would have it with but he still said no. WHY????????

2006-10-15 08:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you were snobed by a rich azzhole?

2006-10-15 08:14:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 yr old male seeking advice. My lust problem started at 16. At the time, I was in severe mental pains with severe depression. I tried sports, reading books, riding bicycle, etc. to mitigate the pains. However, it would only dull pains temporarily and never fixed my depression.
At the time, I didn't even know depression is a serious mental illness. I felt I have to somehow overcome it with my mental strength.
The pain was just too much for me to bear and I desperately wanted to find escape route from it. I knew how bad, evil drugs, alcohol, tobacco, sex were. So I stayed away from them.
Then I found masturbation and porn and I was hooked to it instantly. I have never even thought it could be addicting cuz everyone said it is healthy and normal way to relieve tensions. Hence, I didn't feel guilty at all and have been using them as escape route until recently.
Now I am having to deal with lust problem on daily basis in addition to severe depression. Can you offer me advice?

2006-10-15 08:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1

a girl living in a 3rd world country with only your mom in a small house, then one day you meet a nice handsome guy (Cute, good heart & smart). He declares that he likes you very much, and wants to invite you to America (Miami Beach, FL to be exact..) and also would like something more special in the relationship. What would you say? You are 21, and he is 19 , and we're in both in school. We've known each other since 2003 though we stopped talking from 04-05, and we started to talk again this summer of 06.

Asking this cuz sometimes I don't get her.........I've come to the conclusion that she is either scared of committing with someone like me, she's dumb, or not interested. Mixed signals are a bliss.

2006-10-15 08:11:25 · 11 answers · asked by FeverLust 3

Everytime in the last couple of months i get more and more turned on by my gf everytime im with her.And many times even when she's not there.Sumtimes ive to hide my...well u know the hard mass from her.Once she felt it when we were close...i tried to get her expression and it looked as if she was trying to hide a smile.I dint sak her anyhting as i was too embarassed.One time i cud cleraly make out wen she put her hand on it to c wheteher i had one(i almost came in her hand) and then quickly changed the topic.Now she's 18 and im 19.I dunno how to bring out this topic to her...coz i luv her and i dont want this to end with her thinkin im some pervert.i want this to continue.So shud i ask her to go for it as in u knwo the next step or shud i just keep quite?It's not that she's totally religious or anyhting it's just that everytime i picture even bringing out the topic i picture the worst .Also are these signs of deprivation?Have i acted too late or am i jusst goin too "Woof....Woof"?

2006-10-15 08:09:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I I met up with an old work colleague on a dating site earlier in the year, since then we have been chatting online and have done some gentle flirting... I went to his work place, (not as a stalker but since its a recreational place where he works) and I said hi as I walked past but he didn't speak, we chatted online last night and I suggested that we met up and I was as open as I could about how I felt about him but he hasn't replied, and hasn't been online since, What have I done wrong? Have I been too overpowering / too forward?

2006-10-15 08:09:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would sleep with all of them is that wrong?????

2006-10-15 08:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a young man and have been broken a few times, and each time it has happened, it gets harder for me to get up.

I am now at a point where I just cant be stuffed getting into another relationship, and its been about a year. I know I'm an attractive young man, and I have no problems getting female attention or dates. The problem is, my heart is in a mess. I dont know what to do. I have no interest in hitching up with a girl just for the cheap company, I am above that, not to mention its unfair.

But yet, I cant help but feel lonely. I am sick of yearning for that special girl, especially when I dont know who she is. Sometimes I think I may have set my bar to high. You say go meet new people? I have, and I only see repetition, fakeness and shallowness.

So tell me in all your wisdom, what has become of me? I am a walking contradiction, and I dont know what to do. The pain of solitude is slightly more bearable than another awful mistake. The innerworkings of a Scorpio here...

2006-10-15 08:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lucky 1

i have been dating a lady longdistance, we havnt gone further than dating yet, and we chat for hrs one thing though is confusing me a bit, my gf says she has an hiv test every 6 months cos 4 yrs ago, and she says she hasnt slept with anyone else since , they had lots on unprotected sex, do u think she is teling the truth and just being safe or do u think she is lieing and still have unprotected sex and not telling me, apart from this she is perfect and a lady and everything i cud ask for

2006-10-15 08:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by mikealedmonds 1

Believe me i noe it sounds pethatic and immature but i am tired of everything. I am in love with a good friend of mine and she does not feel the same and Believe me I have tried so hard for the past 6 month to get over her but I can't. Tonight we had a fight because der is something she is not telling me since she thinks it might hurt me. It's worse cause i keep thinking what that could be. a boyfriend or .... I am sure I would be happy for her because all i want is for her to be happy with or without me but i am tired of being kept in dark. I noe i will never love anyone else since der is no more room in ma life and those who say time will heal it i guess 8 month is almost enuf to at least make small changes but all i have is a crazy love for someone who will never love me back ...

2006-10-15 08:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by bandari 2

Should I move out?
My Problem is this:

When I was in primary school I fell in love with a boy called Skye

But then when it came too high school, he got sent to a private all boy's school far away and I got sent to the local comprehensive.

I thought I'd NEVER see him EVER again and despaired...as I really did love him.

Around about the same time my Grandmother of whom I was VERY close to died. She practically raised me.My mother never seemed to bother with me. However I never noticed this neglect (by my mother)until my Grandma died.

I noticed that I was very unsupported by my mother and in general uncared for. Sometimes she was also emotionally abusive towards me--sometimes she could be so nasty she'd make me cry.

Because of all these things(the death of my Grandma, the loss of Skye and also the uncaring attituse at home) I began to feel very depressed.

Then I made a TERRIBLE mistake:

Somedays I felt so low I found it almost impossible to think about the future and sometimes couldn't find the will-power to get up in the mornings.I started to refuse to go to school asn I felt so low. I'd been bullied VERY VERY badly at the primary school i went to (before I moved to the one Ian was at)which also made me quite nervous of people and scared of school too.However I recieved no help, no counselling or anything(do you think this was neglect?)

I refused to go to High school on-and-off for the first three years by which time I was REALLY REALLY very behind in my work.I then refused to go to school altoghether as I couldn't cope any more with my life. I was SEVERELY depressed and wasn't thinking logically. I ended up having 5 measly hours of home tuition per week, for the next two years which should have been spent in school. Unsurprisingly I then failed all my GCSEs (apart from one, where I got a 'C' in English)I felt so depressed. I then have stayed at home doing nothing for the past two years as I have felt too embarrassed to face the world.

However this is my problem:

I am now 18...it has got to the point where I can't do nothing anymore..I HAVE to do something with my life.
I now want??/need to go to college. However I have just found out thet the college I wanted to attend is right next door to the top educational sixth form which Skye goes to. If I go there then I will definantely bump into him&but the thing is he will NEVER EVER be interested in me now (even if he used to be when I was ok).how on earth canI explain to him WHY I refused to go to school? Hes going to think I am a bad person .

But the thing is he's studying 'A' levels at a top sixth form college. And I .....will probably have to go on an Entry level course and learn really basic stuff like how to cook, use public transport etc(basically for absolute dim-wits)

He'll NEVER EVER be interested in me now. He's in a different league to me. He's so clever.but this is killing me. I wish I could be with him more than anything in the world but as soon as he finds out that's it....my dream...dead......finished

Also even if I go to a different college, it's inevitable that i'll bump into him whilst out and about anyway.(I just cant believe that I DIDNT THINK ABOUT THIS years ago&.i just wasnt thinking properly) But If I ignore him then he'll think I'm not interested i him, when I am. But if I talk to him he'll not like me anyway when he finds out what I've done. He'll think I;m a terrible person.


Also, one of the reasons why I couldn't cope with school was because of the neglect/emotional abuse that I suffered at home. I thought that if I moved out into the local Foyer/hostel then it would offer Skye a bit of validation that I couldn't cope with/was having a bad time at home and he might believe me then when I told him about the neglect. But....if I stay where I am (living at home with my parents) and go to college then he's going to wonder why it is that I can cope with education/school/college now....but not back then...in short he's going to think I'm making it up about the neglect.What should I do about this?
Should I move out of home?. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME MOVING OUT? If i moved out then I thought it would offer Skye a bit of proof/validation that what I told him abou the neglect/me having difficulties at home was true...so he'd believe what I told him. Do you think I should move out of home and into the local hostel/Foyer? It's just ....if I don't move out then he'll wonder why it is that I couldn't cope with living at home and education back then...but can now. In short he'll think I'm a liar and I'll lose him.

Also sometimes I don't think I can bear to face Skye at all.... and so.......
i HAVE DEEPLY CONSIDERED going to Wales and living in a Foyer/hostel there................... so that I never have to face Skye ever again (because it's inevitable that we'll meet) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS IDEA? I live in England you see...in the North West of England.
Or could I move out to Wales for a few years.....then after a few years in Wales once I've sorted my life out (away from Skye) then come back home/to England again ...and try to find Skye then? Or do you think this is a stupid idea?

PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-10-15 08:07:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my lover had a fight now... he broke up with me.... he humiliated me ....i love him and i can't live with out him...but if i go back he would think am weak and humiliate me more....what can i do ?:(

2006-10-15 08:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by sweet cherry78 2

im not a sl*ut of any kind.it just certain boys i desire sexually.i do not have sex wit them just in my head.

2006-10-15 08:05:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i know i may be asking the same question over and over and talking of the same guy as in my previous questions.but i cant help it i m seriously too depresed and i need to listen to peoples mature advice..so what happeend is that this guy who i have been hanging out with so much and did stuff with..well he left yesterday to another sttate...and he isnt the commitment type so i guess he just had his fun with me...so before he left i thot he wud ask me to meet or something but he DIDNT EVEN CALL before he left..so i decided to call him..and he was in the airport..but when i call he talks properly but HE HIMSELF didnt call..now what do u think of that??? and right now its mornign and hes gone an i feel so depresed and Im missing him SOO MUCH but he proly dusnt care he will just go there and play around with other girls..plz tell me how to get over this guy>> I NEED TO GET OVER THIS GUY..i m crying my eyes out everyday..HOW do i realize that Hes NOT WORTH IT??

2006-10-15 08:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by M 1

2006-10-15 08:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together for almost 7 years. i went to different country to work for 6 months after the training i found out that he got another girl pregnant. we haven't saw each other for one year planning to go back this december. How will i react if i saw him with the gurl and the baby? do i need to talk to him when i saw him?

2006-10-15 08:04:19 · 8 answers · asked by pink_sling 1

in the relationship kind of way? He's a guy

2006-10-15 08:03:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been a month hes not bothered to get back in touch :(
hes my very good friend n i really like him alot.
i miss him n his stupid lil conversations....
he was my best bud..
i mailed him n tried my best.... nothing is wrong.... but WHY dint he reply???
i cant forget him
nor i can think of moving on cause hes ALWAYS on my mind,,,,
i dont think i deserve this....................... :(
i want him back :( :( :(

2006-10-15 08:02:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous