in the relationship kind of way? He's a guy
2006-10-15 08:03:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No...I married my best friend...we were friends for 10 years before we started dating...
2006-10-15 08:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, cause right now you are just friends. If you wanna be with him then take the plunge and just ask him out, see how he feels about you. Otherwise you'll get hurt when you see him with someone else. If he says no, then move on, and just value the friendship that you'll still have, might be a little awkward at first, but don't put too much pressure on it, and you'll both get past that, especially if you are best friends. If he says yes, he might have stronger feelings for you then you think, and you two could hit it off, and are maybe meant to be together. There are a number of possibilities for where this could go, both positive and negative, but the only way to find out is to ask him. My best friend had strong feelings for me, but I didn't want to chance it that I would loose him as a friend, and we're still just best friends. I do love him, but just as my best friend. Go for it though, you've got nothing to loose, and you don't wanna have any regrets.
2006-10-15 08:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes sense to me. "Relationships" - if I understand your use of the term - are just friendships with some added nakedness.
If you like someone as a friend, appreciate their beliefs and values, way of being, etc. AND want to get naked with them...
Next question is: Do they reciprocate, and how do I let them know without ruining the friendship? Thoughts on that: If the friendship is too fragile to handle honesty/disclosure of such feelings, maybe it's not worth protecting!
2006-10-15 08:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by justhinking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best and more lasting relationships are based in friendship so yes it is perfect if he loves you too. It does not get any better than that.
2006-10-15 08:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer tell him to no longer talk along with her or ask him to no longer talk along with her, because of fact in case you are attempting this and he fulfills your needs at last he will resent you for giving him an order or direct command. additionally, in case you tell hm or ask him and he would not comply, you will resent him for no longer complying. in simple terms clarify to him the kind you sense, and tell him you thought that it could be reliable for the two one among you to talk approximately this and set your ideas comfy and are available up with a answer given which you do no longer want to sense jealous, that it quite gets you down. if he's a sturdy boyfriend he will understand, and in all probability recommend something alongside the strains of no longer speaking to her one on one and in simple terms seeing her in a putting have been you're present day because of fact it style of feels which you're all acquaintances.
2016-10-19 10:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by agudelo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women, you do realize that guys are friends with girls in the hopes that one day they might have a relationship with them, guys may never admit it but its fairly true
2006-10-15 08:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, But leave sex out of it, wait till you are married for that. Sex will only ruin the only real chance of true love.
2006-10-15 08:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love thy neighbor as thyself
2006-10-15 08:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It is okay to love your best friend.
2006-10-15 08:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by tink172007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not wrong you could love your best friend even date them but you have to find out if thats what they want... if they want to take things to the next step.......
2006-10-15 08:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋