Believe me i noe it sounds pethatic and immature but i am tired of everything. I am in love with a good friend of mine and she does not feel the same and Believe me I have tried so hard for the past 6 month to get over her but I can't. Tonight we had a fight because der is something she is not telling me since she thinks it might hurt me. It's worse cause i keep thinking what that could be. a boyfriend or .... I am sure I would be happy for her because all i want is for her to be happy with or without me but i am tired of being kept in dark. I noe i will never love anyone else since der is no more room in ma life and those who say time will heal it i guess 8 month is almost enuf to at least make small changes but all i have is a crazy love for someone who will never love me back ...
2006-10-15 08:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by bandari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The last thing you ever want to do is think about ending your life over someone else! My uncle burned his house to the ground and blew the brains out of the back of his head over a cheating wife!!! You know what happened to her? She went on to marry the guy she was cheating with! It didn't affect her any, but only condemned him to an eternity in hell and a family left in grief! My grandma still cries about my uncle and he killed his self 26 years ago this Halloween!! Think about it! This is not a joke either! My family has hurt for years over this and we have watched her go on to have a happy. You are the only person who has control over your life, don't make choices based on how other people feel about you! Someone will come along that will make you forget oh what's her name? Just give it time...don't make the mistake my uncle did!!!!
2006-10-15 08:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by slip2eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I am in love with someone who doesnt love me.We fell in love at the wrong time, worst possible time for both of us. We have been cruel to each other, have both sufferred. He doenst believe the depth of my love, he doubts me. I have shared my life with him and he thinks as you do, that I am hiding something from him. Look hard at your lover, try to see what she has done for you, people are sometimes only capable or limited in their communication based on their past and their position in the present relationship. I will never get over my love for him. I have tried to let go of him but cant. He is with another right now, and my heart is broken. I pray that you find peace and take the good you had with her and grow and learn. She just wasnt the right soul at this time. No cliche sayings here. It hurts something awful. I almost ended my life last march because of this relationship and the pain involved. So my friend, dont do anything so permanent, and look towards your faith for comfort and guidance and know you are not alone. GodSpeed.
2006-10-15 20:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by racingfox1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short to end it your self . If you really fell this way than
go join the war because out there is no time to think about silly
things like you have no one to love you back . Besides it sounds
like you need to love your self first . There is no one that is worth
taking your own life . Make some changes in your life but , do it
for your self . And in time the one for you will come along when
you less expect . Be good to your self and live to your fullest .
2006-10-15 08:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of vise a verse all you have to do is think positive and keep on moving. that is what some people like to see is that when person is down they began to kick them instead of helping them. I know I've been there. if you she her that you care about what she thinks she'll keep up the game, because it makes her feel good that you are running after her. instead of moving on. Most time when a women sees that your moving on they get jealous because they are no longer the center of attention. and that you no longer is putting her first she be kissing your feet later on. you can best believe that, especially if you're a good man. But don't you worry what goes around always goes around. it could be a month from now 10 years from now are maybe even a life time but it always do come around.
2006-10-15 08:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill man there are allot of woman there that can make you happy like me ;) hahah do not be so hard on yourself you deserve better and ending your life for a gurl???? You cannot go any lower man use your head do not talk about those things if I was the gurl I would hit you for saying that you are special dont ever forget THAT
2006-10-15 08:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude take it slow there are many other girls out there I waz in the same position as u. I had this ex gf she waz my first although I use to play around and before our break up she said she don't know wat she'll do if we ever break up she will cry non stop.and dude doh end ur life she not worth it becaz killing urself she'll cry jus 4 a little time and then she is back out there with some other guy. no lie would of die 4 my ex but knowing how she is now she ent worth a **** sorry 2 say so .And dude is God who gave life so let him take life...so good luck 4 her.
2006-10-15 08:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, you will find the love of your life. TRUST ME! it's hard to love someone who doesn't love you back but it's not the end of the world. happens to everyone. once you move on, you'll realize that there are so many other girls out there who are more compatible with you. you're still attached to her bcz somewhere deep down, you think one day you'll be with her and i have a feeling she's making you feel that way. she wants to play both sides. have you but have fun with others too. it's a web she's got you in. get out! and then you'll be able to find your love.
2006-10-15 08:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant force her to love you but try being nice to her and let her know that you are ther for her. Tell her that it wont hurt you if she tells you. Im glad that you want her to be happy but try to be happy yourself because you may not know it but she probally wants you to be happy. If you really love her ask her nicely to give you one chance you will change for her. well good luck
2006-10-15 08:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by christina t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ending your life will not solve anything, So then you die and meet your maker. He will then ask " Why did you kill yourself? " You will then tell Him " Over the love of a girl " He will then ask you who you love more? Him or the girl? Remember God gave you life, so cherish it!
2006-10-15 08:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, seems ur indian.......
come to canada; there are shitloads of hot chicks here..........u will forget her in a matter of minutes....
2006-10-15 08:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋