I'm a young man and have been broken a few times, and each time it has happened, it gets harder for me to get up.
I am now at a point where I just cant be stuffed getting into another relationship, and its been about a year. I know I'm an attractive young man, and I have no problems getting female attention or dates. The problem is, my heart is in a mess. I dont know what to do. I have no interest in hitching up with a girl just for the cheap company, I am above that, not to mention its unfair.
But yet, I cant help but feel lonely. I am sick of yearning for that special girl, especially when I dont know who she is. Sometimes I think I may have set my bar to high. You say go meet new people? I have, and I only see repetition, fakeness and shallowness.
So tell me in all your wisdom, what has become of me? I am a walking contradiction, and I dont know what to do. The pain of solitude is slightly more bearable than another awful mistake. The innerworkings of a Scorpio here...
2006-10-15 08:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try EHarmony and be brutally honest about what you really like and how you like to live... don't put down how you 'want' to live or what you think someone will want to read.
There are gals with compatible ideals and lifestyles out there... make it possible for you to recognize each other and make contact. If nothing else, you might find some cool friends that will help restore your hope and fun in dating.
2006-10-15 08:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by toastposties 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... im really sorry to hear that i know how u feel though... im kinda right there with u... wow i really dont no what to say( thats not normal i always have somethin to say bout stuff like this) how old r u? n what happened so bad that u dont want to try it again? what doesnt kill u makes u stronger hun
an dont ever lower ur standards for someone u will find the right girl things jus take time hun when u find the right girl all this heart ach will be worth it in the end u wont even think about ur past because nothing else will matter when u have her
sorry if u dont get it lol well good luck hope everything works out for u an remeber u only live once an u cant take anything back so live each day as it was ur last i no i no corny lol :)
2006-10-15 08:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i'm not gonna say you that you wrong 'cause you're right, i see it too! there are some really low and slutish girls. i'm a girl in SA and i have a lot of guy friends and they have it too but if it's meant to be you will find that girl i know cause some how you need to have something to believe in to make to want to try. I tell you i have the same problem i know that i'm cute and stuff since i have guys asking me out all the time but when you're heart has been broken so many times you begin to wonder hey? if you ever just need i friend to e-mail or something it's alot easier explaining things to a stranger who isn't there just e-mail me at resedacow@yahoo.com and i'll help promise.
beauty starts on the inside and then grows outward!
2006-10-15 08:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I was in the same predicament..
Sadness is really caused when you believe in a lie.
Don't assume anything about girls. Most are bitches, select
few are not. They just need love and if you give it to them,
they'll return it 10 fold.
Also kindness,respect, perservarance go a long way, just
need to trust in yourself. But don't get pushed over and
don't overdo stuff if shes not diggin you.
Don't need to chase girls,
you'll only get the man-eaters. Wait for the right girl,
do a little background/family check and see if you
can work something.
take care & gluck
2006-10-15 08:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by canuckclint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sound like a true romantic that falls in love easy. Your young so hang in there. Someone will come along that will love you the way you should be loved. Hang in there.
2006-10-15 08:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find the person that you are deep inside yourself. Search and find that person bring him forward find out who he is make him shine! Then and only then when you've found yourself will you able to find someone to love you for who you truly are how can you have that now if you don't know yourself.
2006-10-15 08:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by dylansmere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it,stop playing games,and move on.
2006-10-15 08:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋