gf question???

Question

i have been dating a lady longdistance, we havnt gone further than dating yet, and we chat for hrs one thing though is confusing me a bit, my gf says she has an hiv test every 6 months cos 4 yrs ago, and she says she hasnt slept with anyone else since , they had lots on unprotected sex, do u think she is teling the truth and just being safe or do u think she is lieing and still have unprotected sex and not telling me, apart from this she is perfect and a lady and everything i cud ask for

Answer 1

if she had unprotected sex she was right to have a hiv test - only if the results we inconclusive would she be asked to take another one. I very much doubt if the clinic would offer continuing hiv tests if the original test was clear and she hasn't had unprotected sex since - that would be a waste of money and resources. She's lying about something - either she's been sleeping around or maybe it's a STD that she needs continuing treatment for and doesn't want to tell you.

Answer 2

Well if she is having one every 6 month it could mean that she thinks she was expose to it that's usually what the Dr. tells you to do have the test every 6 month to make sure that you did not get infected. But if you like this girl so much and you guys are dating you need to ask her plain and simple what is actually going on cause if she thinks she got infected and still has unprotected sex with someone she can be charge with manslaughter for exposing someone else to the fatal infection, Till you are sure whats going on with this person don't have unprotected sex with her or with anyone at all AIDS is a killer and it kills you slowly I seen too many die of this infection is not worth it.

Answer 3

Chances are that she is not having any more unprotected sex. If she found out she was with someone that is hiv positive, she has about three more years to see if she is going to have it or not. She is being safe and that is very respectable. Stand by her if you can through this and I'm sure she'll be a very good and loyal partner for you. Just watch the sex for the next three years until you are sure she is safe.

Answer 4

If she had unprotected sex 4 years ago then it wouldn't have shown up at the time she was initially tested. A further test 6 months later would be all that was required unless she was still having unprotected sex or lacked the education to realise that if you dont have sex you cant catch STDs

Answer 5

express your concern to her. Thats the only way to find out the truth, and your question will eat away at you until you find out. Believe her, whatever she says, if there is still doubt in your mind, then end it, cause what kind of relationship would that be if you can't trust her? The good thing about doing this is the fact that this will make your relationship more open, and will strengthen it once you resolve it.

Answer 6

it quite is sick and he needs to end the relationship. His ex is comfortable with this? Thats in simple terms sick. She ought to have quite low self self assurance to think of its ok to be somebody's sideline chick. She ought to understand she merits greater desirable than that. he's a jerk for permitting this habit. yet he would not want to wreck his present day gf? Yeah superb. How does he think of she's gonna sense whilst she famous out the reality? She's gonna throw a occasion? i think of no longer! She's gonna be pissed on the reality that she had no say so in this twisted affair. he's sexin the ex and his present day....HELLOOOOO!!!! do we are saying ailments and STD's waiting to take place? however the unfavourable gf would not even understand! Thats completely no longer honest to her she ought to have a say in wether she needs to handle this relationship or no longer. He needs to come back sparkling and rapid. on condition that he needs to work out and characteristic intercourse together with his ex lots then why don't you be along with her? yet atleast he needs to guy up and tell his present day gf whats up!

Answer 7

she's been very upfront with you and you should try to respect the trust she has put in you. do not have unprotected sex with her but it may be that you are looking for a way out as you don't like the sound of it.

Answer 8

she might be lying...because why would she still be having tests every 6 months when she claims that she hasn`t had sex since 4 years ago.

Answer 9

try dating someone closer to home and see how that works if you haven't made any commitment. see how it goes and then decide. but keep chatting and ask her why she is cautious and remember that safe sex can be good sex to

Answer 10

Im not sure but use protection. Something funny about it, ask if her ex has HIV or AIDS.