Everytime in the last couple of months i get more and more turned on by my gf everytime im with her.And many times even when she's not there.Sumtimes ive to hide my...well u know the hard mass from her.Once she felt it when we were close...i tried to get her expression and it looked as if she was trying to hide a smile.I dint sak her anyhting as i was too embarassed.One time i cud cleraly make out wen she put her hand on it to c wheteher i had one(i almost came in her hand) and then quickly changed the topic.Now she's 18 and im 19.I dunno how to bring out this topic to her...coz i luv her and i dont want this to end with her thinkin im some pervert.i want this to continue.So shud i ask her to go for it as in u knwo the next step or shud i just keep quite?It's not that she's totally religious or anyhting it's just that everytime i picture even bringing out the topic i picture the worst .Also are these signs of deprivation?Have i acted too late or am i jusst goin too "Woof....Woof"?
2006-10-15 08:09:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know how much she turns you on! That is a healthy and natural/beautiful thing to share with the one you love. If you aren't ready for sex, don't rush it, but be honest about how excited you get just thinking about her, that is very sweet and complementary of your other feelings towards her. Enjoy that! If your girlfriend was smiling because she knew you were excited, that even shows you more that she likes knowing that she is exciting to you - don't you want to be exciting to her to? Let her know that and also let her know how much you respect her and don't want to rush things, but just want her to know all of your feelings and that there is a lot to look forward to in the future together. Good Luck!
2006-10-15 08:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reaction to your girlfriend is nothing but normal hun believe me. My man is the same way. It may not be a bad smile somtimes when I feel my man getting hard as he holds me close its that feelin of oh you bad boy kinda makes me feel so good inside. I dont know maybe its just me and the way I am but I am very open with my man we call his manhood bubba as a joke I always say seems like bubba wants out today. some girls like it and some well I dont know why they wouldnt its a turn on to me knowin that I have turned my man on without having to do so much work(you know) I would try talkin to her and tell her how you feel and tell her that you dont want to lose her for the sake that you think what she might be thinking of you. I think you should talk to her but of course not while friends are around. be positive and talk openly thats how relationships make it a long time. good luck and if anything else think of sometime else when it starts to happen I know easier said then done but your a man thats what is suppose to happen.
2006-10-15 15:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love her tell her you love herthen wait a while and then talk to her about your"situation" if guys answer this question they will probably say just sack her already but DON'T!take some time and explain to her what you are feeling.
2006-10-15 15:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lexsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait and ot do it till ur married, if you get married
2006-10-15 15:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋