ok i know i may be asking the same question over and over and talking of the same guy as in my previous questions.but i cant help it i m seriously too depresed and i need to listen to peoples mature advice..so what happeend is that this guy who i have been hanging out with so much and did stuff with..well he left yesterday to another sttate...and he isnt the commitment type so i guess he just had his fun with me...so before he left i thot he wud ask me to meet or something but he DIDNT EVEN CALL before he left..so i decided to call him..and he was in the airport..but when i call he talks properly but HE HIMSELF didnt call..now what do u think of that??? and right now its mornign and hes gone an i feel so depresed and Im missing him SOO MUCH but he proly dusnt care he will just go there and play around with other girls..plz tell me how to get over this guy>> I NEED TO GET OVER THIS GUY..i m crying my eyes out everyday..HOW do i realize that Hes NOT WORTH IT??
2006-10-15 08:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for the love of god, just end it!
2006-10-17 14:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think that he's not worth it. If he didnt even call then he is a jerk. Maybe you could try and think of all the bad things about him and the negative things that he has done. Maybe it would help if you go out and meet some other boys or go out with your friends to take your mind off of him.
Alternatively, I wasn't quite sure what you were talking about in the whole, calling him up in the airport thing, but maybe you could call him up and talk to him, if you want to and dont really want to get over him that is.
Hope this helps... I myself am not too sure how to get over people so maybe just try it.
2006-10-15 15:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by NameEditedOut 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, I can't lie to you it may hurt for a minute, but why not enjoy it for what it was, who knows what may happen. He may be back, just try and keep cool. Don't be depressed really it just pointless I can do the same thing too, and start shutting myself off to people. Try if you can to be as optimistic as poosible. Just don't go crazy calling him. Let him contact you, keep as busy as you poosibly can, get out ride a bike, take a class, do anything to get him off your mind and onto you, you have to beleive that you are as valuable as you seem to hold him. If you express positive energy people will be drawn to you, you never know who else is waiting in the wings.
Good luck
2006-10-15 15:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by laurapiano3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Broken hearts are very hard to heal. I know it sounds very trite but time really does heal it. First you must mourn as the loss of a loved one is the same as a death. Then just get on with your life. Please do not hang on to it too long though. One of these days, you will meet the RIGHT person for you.
2006-10-15 15:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by mazell41 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eventually, u will meet another guy that you also enjoy, but no matter what, you will always remeber this guy. its called LIFE. If you have the courage to, tell him how you feel, but its easier said then done trying to tell someone how u feel about them. Iv gone through the same situation as you!
2006-10-15 15:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by J' K '06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sooner or later we all have to move on and the pain slowly goes away... In order to have joy you must also learn pain...
2006-10-15 15:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry u feel like that.maybe u should go out in get sum fresh air do sumthin to get him out yo head.
2006-10-15 15:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey ssup... i read yr answer....indeed we're going thro thesame thing!! yeah u can add me... thts my id... ok ive got many requests so u temme whos u..... yeah itll be damn cool for both o us to talk over this thing....im so glad.... see u there :) other wise 1st mail me
2006-10-16 00:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋