Singles & Dating - 15 October 2006

I have a borderline personality and I am bipolar. I am currently getting help for this now. I am talking to this guy right now and he knows about my problems. I over-reacted to him staying out late and kicked him out of my house. I said I was sorry and asked for another chance and I asked him to come back and he said he has to think about it and not to rush him. I don't want to rush him but I have the feeling that he thinks that I'm going to hurt him because he made the comment when I tryed to explain why I over-reacted that he knew it going to happen and that we were going to break up. I wasn't seeing him for the person he is I was seeing all the people that had hurt me in the past and I thought he was going to hurt me to. I made a mistake for not realizing that he is not the people from my past he is himself and I lost sight of that. I didn't give him a chance and I do understand if he doesn't want to give me a chance now after what happen. I don't know what to do any ideas?

2006-10-15 10:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with my boyfriend for a long time. i'm happy, he is great and everyhting is fine. but lately i've been feeling like i need more, in this relationship everyhting feels so the same. i love him and i would never want to loose him as a friend. i dont know what to do. its like u2 said ."i cant live with or without you"

2006-10-15 10:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can you see yourself ever having sex with him? I'm in a situation where I'm dating a guy but he's not attractive, and he's 20 years older than me but something about him just draws me to him like a magnet. My friends think I'm too pretty for him and they make jokes. How do I get him out of my mind? He seems to be a nice guy...it's just that I can't see myself having sex with him anywhere in the future...

2006-10-15 10:33:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend and i hang out all the time. what are subtle signs a girl can use to tella guy nonverbally that she likes them. my friend gives me tight hugs. she says its always good to see me. she blew me a kiss once. she knows i like her cause i asked her out a year ago. i asked ehr immediately after her ex broke up with her? could that have affected her decision to say no to me? is she giving me signs she wants me? WHATS MY NEXT MOVE?

2006-10-15 10:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by greg J 1

I luv him but he got a gf!

2006-10-15 10:31:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 10:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by The boy from London 6

stop liying to her. Hey your not babys so act like your grown. If your not going to call her than don't say that you will. They say men are jerks. Well you play mind games like your still 5 years old. Grow up.!!!

2006-10-15 10:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by savannahfast 1

2006-10-15 10:28:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy but hardly calls me. What can I do make myself not think about him? So I move on? Help me? Any "Guys" advice.

2006-10-15 10:26:41 · 11 answers · asked by debbard22 2

2006-10-15 10:25:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 10:25:17 · 8 answers · asked by skye 2

2006-10-15 10:23:36 · 12 answers · asked by slaphappy 3

I have a boyfriend that's skinnier than me. Is that bad? Should I try to lose weight? I'm not that big, but he is still smaller than me. What hould I do?

2006-10-15 10:23:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Got new goldfish and want an unusual name, any ideas from you smart guys out there?

2006-10-15 10:22:36 · 31 answers · asked by daka 2

Im a senior in highschool.

I think my standards may be too high, heres why:

1. I usually dont talk that much to girls that i just meet who i dont think are good looking enough to go out with or hang out with.
2. Every time i meet some1 new, in my mind i am jumping to a quick yes or no answer as to weather or not they are good looking enough.

Then the girls i meet who are "good enough" either have a boyfriend, or their personality sucks.

im lost and depressed... help

2006-10-15 10:20:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’ve been seeing this girl, she is a nice person, worked her own way through college and travelled quite a bit. She is a Scholar at University, and also works part time. She is into Social causes, and makes a lil effort towards that. Recently she has started to dress up, otherwise at home she is totally casual, The office she looks so different. She is hot, and she knows it, guys ask her out all the time, she turns them down ASAP, and tells me abt it, it annoys me cause she is my girl. She socializes a lot, makes friends quick, and loves dancing. I’ve had 6 hour conversations on the phone where both of us went to work next day without sleep, usually gives decent feedback and advice; she is like everyone’s best friend.

She is seriously into work, well almost a workaholic, but knows how to Party. I love it when she dresses up, she does manage to find time for us even if it means missing out on sleep and I love that about her. But the problem is, that I cant seem to figure out if

2006-10-15 10:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by TheGuy 1

My boyfriend has been a little down lately, and i want to text him to tell him just how much i love him!
Any good suggestions on what i could say...? I want him to be like "Wow Laura! i didnt realise u felt that way about me."
Remember guys, its to cheer him up, lol so please be serious guys...

2006-10-15 10:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by Loving and loved 2

Would you take a bite from a mans ice cream after he had already eaten half of it if you didn't consider him attractive?

2006-10-15 10:18:04 · 10 answers · asked by song_what 1

girls help me out here I'am a pretty big and muscler guy and thats not bragging I just a football player and thats the way I am but anywho my girl loves to have my arms wrapped around her and holding her close to me sometimes to keep her warm and other times just to cuddle but is this her way of making sure I am hers or is it some kind of secuity reason Now don't get me wrong I love this girl to death I just need to know what that is all about

2006-10-15 10:14:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do guys really care about your appearance, clothes, and friends more than personality?

2006-10-15 10:13:53 · 12 answers · asked by ♥L-L-Lindsayyy...♥ 1

what do you think of a girl thats wants to remain a virgin until she is married? Do you think it's stupid because nowadays it seems like everyone is jus doing anyone.. i dunno..what do ya'll think

2006-10-15 10:13:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Again what are high school juniors/seniors looking for in a guy these days?

2006-10-15 10:12:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf and i have been going out for about a month now but we go to different highschools in the same town (but the town is pretty big so we dont really live close to each other). Anyway, i talk to him every night over the phone, but in the one month we've been going out i have seen him only 3 times.We always make plans to hang out but then he will cancel the very last minute or never call or go out with his friends or family instead. I talked to him about it once, and he said that he was sorry and that he wanted to be with me as much as possible so he would try harder. However, this weekend he canceled on me twice - saturday he said he was ganna call and make plans but never did, and today he called to say he couldn't hang out becuase he was going somewhere with his cousin. The things is other wise he is a very sweet and loving guy.I dont want to whine to him about it again, but i keep getting hurt and i feel like i'm last on his list of priorities.Should i just brake up with him?

2006-10-15 10:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

so.. whats an erection? i dont know what it means, i think its something sexual but idk. and wuts a dyke? and wut duz tranzfestite mean? i put it in this cateory cuz i think i bunch of pervs r here.

2006-10-15 10:11:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

and why are some girls gross out by it? Come it, there has to be a bunch of girls liking the image of a man

2006-10-15 10:10:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 10:10:02 · 3 answers · asked by sooner928 1

2006-10-15 10:08:30 · 10 answers · asked by will d 1

2006-10-15 10:07:06 · 13 answers · asked by will d 1

I met my guy on the personals and I've been seeing him for 6 mos, regularly sleeping with him, acting as boyfriend/girl;friend. Today, right after being with him, I left and went home to pay bills, etc. Having discovered that I was still being charged by Yahoo for a dormant personals subscription, I went into the site to try to find out how to stop the charges (I have a deleted profile, and believed service was stopped). Lo and behold, I discover my favorites are still saved when I check in on the home page, and his lists him as having been active within 24 hours. Having no computer at home, that means he left me and when he went to work
today was on the personals! I am schocked and upset. We were supposed to see each other for dinner on tuesday, and he said he would call me tomorrow (Monday). Help! What do I say/do? I had really really liked the guy, and now I don't know what to think, or how to deal with the situation. Advice please.

2006-10-15 10:05:16 · 14 answers · asked by auntgrace 1

A man I met three weeks ago has become important in my life more quickly than I ever thought possible. He told me I am "the one" after our first date. At first. I pushed him away. Then, something snapped, and I just fell! He is 41, the widowed father of an 8-year old girl. He is the sweetest man I have ever met, but he is also a man who likes to do manly things. That is, he watches sports all the time and owns a construction company. He is not like the wimps I have dated throughout my life. Now, I am asking questions to him ALL THE TIME - questions about "how does he know" or "is he sure," mainly because I want to make sure I know what I am getting into. I have never been married and have never had children, so this is all new to me! Am I crazy, or is this normal? He acts like it is normal to fall in love after only three weeks. Can someone like him handle someone like me, a skeptic?

2006-10-15 10:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by Sincerely84 1