Singles & Dating - 15 October 2006

I found out yesterday that my boyfriend cheated on me wednesday night. Tuesday morning I was instructed by my doctor to not have sex for ten days so that when I returned for my depo-provera shot the preganacy test would be negative. His reason for cheating the very next day was because he was going to be sexually starved. Eventhough the doctor said no vaginal sex, I was available and open to oral sex as much as he wanted. Supposedly he didnt have vaginal sex, he only engaged in oral sex with a hand job( without protection). So, is his reasoning legit or a sorry *** SOB?

2006-10-15 11:13:26 · 22 answers · asked by mslilbit24 2

One night a few months back i was at the corner bar and the bartender and i seemed to hit it off,i gave him my card(for a haircut,i cut hair)and he said"what if i dont need a haircut and i just want to call you"so i gave him my number also.i left the bar and went to a freinds house,he found out i was there and came over(he isfriends with them too)i ended up crashing on the couch and him on the floor.he drove me to my car in the morning and i left it casual with"see you soon".he never called and i heard through a friend he has a girlfriend.A few weeks later i went up to the bar again and he said hi to me as soon as i walked in,his girlfriend was there,but he did not act strange.she left,later that night i left and he yelled"i love you"to me but i kept walking out the door.A mutual friend told me he really does not want to be with the girl he is with.Everytime im up there he tries to stop me before i leave,but usuallyi just walkout thedoorbecause idont wanttogetinvolved with him+girlfrie

2006-10-15 11:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy at my school and I like him. I recently found out he lives on the same street as me and has the same birthday as me. Also i think he likes me too. We both like some of the same music and we talk almost everyday. does it sound like we should get together if he happened to ask me. does it sound like we would be good together.

2006-10-15 11:10:59 · 9 answers · asked by sykochipmunk 1

i've had boyfriends before but i really want one now!
i' m about to go to high school,
how do i flaunt what i got


(also i'm not like some loser, i'm really popular, but usually ppl dont ask me out...)

2006-10-15 11:10:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just started going out with this one boy and i am nervous about talking to him.
how do i come up with a good conversation.
i really love him.

2006-10-15 11:08:41 · 9 answers · asked by laura_jamela 2

What they sayabout guys with big hands and feet?

2006-10-15 11:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Chris TM 1

But shes started letting him back into there life again.
Ok last night a group of us where all at the pub and then we went back to my best friends house for a party. It went on till early hours of the morning and she was asleep on the couch and the rest of us where just chatting and listening to music. Her man got up and started dancing and trying to rub his crutch in my face but I laughed it off. A wee while later I decided it was time to go home to my man. And he said he would come outsiade and wait for a taxi with me, outside he started complementing by behind which I laughed of again and told him to give over cos she was hoping they would get back together. Then he started grabbing my butt and trying to kiss me then I told him to stop because she would kill him if she saw him but he replyed 'she cant see this far down the garden I already checked' I ended up just running back in the house and waiting for my taxi.
But why do I feel guity I didnt do anything.

2006-10-15 11:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by sexie 1

I have a live in boyfriend the sex has dried up and we never speak i have tried to keep things alive but they have gone totally
Today at work i kissed a fellow worker whom made my heart skip a beat i cannot get this other guy out of my head could you give me some pointers on how to let my boyf down gently we have been together 4 years

2006-10-15 11:05:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I guess he's kind of my friend now. We sometimes make out, half naked. No sex. We both just got out of long-term relationships. Anyway, we both get lots of action from the opposite sex in terms of them wanting to date us. However, while I'm a virgin at 20, he's been with 7 girls at 23. I don't know what he wants from me. We talk about deep, intellectual stuff, and we don't have sex. He doesn't really pressure me, although one time I went back to his place so he thought that I wanted to have sex with him and he bought condoms. I then rejected him flat out calling him a male slut. He told me I didn't know what I was talkign about. I told him he was cheapening himself. After we party together, he comes back to my apartment to sleep. No cuddling. We talk about other people we date.

We both reject a lot of people, not to sound pompous, but it's true. He said that he's rejected a "a ton of a**" when I asked him if he wanted sex from me.

I asked him "Why do you talk to me if you know you

2006-10-15 11:05:56 · 6 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1

im in 7th grade and jake is in 8th. hes my ex, and i never meant to like him again, but our friendship has grew and were always dropping hints that we like each other still. ive decided that i should tell my friend haley to tell him something. jake and haley fight a lot, but he tells her everything anyways. their like friends but they basically hate each other, you know? well jake has told haley that he still likes me and i think we should just...you know...work things out, maybe go out again. but i cant just go up to him and ask him out, because if he says no, 1) ill be embarrased. 2) our friendship may be ruined forever. thats why i want haley to tell jake that i still like him and i wanna go out with him again, just have her tell him like its a big secret of mine that she shouldnt be telling him so he doesnt think i totally set him up or something. so should i? or should i just leave it to him?
btw, dont tell me im too young...my mom even thinks i should go out with jake again!!

2006-10-15 11:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im leaving for 7 weeks an my gfwill b stayin here do u think she will stay faithful we been together for 3 months an she sez she realli loves me but she has been unfaithfulin the past with x bfsdo u think she will wi th me?

2006-10-15 11:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by cobra karn 1

2006-10-15 11:03:33 · 20 answers · asked by keith0866 2

does it mean he likes you or somethnig else

2006-10-15 11:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl is in a couple of my classes and we speak here and there, but i asked her out and she said she would think about it. Well the next day she said "there was to much drama in her life right now but she would like to remain frineds" What does that mean? Did i get rejected, but in a nice way?


Any help would be grealty appreciated, thanks!

2006-10-15 11:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by Paul 2

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2006-10-15 10:59:08 · 8 answers · asked by boxer111 3

2006-10-15 10:58:10 · 9 answers · asked by Drea 2

I am not a queer or anything like htat but my and one of my friends are struggling with this topic

2006-10-15 10:57:19 · 5 answers · asked by Susan Parson 1

do with an extra inch or two?

2006-10-15 10:56:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl in my english class. i talk to her once in a while but wen i asked her if she liked me she said NO !!! but the problem is that now she looks at me with a smile on her face. like for example i was talking 2 my friend b4 class and i was standing by the door and she was looking right at me smiling. like one time i gave her a note and told her 2 stop calling me chi chi, because i dont like it. anyways i saw her walking in the hallway and instead of saying HI chi chi she called me by my first name and wen she said it she had a smile on her face. then the other day she asked me if i can lend her a pencil. then after class she was about to give it back but she was about to call me chi chi then she smiled and called me by my 1st name. one time i was talkin 2 my friend and she came outta no where and asked why i was in her but she had a smile, and one time i gave her a lil tap and she hit back. i don't what is happening does she like me or she doesnt or is playing with me idk

2006-10-15 10:54:10 · 16 answers · asked by EJ 1

I love him, and I want him to get better, but his penis is only about 4 1/2 inches. How can I work around that?

2006-10-15 10:51:42 · 21 answers · asked by Shal 1

2006-10-15 10:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by Hilda L 1

My ex- boyfriend put some quote up on his msn, "keep on playing our favourite song, I turn it up while you're gone". I googled it and the song is called "In my head" and it's by Queens of the Stone Age. I'm assuming he has a new girl in his life. I got upset when I saw his msn quote, I dunno why. What do ya'll think? Why would he put that song up? and why am I still angry at him?

2006-10-15 10:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

I met a guy a month ago. His friend had asked me out, and we 3 went out together but we got along better. Anyway, we had made out, talked etc. Two days later he calls me and tells me it was surreal because of the things we said. We both got out of long-term relationships recently. Anyway, I see him on campus again 2 days after that and we talk. He texts me 3 hours after that, asking me when I want to hang out again. He invites me to his friend's party, and we go. Afterwards, he comes with me to my apartment without me really inviting him, and he spends the night, but no sex. Just made out half-naked. (I have issues with sex, which is why i'm a virgin after a 5 year relationship..)

Well, he calls me 6 hours after he left the next morning saying he felt he couldn't trust me, but he wanted to. Then I hear he's asking my friend about me, and he told my friend that I was "cool, challenging-which he likes, but a lying b*tch." He told my friend that I was smart but he felt he couldn't

2006-10-15 10:47:35 · 6 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1

dating a guy for about six weeks now and we ran into a problem last night. He lives an hour from me and we both have busy lives, I have two kids and so for us to get together is a real hassle. So earlier in the week, he asks me so when can I see yo and I said how about Friday, and he says he has a surprise party to go to with his family and I said ok then Sat and he says well I can't make any promises cuz I don't know what the family has planned and I said can't you tell them you have to leave since were trying to make plans? So i drop my kids off at Grandma's so I'll be free and he calls me at 4:30 pm on Sat & says oh I can't make it cuz they got tickets to this dinner and I say why didn't u tell them you were coming to see me? I made alot of accommodations so we could be together. Well, our conversation did not end on a happy note and I pretty much told him I was moving on cuz I know where his importance lies,was I out of line? Or do I have a right to be upset?

2006-10-15 10:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by ooolala 2

I have like heard that guys like uh hit girls when they like them! Well there is dis guy, he is like hella hot. Like uh smoking hot! Well, we were at da bar last nite and he like uh popped me one in the nose, like uh hard! He even like broke my nose! Does this means he uh likes me and wants a more uh sexual relationship?

I just dunno, you know! And then was like told that guys uh like it when we hit and stuff them when we like them. So, I doused him in uh what's that stuff called? Oh yeah, lighter fluid. Then I like lit a match. He went up like a uh Christmas tree! It was like so major funny and he like screamed my name for like thirty minutes. Then the uh, what are they called, oh yeah fearmen came and put him out. The parmists took him in a bus I guess. I dunno, I never saw no bus. Should I tell him I want to be his GF? I dunno what to like do!

2006-10-15 10:45:12 · 20 answers · asked by Social_D 4

2006-10-15 10:44:25 · 8 answers · asked by pretty 1

The guy that I like found out that I like him and I think he likes me but i'm not sure. There are rumors that he likes me but that s just rumors. He founnd out a week or two ago. What should I do

2006-10-15 10:41:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well thier this boy in my school that i like but we dont really talk cause we have no class together but one day when i was going in to the lunch room, he was behind me and my friend was saying hi to his friend and his friend told my i like your hair cause i had just dyed it and he was like i like ur hair and he was all touching it but i didnt pay any mind in tell i saw him and he was so cute lol ...well i want to start talking to him but i dont know how help me please!!!!!

2006-10-15 10:41:21 · 3 answers · asked by sabrina 1

I get turned on by girls "doing it" and so i think im a lesbian...am i? if i am, is it wrong to be a lesbian? is it wrong in the Bible? Cause i love God but i dont know if what i am is wrong.

2006-10-15 10:40:45 · 29 answers · asked by Crystal 2

My mom found out that i had a BF, she wasn't too happy about it. i tried talking to her about it, but she said she couldn't trust me with him...or any other guy. Mom also told me that i had to break up with him, but i really really REALLY don't want too...i love him way to much! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-15 10:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous