I’ve been seeing this girl, she is a nice person, worked her own way through college and travelled quite a bit. She is a Scholar at University, and also works part time. She is into Social causes, and makes a lil effort towards that. Recently she has started to dress up, otherwise at home she is totally casual, The office she looks so different. She is hot, and she knows it, guys ask her out all the time, she turns them down ASAP, and tells me abt it, it annoys me cause she is my girl. She socializes a lot, makes friends quick, and loves dancing. I’ve had 6 hour conversations on the phone where both of us went to work next day without sleep, usually gives decent feedback and advice; she is like everyone’s best friend.
She is seriously into work, well almost a workaholic, but knows how to Party. I love it when she dresses up, she does manage to find time for us even if it means missing out on sleep and I love that about her. But the problem is, that I cant seem to figure out if
2006-10-15 10:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by TheGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
out if she loves me
The trouble is that I know for a fact that sha was in love with her ex boyfriend and it did not work out so she tried to forget him, she never brings him up, and when I do she says that past is the past, and it does not matter. She never kissed him, they were dating for 10 months off and on.
Our 3rd date Is when I kissed her, she had never kissed anyone before, but she kissed me back, and it was for like a few minutes, and then she just hugged me, it was this amazing feeling. Tough I have told her I Love Her, she has not said it back, she says she really really likes me, She called me her guy -
her words were " ur my guy, and i really really like u, dont u know that, and then she kissed me on the cheek'
But, I am not sure if she Loves me?? I am not sure if she is a player?? I do not understand why she cant tell me that she loves me??Did the kiss mean anythin to her, and why whats up with that??
shez not in touch with her ex
2006-10-15 10:19:30 · update #1
but i get this feelin sometimes that she does think abt it sometimes.
She loves to argue, n flight with me, she teases me constantly, and its honestly fun, cause its all a good laugh - and both of us know that
She also told me that, if she could change me she would not, cause she likes me just this way
she said that she loves it when i hug n kiss her, and she loves the things i do, but not once dd she say that she loves me
so what is thiss???
2006-10-15 10:20:34 · update #2
she did not kiss him cause he cheated on her, she knew he was in love with someone else, and she knew that he was all wrong for her
2006-10-15 10:34:30 · update #3
Breathe first and know that she does not love you if she did she would tell you back for really really really really really liking you does not count so be patient and go from there
2006-10-15 10:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's preoccupied with these other things to give you her full attention and confirmation you need.
When she goes to kiss you on the cheek, turn you're head really quick and get her lip to lip... If she's pulling back... I'm going have to call "Illegal motion"... She may love you like a friend, but there isn't much EROS...
Make a romantic dinner and see if she slows down for a little munchy munchy snuggle up time after dinner on the couch with some soft music and maybe a candle or two...
2006-10-15 17:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush if it is the real thing then give it time and it will grow to be beautiful if it's not it will end no mattefr what u do. take a breath everybody is so rushed to figer out what is what and most time miss what is right in front of them the beauty of the moment is a wonderful thing don't push her away bvy tring to see whats going to be just injoy what u have and regardless u will find a happyness that most never do
2006-10-15 17:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by tim h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that was loooooooong.
She sounds like an egninma. If so are you sure she is being real with you.??
It sounds like you are talking out of both sides of your mouth. It is confusing. Ask her to stop telling you about all the guys who ask her out.
Something here doens't ring true to me. So.....make sure she is who she presents herself to be . And make sure you arn't in love with the illusion of her. sounds like you need to make clear what is reality and what isn't.
Make sure you are beling realistic in your expectations with her, becasue she does't sound quite real.
A woman how dates a man for months and loved him but never kissed him????????? that is really really strange. Not much about this makes sense.....are you sure you aren't being used or played?
2006-10-15 17:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. It sounds like your in a REALLY good place right now. Dont try to rush things.It may scare her away. If she is that hot , she is used to guys hitting on her & trying different things on her. YOU ARE ALREADY IN!! I believe that she will come around soon , by the sounds of things.
Good Luck , Bro!
2006-10-15 17:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by groggro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just needs time... sounds like she needs to learn to trust, and when she can, and feel secure enough, she'll let you know how she really feels.
"I love you" is a phrase that packs a punch. You don't want to make a mistake when you say it, and i'm sure she's just taking precautions and time.
Don't worry.
It sounds like she really cares for you, and maybe she loves you.
Give her time.
2006-10-15 17:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by The Cuke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs space
2006-10-15 17:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋