I have a boyfriend that's skinnier than me. Is that bad? Should I try to lose weight? I'm not that big, but he is still smaller than me. What hould I do?
2006-10-15 10:23:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not a bad thing that your boy friend is skinner than you. you guys most likley make a cute couple. dont loose weight and dont fatten up your boy friend. you guys are perfect the way you are and if you guys hooke dup while you were bigger than him and he was smalle rthan you than you mostlikely wont have a problem but if he has a problem with your size or weight dump him. you desreve some one who lieks you for the way you are.
2006-10-15 10:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to be smaller than your boyfriend. Get some self esteem and be proud of who you are. Don't lose weight, or do anything else for that matter, for anyone else but yourself. If you decide you would like to lose weight for yourself to be healthier and a little smaller then great. If he is pressuring you or suggesting it, then dump his a** and get with hero.
2006-10-15 17:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has size go to do with it? That should not be a problem, If you like him, and he makes you happy, and if he is a fun person to be around, that is all that you should be concerned about. Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill. Thank God for what you do have.
2006-10-15 17:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't lose weight because of this-lose weight if it's a health risk. It means nothing that he's lighter than you, he's just a tiny guy!
2006-10-15 17:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by megynoosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! I have this same problem!!! I know it's kinda mean, but i just tell him that he would look better. I've started not eating around him as an example of how he is, but it didn't really help. My advice to you would to just ignore it. It doesn't really matter if he's lighter thatn you as long as he still loves u.
Hope this helps!!!!
2006-10-15 17:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Toto! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well gee I dunno .. maybe you should lose weight so you are smaller then him. And then while you are at it, if the circumference of his head is smaller then yours, maybe you can press your head down a size or two. That's probably a good idea.. less room for your brain to rattle around and hurt itself.
2006-10-15 18:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by D F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULDN'T WORRY ABOUT IT. YALL WERE THE SAME WHEN YOU GOT TOGETHER. SO IF WEIGHT WAS A PROBLEM, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN THEN.MOST GUYS HAS TOLD ME THEY DON'T LIKE A SKINNY WOMEN.THEY LIKE CURVES.TRY TO FATTEN HIM UP.MOST SKINNY PEOPLE CAN'T GAIN WEIGHT. SO REALLY IT DEPENDS ON YOU . AND I'M NOT A FULL FIGURE GIRL.I WAS TOLD I WAS TO SKINNY TOO.
2006-10-15 17:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by DANA LOVES MARK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully the only thing skinny about him is his waist!
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2006-10-15 17:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both of you are a healthy weight....who cares?
2006-10-15 17:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by bluearia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating him or he is dating you for each other bodies,, size have nothing to do with it.
2006-10-15 17:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋