girls help me out here I'am a pretty big and muscler guy and thats not bragging I just a football player and thats the way I am but anywho my girl loves to have my arms wrapped around her and holding her close to me sometimes to keep her warm and other times just to cuddle but is this her way of making sure I am hers or is it some kind of secuity reason Now don't get me wrong I love this girl to death I just need to know what that is all about
2006-10-15 10:14:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably all those reasons. Women do want to feel secure and safe and to know that she feels safe in your arms is one of the best things you can give her. Don't stop doing it. It will keep your relationship with her strong.
2006-10-15 10:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing better than feeling loved, some show it with a kiss, some with cooking, some with cuddling. Security is important with some women, me included, But it doesn't take a big muscular guy to provide that. Sounds like she loves being close to you. Don't worry about it and just enjoy it ;)
2006-10-15 10:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by tonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way it would be a insecurity thing is if you ever cheated on her or gave her a reason to be insecure. Other than that no it's not an insecurity thing. I love to have my mans arms wrappen around me. Girls love cuddling and being all lovey dovey with there man. Also it makes them feel like there protected and no one can hurt them as long as they have there man there to protect them. So don't worry hun your girl isn't insecure. She just loves you.
2006-10-15 10:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with that? She enjoys your company, and likes to be close to you. And yes, i would say if you are a muscular guy it could very well be a sign that she feels secure in your arms, or around you. Nothing wrong with any of these things, only means she really must like you....
2006-10-15 10:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Keekla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the quote "normal" girl. I laugh at the romatic parts of movies and find candlelit dinners hilarious. I guess I just find romance in the simple unplanned things, like what you discribed-to me it's not security, because most girls can take care of themselves if needed(and I mean this by all aspects :) )
2006-10-15 10:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only imagine since my soon-to-be ex was a litlle guy. But yes having a man's arms wrapped around me makes me feel secure & loved. Keep it up.
2006-10-15 10:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes to cuddle. Or she could be fearful of you if you guys always cuddle. She may think that you'll hurt her if you guys don't hug all the time, and that may be a reason why you guys hug all the time. I just think its a sign of affection from her to you.
2006-10-15 10:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Poppi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look don't take it wrong but if my boyfriend had bigger arms i would love to stay there all the time, its a protection thing. Plus if your girl does that all the time...she really loves you.
2006-10-15 10:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by kIrA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of them, she wants to make sure u know she wants u 2 b hers and that u don't forget it, she loves to be with u, and feels safe in ur arms. Don't sweat it! Just enjoy!
2006-10-15 10:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah ...i dont think its either one ...it just feels nice to be out with your boyfriend and have him holding you close...it just makes you feel cared for and its a way of expressing your feelings...but i guess it might also be becuase when other girls see you with ur arms wrapped around her it means ...back off we are he's taken ..and same applies to her ...guys who see that know that she's your girl
2006-10-15 10:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋