Singles & Dating - 12 October 2006

Ok I just asked the sex question and will give more info for better answers. 1st I am 22 and my bf is 27. He has only been with 4 girls before me, and I have been with a few more. His equipment is average at best. If you think I should teach him, plz give me advice on how to broach the subject without hurting his feelings. Also I totally think we could have a future together and he has actually already asked me to move in with him, so I want to work things out, but dont want an unsatisfying sex life. I am not selfish, but any girl who says sex is not important is either a liar or has never had good sex. Thanks again for your help!!

2006-10-12 07:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by jasam4ever08 5

Say you cant find a relationship where both people love equally. Do you think its more important to know you'll always be loved unconditionally but never really be able to return the love. Or vise versa.

2006-10-12 07:32:40 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny Penny 1

Okay... so me and my girlfriend are supposed to be getting married. I proposed and we set a date for November 1st a while ago.

Well her dad just got arrested for a child molestation thing... apparently he snuck into an elementary school, and smeared mayonaise all over the bodies of a class of third graders and told them he wanted to make a Michael Jackson sandwich out of them.

So the lawyers say he's going to jail for at least 20 years.

And she refuses to get married if he can't walk her down the isle!!!

DO I HAVE TO WAIT 20 YEARS TO MARRY MY SWEETHEART NOW? WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH THE INVITATIONS!! I PAID FOR THEM ALREADY!!!! Should I marry someone else and make them change their name legally so the invitations are still good?!

2006-10-12 07:32:27 · 16 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5

i want to do something sweet for my boyfriend of 2 months. on our 1 month he surprised me with cupcakes (just 2) and it had ladybugs on them (i love anything lady bug). but i wanted to do something sweet like that for him, but im stumped. any ideas? good ones only please...

2006-10-12 07:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by jenivive 6

works, gives u what you want , drinks too much and you don't have sex often and conversates do u think he is cheating?

2006-10-12 07:31:13 · 8 answers · asked by msjazzyphd 2

and how should we do it?.....he stole my lawn gnomes....thenuns at the nunery were heart broken....if we dont kill him...then god will....but why should we let god have ALL the fun????

2006-10-12 07:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by Father Martin Louis 1

just chats boring ****...wasting BOTH OUR TIME!...SO I SAY TO HIM ''IF ITS JUST SEX YOU WANT - YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME''.....and the club was due to shut in half an hour - so he only had 1/2 hr left to pull - so i sent him elsewhere! I think i was being kind - not wanting to waste his time (or mine!)...but my friends think i was too direct....i think , it did the trick...being totally honest with him...i don't think its too direct - i think i was being kind actually - what do you think???

2006-10-12 07:29:40 · 22 answers · asked by chandra 6

2006-10-12 07:29:36 · 13 answers · asked by Dustin Schneider 1

THIS QUESTION WAS NOT INTENDED TO BE RUDE OR OFFENSIVE......
I used to enjoy watching XXX movies with one of my x's before a kinky night in.....uuuuuummmm NUDGE, NUDGE....WINK, WINK...

2006-10-12 07:29:06 · 29 answers · asked by itsalright2lookbutucanttouchmmm 1

when is it the best time for a man to say to a woman "I love you" It is a dillema I have had to face for a long time, through most of my life I seem to have mistimed the phrase ending up with me getting the boot/elbow. And I was just wondering if somebody could enlighten me as to wether it is it better to say before or after I have just shot my mess down her throat?

2006-10-12 07:27:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started going out with a guy I've known for a while and I like him a lot. Today though another guy that I like asked me out what should I do??

2006-10-12 07:25:35 · 17 answers · asked by chelsea 1

2006-10-12 07:25:21 · 25 answers · asked by slim146000 1

I like this guy John who i have a lot in common with he is Italian i am Spanish and we both are all about our big familys .It started as a friendship hanging out seeing each other around school and with friends now 6 months of friendship he takes really good care of me and makes me feel special and safe.He is also protective of me when we go out dancing which is really not that often but i still like it.We both met each others familys and his mom is helping me learn how to cook Italian food.Recently he asked me out ? I was hurt before in a relationships but feel this is different is it normal to be scared?I feel like i am about to enter my first adult relationship?We are both in college and i made him wait he asked me out after on month of being friends .

2006-10-12 07:24:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 07:23:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

What kind of kisses get guys turned on? I need to know badly. Also What other ways can you get a guy turned on?

2006-10-12 07:22:43 · 7 answers · asked by lick_me_babi3 1

i mean ive been dating him for a month and im wondering if im moving to slow or if im moving to fast helpme! i dont know what to do!!

2006-10-12 07:21:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13, and a christian girl, I asked 1 of mi friends if this guy would go out wit me, they asked and he said I'll think about it, they say he's a pervert though, what should I do?

2006-10-12 07:19:38 · 7 answers · asked by sierrasaysyo 2

I am in a crazy situation and I need your insights because my brain is not thinking too clearly.
I met this girl in Orlando who is a 'callgirl'. We kind of 'connected' and went on dates while I spent about 6000 in July06 on her.
I came back to my college and we kept in touch on the phone.
I went back to visit her for my bday recently 3 weeks back.
Last weekend, she asked me to western union her 500 which I did by asking my bro for it and told her to pay it back as it is my brothers money. She said ok and then did not call or pickup my calls for 4 days straight.
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crazy situation alert:
after repeatedly trying to call her with no response after 4 days, I concluded she pretty much is done with me. I leave her some messages telling her what I think and stopped calling.
1) she calls me today and left a message: claims she was in the hospital. now shes mad at me coz i called her a *****. She admitted that she was with me only for the money ..contd. below...

2006-10-12 07:18:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together on and off for two years. While we were broken up, him and one of his really good girl friends stepped up their relationship. They were together a couple of times, then unexpected him and I got back together. He had to tell her and she was crushed, because she fell in love with him. Do I allow him to talk to her as friends?.. Even though it secretly kills me. Not because im jealous, only because I want to be the only special woman in his life.

2006-10-12 07:18:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 07:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by jus me 1

2006-10-12 07:16:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 07:15:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here is the deal. I met the guy in May we dated all summer broke up in Mid September. I reached out one more time because I think it was all a misunderstanding but he has ignored me. That was three weeks ago. I left some stuff at his place this summer never thinking in a million years I would not see him again. I left some expensive earings and some paperwork at his place that have sentimental value. I asked for them back twice and he said no problem I gave him a mailing address and they have never showed up. I am mad because I think that is rude we are both in our 30's and old enough to be mature about this. If I ask again I will come across as if this is an excuse to contact him and I suppose in some ways it may be but the bottom line is I want my stuff back and I do not know what to do.

2006-10-12 07:15:13 · 6 answers · asked by dkw157 1

how can a girl prove that the guy should take her for granted when the girl has already proved him that she can be taken for granted?? when she has already proved him that he is the only one , then how can she prove that its not so in order to bring back the relation like it used to be when she had not proved the guy that she can be taken for granted???

2006-10-12 07:14:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is vote
pm me for details

2006-10-12 07:14:40 · 14 answers · asked by sextherapist99 1

I've been on only two dates with this girl and she's inviting me to hang out with her best friend and her best friend's husband for the evening on the third date. Is she trying to weed me out as boyfriend material already? I don't know what do you think ladies?

2006-10-12 07:12:40 · 12 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2

my boyfriend seems to be still grieving over his ex and in the meantime he isn't giving me the intimacy that I need. I don't think I am being unreasonable because everyone has a grieving period for the loss of any relationship. I don't know if he wants me to end our relationship out of frustration (easy out for him to go back to the ex) or is he just going through a phase?

2006-10-12 07:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2

2006-10-12 07:12:24 · 5 answers · asked by MEGAN F 1

getting horny is bad or somethin that every one does b/c its happens alot now to me!

2006-10-12 07:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by mandy 2

I am having a VERY difficult time controling my emotions when it comes to a man that has recently stolen my heart. I have a very strong attraction to him on every level, today I told him how I was feeling. I know I should not have opened this can of worms but I had to know that the feelings were mutual.... and like I had hoped they are. The problem is he is married and he is a pastor.... I too am married, although seperated and in the divorce process. I know everything about this is sssssssssooooooooo wrong! but I can't dismiss my feelings for him, my heart is breaking- what do I do?


I know some of you feed off these questions just so you can be harsh.... but please avoid the nasty comments. I know that nothing about my situation is right or moral but I can't seem to push these feelings I have aside!!!

2006-10-12 07:10:46 · 6 answers · asked by kourtney j 2