I started going out with a guy I've known for a while and I like him a lot. Today though another guy that I like asked me out what should I do??
2006-10-12 07:25:35 · 17 answers · asked by chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you don't want to hurt him but that you're with someone else. If he doesn't understand that he has problems.
2006-10-12 07:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its obvious you're not in love. But, are you ready to settle down? I think if you like him a lot, and you've known him a while.. don't pass it up.. Life is short and is all about taking chances. Take a chance on this dude and let this other guy find someone else... If it doesn't work out.. you'll worry about that then.
2006-10-12 07:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ally, THAT girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one you know.
Go with the other guy but strictly as friends only. It's only right to let the bf you've been out with sometime to know that someone else is looking you up but it's just friendship.
I would expect some jealously but allay his fears and walk the talk. This will either make you a stronger person or you might find out that it is not what you want that either of them has to offer later on.
Don't close your socialising (platonic) just because of one person.
2006-10-12 07:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by mmmporg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on whether or not you have agreed to have an exclusive relationship with the guy you're dating now. It could be time for that type of discussion....talk to him before accepting a date with the other guy. He could view your situation differently than you do at this point. Don't assume it's exclusive. You also have to examine what you want....would you rather date the second guy instead?
2006-10-12 07:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they know 1 another pick which 1 u like best MAYB the other guy likes u enough 2 wait on u! .. but if they dont know 1 another u can have both of them!its w/e u want 2 do!
2006-10-12 07:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
now...you sound pretty young, so are probably still in school, and these guys probably go to school with you, so you cant get away with dating both... i would say, go with the cuter one. and then if that doesnt work out then you can go back to the other one, and tell him that was the worst time of ou life and he makes you happier...
2006-10-12 07:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany's 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Notcie you said about the first guy " I like him a lot". Doesnt that answer it for you? Follow your heart.
2006-10-12 07:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by dreamscrushed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with the other guy, you think that if another girl asked your guy out he would decline , I don't think so. have fun
2006-10-12 07:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iits honestly doesnt matter how long youve known them for or who youve liiked longer. just go wiith whom ever you have more feeliings for. and who you want to see yourself wiith iin a year
2006-10-12 07:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by cTz FiNeSt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let go of the first one and go out with the new one
2006-10-12 07:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋