just chats boring ****...wasting BOTH OUR TIME!...SO I SAY TO HIM ''IF ITS JUST SEX YOU WANT - YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME''.....and the club was due to shut in half an hour - so he only had 1/2 hr left to pull - so i sent him elsewhere! I think i was being kind - not wanting to waste his time (or mine!)...but my friends think i was too direct....i think , it did the trick...being totally honest with him...i don't think its too direct - i think i was being kind actually - what do you think???
2006-10-12 07:29:40 · 22 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think a well done is in order! you go girl! guys like that deserve directness for once in their lives. and obvously he is a shallow *****!
2006-10-12 07:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to go, you did exactly the right thing. If you didn't want to have sex with him and told him then whats wrong in that, you didn't lead him on and gave him enough time for him to find someone who did want to have sex with him. Nothing wrong in being direct and to the point and if you wasn't he would have just hung about plying you with drink so I say you go girl.
2006-10-12 14:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the old 10-2-2 situation - according to men, you're guaranteed to pull if you try whatever's left at ten to two. You did right.
I always get cracked onto when I'm on the nightbus. I think they think it's like last chance saloon or something...
2006-10-12 15:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right - he never clocked you at the beginning of the night - so refuse to be pulled half an hour before closing.
2006-10-12 14:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on girl, tell 'em like it is. Its so true! There is that point in the night when men do that, and they usually move on to a girl standing next to you once you've refused - really sad!
You were right to be blunt
2006-10-12 14:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you done him a good turn. At least he didn't waste his time with someone that wasn't going to put out.
2006-10-12 14:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Gordon P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well done you. If all he was after was sex and he made it that obvious then you definitely made the right decision.
2006-10-12 14:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has only happened once in my life time but a woman told me she could do herself better then I could.
I appreciated her honesty as I walked away quietly mumbling "lesbian". At least I knew where I stood right off the bat and it allowed me to get lucky elsewhere...freakin "lesbian"...
2006-10-12 14:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEF DID THE RIGHT THING BUT WHAT IF THE GUY THOUGH YOUR WERE REALLY CUTE AND MAYBE WANTED TO CHAT WITH YOU OR KNOW YOU BETTER GUESS HE WOULD HAVE TRIED AGAIN HU LOL
2006-10-12 16:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by mighty mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin wrong with not wasting anyones time, gave him an oppurtunity to find another
2006-10-12 15:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋