I've been on only two dates with this girl and she's inviting me to hang out with her best friend and her best friend's husband for the evening on the third date. Is she trying to weed me out as boyfriend material already? I don't know what do you think ladies?
2006-10-12 07:12:40 · 12 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well of course she wants her best friends opinion. But I wouldn't worry too much about anything else. Maybe she thinks it will be cool to hang with other people.
2006-10-12 07:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Brina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's several different ways you could view this situation....it could be that she doesn't trust her own judgment and wants their input before the relationship progresses any further, she may want to see if you're a 'good fit' so that it'd be a comfortable situation hanging out as you continue to date, it could be that she really likes you and wants to introduce you to those she is really close to, or it could be that you're reading too much into the invitation. Would you rather take her to a five star restaurant instead of hanging out with her friends--then ask her?
2006-10-12 14:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to start a relationship, so if you don't want to go there with her, I'd cut it off now. A lot of women only date guys that they see as a potential relationship, some women just move faster than others. If you want to pursue a relationship with her, go for it! Just be careful that she is not the psycho-clingy type that starts leaving stuff at your apartment so she can eventually move in... Those are the worst!
2006-10-12 14:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds 2 me she like u and wants 2 b ur gf. she wants u 2 stay around 4 a lil while and if ur not up 4 that then back out right NOW! bc the more u wait the more u will hurt her!
2006-10-12 14:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend,
you are still in the process of investigation, whether her friends like you or not thats why she like you to hang out with her friends so that they will give some feed back about you, but you know you are now at 80% bro. keep it up, GRIPEN
2006-10-12 14:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by gripen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess - your not ready for a relationship. She just wants company when she goes out - she probably haven't had company in awhile. It is not neccessary to make a hugh deal out of it, sometimes we just need you guys there just to keep the seat warm next to us.
2006-10-12 14:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not.. It might be fun.. U never know.. If u dont want to be her boyfriend right now just let her know u want to get to know her a little more before making that decision..
2006-10-12 14:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just wants a double date... there's nothing wrg w/ that, and it doesn't seem like she is making you a boyfriend. If you don't feel comfortable, let her know...
2006-10-12 14:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that she likes u but wants to get final approval from her friend
2006-10-12 14:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sara G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is so be polite but be yourself.
2006-10-12 14:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋