I have been going with my boyfriend for 4 months, I know he loves me completely. One thing is though, he is still friends with his ex. And during the breakup of his last girlfriend (not the ex in question) she helped him through it, and he was thankful and promised her sex in return. (she still loves him btw, even though he won't go back with her). then he found me, but he still wants to keep his promise to his ex, saying that though he does not necessarily want to, this is just because he always wants to keep his promises, and keep his honor. he says once we are married he will honor me just as much. I think it was stupid to promise this when he didn't know what the future would bring, and I told him that I think his promise is null and void and he can't be held to it because he has a girlfriend now. I consider it cheating still, even though he will only be "having sex" instead of "making love." please give me an opinion and/or give me some points of arguments to show my point
2006-10-01
05:32:24
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