He wasnt nasty wen we were goin out he had his faults and so did i but other than that we were a happy couple when we first split up he said some nasty things to me but he said to my friend he wants to be friends with me but it will take time but he does not want to get back? I dnt kno if we wud eva be together agen. He told my friend she cud tell me what he said. I do still love him but friends is better than nothing. Will he ever realise what he has lost. He doesnt want to b in a relationship he is 18 but i kno he can be a loving person i dont know what is wrong with him there is no one else but im not sure what to do now i just wish we cud b happy agen really could do with your advice.im missing him alot and just wish we could be again. thnx x
2006-10-01 05:40:47 · 6 answers · asked by moi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex has been for more than 12 years now, and although we are actually talking as "friends" I do not wish him back in my life full-time ever again. My marriage to him for 20 years cured me. Take stock of what you want in your life. I appears he has, and found out he needed to move on, either for your growth or his. You are very young to be clinging to someone who hasn't had the sense to develop completely yet. Women are usually ahead of the male curve in developing. Your perfect man may be out there in college, getting himself groomed and ready for you, and you haven't even tried to step up and find him.
It actually does take a long time to get past the lost relationship, the hurt and feeling of betrayal. Love him for what he was in your life, and pull yourself back up onto your feet. Contrary to the male idea about us women, we are not always weepy and weak. After all, who has, raises and provides for a vast number of children in this country ALL ON OUR OWN? Only us gals. Because we are STRONG.
2006-10-01 05:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by H2Ocolors 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still young and he still needs time to get more experienced in love, more mature. Give him time and space. If you are meant to be together you will.
Girls are normally more mature in the emotional side, so give him a chance. Sooner or later he is going to miss being in a relationship and you just make sure your close when that happens.
While you waiting, keep your options open because he may be the one right now but there are great guys out there you might just find your great love .
Hope it all works out, good luck
2006-10-01 05:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by rissienr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are nice for the first time, but when u get to know them they are so stupid out of sense,but as u say u still love him, i would pick the phone up and call him and says i would love to be ur friend and maybe later on u guys can fix things up and little by little u can get back, without knowing it...peace and goodluck.
2006-10-01 05:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends is ok. Just don't let it be friends "with benefits." Never look back on a relationship, move on.
2006-10-01 05:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Just dont give him what he wants. His your ex not your friend! Just find someone even better!
2006-10-01 05:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends it will work out if meant too.
2006-10-01 05:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋