it could result into a baby.
2006-10-01 05:33:22 · 23 answers · asked by kc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anyone who pressures you into doing something you don't want to do is only thinking of himself. He doesn't care about your feelings or what is best for you.
You can only give your virginity away once. It should be a special time when you are ready....
Tell him when I see the two carat diamond then we'll talk.....
2006-10-01 05:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better boundaries required. That means making the hard decision to not answer phone calls, avoid where they walk and where they stay. If the mistake was made, the person should express that firmly OUTLOUD-- sorry, that was a mistake that I won't do again! Everyone should say it out loud NOW. If you can't do that yourself, look up about how people can be coerced into rape. Then get help.
Meantime, there is no worse feeling that being forced to make a mistake. The best thing is-- before the mistake is made, the person has plenty of warning because as the mistake gets closer and closer...it just doesn't feel right. It is never too late to stop the mistake, just SPEAK UP (as in the statement above) and leave the area very quickly. After that, a deep breath feels GOOD.
Everyone should listen to their inner voice more while sitting in the quiet outdoors (under trees) and give themselves time to forgive themselves. Then envision PROTECTIVE WALLS going up AROUND THEM so that mistakes can be avoided. People will be able to relax and discover the truth about bad people, and see the truth when they are being taken advantage of or made a fool of. Feel happy about that and smile! We all make mistakes so go on outside to start the easy practicing protective behavior right now
2006-10-01 12:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Reba K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 22 years old. working and living with mom and dad. i only like fruits a vegetables, but i don't like cooked food. they pressure me everyday to eat more food, i may have depression but i never had a baby because of their pressure!!!
i know this is not what you really need to know but i was just telling my misery.....
but to ans you: a girl under pressure to do this will end up in a mental hospital with a baby or without...
2006-10-01 12:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by adorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur pressured by someone into doing something u don't want to do then obviously that person has no respect for u. so save it for someone who really does and dump this disrespectful loser if he won't stop pressuring u. u should stick up for urself. u could get a baby or sexually transmitted disesases or worse. so don't do it if u don't want to.
2006-10-01 12:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by olive_sugar21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!! You'll be the one that has to live with the end result. Whether it's having a baby or a std. Think about it.
2006-10-01 12:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by QBABY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unwanted sex pressure is serious regardless of it being men or women performing it. A lot of women experience being disrespected sexually. Young women may feel threatened by modern men taking the initiative and increased demands of sexual satisfaction", just say No firmly and threaten to exposed to peers or friends if they do not cease to pressure.
2006-10-01 12:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of guts but you MUST not give in to anything that you are not 100% convinced it is what's best for YOU....not the other person. That is their problem.
It's very hard when you care for someone but never forget...and this time this cliche is crucial to YOU.
"To thine own self be true"!
Hang in there and hang strong.
If it is not accepted, then best you know now. Your wishes are vital to your sanity and your future.
2006-10-01 12:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Do Anything That U Don't Wanna Do. Its
Your Body, Your Mind, Your Choice . Don't Let
Any One Make The Choice For U.
2006-10-01 12:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That kind of pressure is BS. You're probably getting the "If you really loved me, you would." line.
Tell the jerk that you are not ready, and then walk away. If he keeps pushing, he doesn't care enough about you to respect your feelings and needs, so dump him.
2006-10-01 12:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by tequila_girl98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say NO! And mean it absolutely! Stand up for yourself no matter if it offends someone. That's the other person's problem if he/she doesn't understand, or more likely, doesn't want to understand. The other person is just being selfish and thinking of his/her own desires and not what's important to you. It's up to you to take care of yourself. If you don't respect yourself, no one else will.
2006-10-01 12:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋