Singles & Dating - 29 September 2006

So my new gf spent the night last night- but before we actually got that far, I decided to tell her that I am bipolar and had spent a week in the hospital last month because I went off my meds. I was so nervous about telling her, but figured she needed to know this. She asked me if I was on my meds now and o.k. I said yes. She said that's good, cuz the only crazy I want with you is in that bedroom. Let's go have crazy sex! Am I the luckiest guy alive or what? It was really hard letting her go this morning when she had to go to work-I miss her already.

2006-09-29 05:55:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

to find a man . i mean i real man that would walk to the end of the world for you, stop and pick a flower for you just because. or stay the way when you first meet . nice, sweet, kind. why do they change right when you get confortable and happy ? they change and show you their true colors. i am married to a man that cant let go of his mother so i let him go. i came to realize that , every man i'll ever meet will never meet the needs of a real woman. im that person a Real Woman who wants a Real man to be there for me and show me he can be that person that can meet me even half way. and stay the same when i first meet him. Real men Where are you ????

2006-09-29 05:54:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 05:53:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF has a very depressive personality. He's definitely a glass 1/2 empty kind of guy. This is not to say that he doesn't treat ME well, but he's very negative about himself. I'm an upbeat, see the positive side of everything person and I feel so bad for him that he walks around in a cloud of negativity all the time. I've made subtle hints to him that there are prescription medications that could possibly help him, but he's not interested. I really love him, but the continuous depressive state is almost unbearable some days. How do I help him to see the positive things in his life and not just the negative? How can a relationship work between a manic depressive and an eternal optimist ?

2006-09-29 05:53:11 · 18 answers · asked by earthlove32 2

I am curious as to whether women can actually appreciate a mans intentions when he says that he has a genuine admiration for the developement of her body. I for one certainly do when it comes to womens breasts. Big or small, I am simply fascinated with how they develop (i.e. like over all size, roundness, firmness... her nipples.. and how it "stands out" from her chest wall). Call me weird or perverted, but I know that womens breasts are an impressive feature of the womans anatomy. Your thoughts??

2006-09-29 05:53:04 · 13 answers · asked by ibjam2001 1

2006-09-29 05:52:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 05:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by trytodazzleme 1

What is up with so many women being so attracted to men who are total anuses?

It seems like the worse a man is, in the worst ways possible, the more chicks want them: physically abusive, substance abuse, alcoholism, criminal history, cheaters, liars, and the list of sins goes on and on.

Don't any women want geniune nice men anymore? If so, I'd sure like to know WHERE to find them. As the old saying goes, "All the good ones (women) are taken," seems to be true. I can't even find good women at churches!

My theory is that women who love men who are anuses are into it for any of the following reasons:

*They have absolutely no self-esteem and actually LIKE being treated like manure.
*They are in it for money and financial security and will tolerate anything and everything to have that.
*They are cowards.
*It's all an infantile game and they need to grow the heck up!

I'm not saying all women are this way, but the percentage of those who are is astounding and shocking.

2006-09-29 05:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know, If I dump her will she make out that she was the Victim?

By the way I have done nothing wrong and love her to bits but she is not good for my health, by health I mean that I can feel my heart being ripped apart and I dont like it.

We share the same group of firends and I dont want them to take sides, Will this divide the group if I dump her?

2006-09-29 05:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

Please Answer!!!!!!! Really Important!!!!! Need your Opinions!!!!!!!!!?
I sent my best friend this message and i was just wondering if you thought it was a good idea?

"ok, this is way too serious 4 me, so i cant believe im writin it, but newayz, i duno if u no, so i jst wana tel ya, i really do care 4 ya, nd im jst sayin it, coz i no i dont show it r say it, but i do. coz, i duno, i guess i can seem like a dick sometimes, nd maybe its coz im introverted r maybe coz im manic depressive, but i jst realized i really dont show it. So anyway, u mean alot 2 me, nd i do really care bout ya.

damn, gota exit this realm ov seriousness b4 i implode... "


Don't mind the spelling, that's just how kids type nowadays, but do you think she will accept this? She says we are best friends, I don't treat her badly, I just don't always express my feelings, and this is the only way I could. How do you think this will go with her? And do you think she will bring it up? Or just leave it as something we know I sent?

2006-09-29 05:50:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's not something ive EVER been interested in doing personally but i knew coming into this relationship that he has done it himself in the past. I am almost disguisted at the idea of doing it, but semi-curious to try--just to say i've done it. are there rules to this sort of thing? will i just end up hurt in the end? how can i do this without it being too weird? i don't know anyone bi or les. so how can i arrange this?
Signed
Curious and confused

2006-09-29 05:49:32 · 24 answers · asked by AudioPhilia 4

Relationship wise, What's the best way to avoid/defuse arguments in a relationship?..I'm speaking from a male perspective and I'm speaking for all the males when I say FEMALES love to argue about anything and everything. I'm tired of it. I'm about to throw in the towel.

2006-09-29 05:49:07 · 3 answers · asked by Just_Asking 2

Can they fall in love with each other ?

2006-09-29 05:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Pari T 1

On the street, gym, beach, store, etc

2006-09-29 05:47:57 · 13 answers · asked by GCRhino 1

Last summer at work I met this girl and things went great for a while but nothing last forever.I am hung up on this girl even though in November it will be a year since we broke up.She had moved on with this other guy and being that we worked together I was always hearing her talk with the girls around(close quarters) about how he never returns her calls or always cancels their plans and this bothered me because of how I felt and how much I knew she liked this guy. Its true when guys say that they want their ex to just be happy.I know its childish but I wrote her a letter to explain to her how I felt.I stressed the fact that I didnt want to get back with her,I just needed her to know how I felt because I couldnt keep it inside anymore.Since then we have gone out (just as friends) and we have talked about people we have seen since then and she says she knows how I feel about her.I guess my question is what do I do now? All my cards on on the table.Should I wait for her to come?

2006-09-29 05:47:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Once upon a time, a blonde became so sick of hearing blonde jokes that she had her hair cut and dyed brown. A few days later, as she was out driving around the countryside, she stopped her car to let a flock of sheep pass.

Admiring the cute wooly creatures, she said to the shepherd, "If I can guess how many sheep you have, can I take one?"

The shepherd, always the gentleman, said, "Sure!"

The blonde thought for a moment and, for no discernible reason, said, "352."

This being the correct number, the shepherd was, understandably, totally amazed, and exclaimed, "You're right! O.K., I'll keep to my end of the deal. Take your pick of my flock."

The blonde carefully considered the entire flock and finally picked the one that was by far cuter and more playful than any of the others. When she was done, the shepherd turned to her and said, "O.K., now I have a proposition for you. If I can guess your true hair color, can I have my dog back?"

2006-09-29 05:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 38 and bald not by choice when first meeting some one new how bad does it hurt a guy to be bald on a scale of 1 to 10 be honest

2006-09-29 05:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by crisco 1

my day has been really awful!!
had trouble starting the car, then had to travel miles to work even tho i asked to stay local!!
trying to get home was a total knightmare as a stupid lorry driver decided that the warning notices about max height vehicles didnt include him and he got stuck under railway bridge!!!! the traffic was backed up for miles!!
hope you had a better day than mine..............................................
well come on, tell me how fantastic your day was lol
make me jealous lol xxx

2006-09-29 05:44:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 05:44:17 · 30 answers · asked by rainbow 1

someone who cheats on you or someone who falls out of love with you?

i know either one will make you feel like sh!t.....................

2006-09-29 05:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3

in other words would it cross ur mind that if he didnt have many friends, that that ?would be more time spent with you

2006-09-29 05:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by adriboff 3

The reason I asked this b/c I have guys asking me to be their dates from Myspace and I agreed to go out with two lucky guys. One was long-term and one lasted less than one month. Man I have been using Myspace for one and half year and I have over 100 guys asking me out or tell me that I am pretty and etc.

2006-09-29 05:41:57 · 9 answers · asked by Keystar05 1

I will consider any options...I really want this guy bad...

2006-09-29 05:40:44 · 52 answers · asked by dawn r 1

It's so hot all the time, New Yorkers are annoying, very busy and a lot of blacks and Spanish???

2006-09-29 05:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

2006-09-29 05:40:14 · 8 answers · asked by nicole h 1

2006-09-29 05:39:13 · 2 answers · asked by claise 1

I was on a date and I talked with the guy about travels and stuff. He told me something about Poland and I said I don't know where Poland is. He laughted at me... Do you know where Poland is?

2006-09-29 05:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy is messing with you, touching you, picking you up, tickling you, and you're LAUGHING and seeming to enjoy it, and it's in fron tof your boyfriend, if youe boyfriend comes up and tries to stop it, would you get angry at him or appreciate that he's protective of you. Should a guy play it cool and ignore what this other guy is doing, or should he try and stop it? I'm talking even if the girl doesn't seem bothered by it.?

2006-09-29 05:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by sTRIKER 81 1

Now she has hurt my feelings. So I am looking for nicest and harshest methods of dumping my g/f.

I tend to just walk away if someone is nasty or have hurt me, I hold grudges and will refuse to speak to people that I dont like. Terrible trait I know.

2006-09-29 05:36:30 · 20 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

i am 19 years old i have never had a boyfriend or a real date. Is there something wrong with me?

2006-09-29 05:36:02 · 15 answers · asked by laugh_a_lot2005 3