i am 19 years old i have never had a boyfriend or a real date. Is there something wrong with me?
2006-09-29 05:36:02 · 15 answers · asked by laugh_a_lot2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No dont worry there is nothing wrong with you the right guy just hasnt come along yet. God has plans for each of us and eventually they will be revield. And just be happy that you had none instead of ones who just want to get you in bed or any thing like that. God bless you and Good luck finding mister right. With God all things are possible.
2006-09-29 05:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Not all all. I didn't date until I was 20 and I know otehr people who didn't date until their mid-20's. There is nothing at all wrong wth you. Don't compare yoruself to what otehr people are or aren't doing and don't subject yourself to what you think is the society norm. At 19, your priorities right now should be getting as much education as you possibly could before you ahve to fend for your self in the "real world". There shoudl be no rush to get into reltionships, or have a boyfriend because having one before you are emotionally ready for it or having one when you are too young, will only distract you from your goal which could have an impact on the rest of your life. As a woman, you will always have your pick of men, when you do want a man , so why worry or rush it now when there are more important things to content with, like the quality of your future life over the decisions you make today ?
2006-09-29 12:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by misfit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 26. Why haven't you? I didn't date because I was overweight, had bad skin, and I just didn't feel good about myself. I lost weight, got Proactiv and started to see myself as worth dating and apparently other people did too. If you're the shy type, try a site like match.com which is where I met my boyfriend. It's less pressure and is good for us wallflowers. If you do decide to go the match route, make sure you're honest about having not had a boyfriend. Most of the men I met found it intriguing but weren't scared away by it - and if they are scared away by it, you don't want them anyway. Good luck sweetie.
2006-09-29 12:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would there be something wrong with you? It could also be that you are not around the kind of guys that can appreciate what you have to offer. Consider trying new activities where you can meet new people and learn something new. Or else just try to be more patient and trust the right guy will walk into your life when the time is right.
2006-09-29 12:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there isnt anything wrong with you im the same age and i am in the same position but just give it time you will find some one...the best is worth the wait with the way guys act these days
2006-09-29 12:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong and nothing wrong with asking here either, too bad some people come on here to be rude and obnoxious.
2006-09-29 12:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be nothing wrong with you but without more information it's impossible to say.
2006-09-29 12:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by lidlolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too picky. stop asking for to much . live and learn. but no nothing is wrong with you, i see you as a strong woman.
2006-09-29 12:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jay Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go out more often w/ Friends maybe they can set up a date for you good luck
2006-09-29 12:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by marco polo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. wait for the right one, instead of wasting your time and heart on all the wrong ones.
2006-09-29 12:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by DBL L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋