Now she has hurt my feelings. So I am looking for nicest and harshest methods of dumping my g/f.
I tend to just walk away if someone is nasty or have hurt me, I hold grudges and will refuse to speak to people that I dont like. Terrible trait I know.
2006-09-29 05:36:30 · 20 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will she play the Victim if I do this?
2006-09-29 05:45:45 · update #1
If she really hurt you, your best bet is to tell her that you don't want to see her anymore and if she asks why tell her that she has hurt your feelings, but when you break up with her stick to it and don't change your mind even if she apologizes. Don't resort to name calling or playing the blame game because in the end you were the mature one and she'll look bad, not you. If you do it in a really mean way then you'll look like the bad guy and people will feel sorry for her instead.
2006-09-29 05:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by mbenitez6383 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hurt your feelings and didn't apologise the she is not a nice person and not worth the hassle, in the long run you being nasty to her is only going to hurt you and reflect poorly on the person you are.
Be a man a civilised man and wake way, I am not saying this because I am a woman it's because it's what I would do, and believe me I have had my share of having my feelings hurt by Ex and he was nasty about it too.
In the end I forgot all about him and moved on. sometimes it feels like he never happened. You don't want someone feeling like that about you, they should instead feel like crap because they hurt someone who didn't deserve it, that's the best revenge.
2006-09-29 12:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by Solitary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what she did to hurt your feelings. Does she? Walking away without notice is cowardly. It is unfair to the other person, who may or may not know what precipitated the falling out. If you are resolved to end the relationship and feel justified in your reasons for doing so, then, by all means, end it. Tell her to her face why you are leaving and how she hurt you so that she will not treat future partners in the same manner. If she doesn't know what is wrong, she can't fix it.
2006-09-29 12:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedWife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to her face, Don't hold a grudge it will only hurt you. The best way to show someone you are over them is too move on with your life and be happy.
2006-09-29 12:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to be a better person but just be a man let her know and whatever she did let it be . the only person your really hurting is yourself by holding grudges and being angry
by doing so whoever you have a grudge with has the power
let the anger go and live you life the best you can
2006-09-29 12:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and end your relationship by telling your partner how you feel n move on. The she goes on a huge guilt trip for the rest of her life because where you are an adult she has just been mean.
2006-09-29 12:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by charlotte e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has hurt your feelings but why be like her and try and seek the nastiest way to get back at her. do your own thing and if you dont go to her level you will be the one who can walk out with there head held high and lots more dignity. if you ignore someone long enough that hrts more.
2006-09-29 12:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by amanda t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her nicely and dont hold a grudge because you're just holding onto anger you dont need.
2006-09-29 12:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to her face and be a man. Dont just walk away cos that pathetic and weak. Sorry if this sounds harsh but its true
2006-09-29 12:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by poli_b2001 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just finalize it and dump her. Walking away leaves too many loose ends.
2006-09-29 12:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋