Singles & Dating - 20 September 2006

There is this boy I want to ask to go to home comming with me but I dont want a boyfriend right now. I am afraid if i wait to ask then he will already have a date but I dont want to ask to early. When do you think would be an apropriate time to ask, any other advice to me about asking him is welcome also.
~Thanx in advance

2006-09-20 14:58:19 · 2 answers · asked by ziri 2

2006-09-20 14:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl at my school that I know and I;m pretty damn sure she likes me. She stares at me during class A LOT and she'll come up to me after lunch to ask what the homework was for the bell before it(even though she knows what it is). So I know she likes me, but the other day on the bus I asked her if she liked me. Before when I was getting ready to ask it it's like she knew what I was going to ask and kept saying "Hey I forgot something I have to tell you umm... umm.." and she was trying to avoid me asking it. Then I asked it and she said "Kinda sorta maybe" Then I got off the bus and said "Well I like you". Ever since then she hasnt been talking to me that much. And when we do tlak its as if she doesn't even remember what I said that day! But she still stares at me in class. I need help plz. BTW I do know this girl and we are friends.

2006-09-20 14:56:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will my ex boyfriend ever call me again after I told him I needed my space to heal and move on?
Is it possible for a guy to break up with a girl that he is madly in love with but just couldn't handle the long distance? The love of my life broke up with me 6 months after I moved away to college because he said the long distance was so hard and he wanted me to have fun, meet people, and enjoy my college years. He called me two weeks after and siad he wanted to stay friends. He still loves me and tells me that but after 1.5 years of staying friends I just told him last week that I need time to heal and focus on myself. I was so emotionally drained b/c i love him so much..but i never could show it b/c i wanted him to think i was having fun and meeting new guys. He has a new girl..but has conitnued to call and act emotional towards me (i think she is just a **** buddy). now that i told him i needed space for myself but that i want 2 be friends in the near future ...will he ever call me?

2006-09-20 14:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 14:55:49 · 16 answers · asked by rodriguezea10 1

not the obvious signs. he's not a very obvious person. I need the really subtle things, ya know?

2006-09-20 14:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by 77684 3

Why is it so hard to find a faithful and honest man? One who is not in to playing games but real. When they say I know how to treat a lady they never do. It is always a lie. I not ugly or fat or anything, just a girl who was raised in a loving home and taught to give everyone a chance. I'm no fool, believe that. Can anyone help me out???

2006-09-20 14:51:23 · 21 answers · asked by littleheart 1

i'm 15 and so is he. so whenever we were in history class last year, he kepton asking me how the tests went for me.. but then when we get them back he braged that he got A's. And then on the street, he randomly called out my name, and started asking me if i knew for the final would be graded. i mean hello!! do i look like the teacher?? I never gave my name to him and his friends don't know me. he was in the history class after mine.. so he couldn't have known my name from class.
my friend says he's not shy at all.. so if he liked me.. wouldn't he have already asked me out?
so this year we have a class together, but it's been 4 weeks and he hasn't said anything. nonetheless, i find him staring at me all the time. what does he want?

2006-09-20 14:51:17 · 12 answers · asked by Maria18 2

I know there are questions about this about every 10 minutes but I really kinda confused. This girl will occasionally look over my way during class the majority of days, but then other days she wont. I think she likes me but im not sure. Why does she do this?

2006-09-20 14:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by flyinghamster126235 1

this guy likes me and i only like him as a friend

2006-09-20 14:50:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you asked someone to homecoming, would you be considered "going out" in the Middle/High School terms

2006-09-20 14:50:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is so amazing. He's everything I have ever wanted & more. No one compares to this guy.
I just want to tell everyone.
I think I may retire as a mistress for him....

2006-09-20 14:49:20 · 6 answers · asked by mistressmalice23 3

we did it a couple times but he's backing out, he'll take off my bras and everything, we share a luxury apt, we sleep together, change together, see each other nude. what else can i do to turn him on?

2006-09-20 14:47:39 · 33 answers · asked by cutie 2

OK I am a junior in high school i have liked this girl since bout the middle of soph year. I spent most of the year becomin good friends with her and over the summer i told her how i felt. Now she doesnt like me but we are like best friends the only problem is wenever i see her i kinda get depressed b/c i wish i had a chance and wen im not with her she is all i think bout basically. Any suggestions

2006-09-20 14:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, i'm in 9th grade and this guy I think i'm in love with is in 12th grade and he's one of my brothers friends.Well one day at school in the morning I passed him a letter saying call me if you like me and my cell number was on it. Well that morning he wrote me back saying I think your cute but i'll be 18 this November and that wouldn't be good,and then he said he'll think about it (about dating me)plus he gave me his cell number and home phone number.So I told him that i'd be 15 in Oct. so we'd only be 3 years apart and he said ok. Well we kept passing letters saying how our day was going and stuff. Well one Friday night he told my brother at the football game that he thinks it's wierd talking to someone thats younger than his sister (shes in 11th),and that he told me that he did something illegal just so that i'd stop liking him.a couple days later I asked him at school if that was true and he said no.We havn't talked.I asked this dude to talk to him about me and he said i was cute.

2006-09-20 14:44:34 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica G 1

What does it mean?

2006-09-20 14:43:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 14:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by michellet002000 1

2006-09-20 14:35:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-09-20 14:34:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 14:32:57 · 14 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2

I asked out this guy and he wasn't sure he could make the date because of car trouble. The next monday he told me he was sorry he couldn't make it and then asked me out on a second date. I gave him my phone number and told him to call me.
For the past 2 days he didn't talk to me or smile or anything. which is different because he'd smile every single time I saw him

after lunch when I saw him and asked him why he didn't call. He told me he was sorry and he already had a date to homecoming, which is weird because i never asked him to homecoming, but that question would have come up soon.

So what's the deal?

In the way beginning before we ever even met he'd be looking at me and flirt and he was the first one to talk to me. And now that he would have had the chance to get to know me, he totally blows me off and goes with another girl.

My question is, is there something wrong with me or is he just stupid like every other guy on this planet?

2006-09-20 14:30:51 · 21 answers · asked by <3 3

i dont know why i get embarrassed so easily like today my boyfriend was commenting on my kissing and he was like "god, at the movies i thought you were gonna take my tongue ring." and then one time he said i was annoying. well indirectly....and i just shut down. should i just shrug it off? idk i get so frustrated......i cant even talk to him ne more. lol. what do i need to do!?!!?

2006-09-20 14:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by groundhog 2

im wondering guys will tell their other guy friends who they like or is it just a girl thing

2006-09-20 14:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Meow~ 4

What a minute, I am trying to be polite as I can BUT neather do I want to be cut off for two weeks! So I impolre you to help me get the 11,000 pluss points on yahoo answers. TWO WEEKS IS TOO LONG, SHE'S serious! I should have known that there was a reason she has been all over me for a few weeks,
***********come on, help a guy out!

2006-09-20 14:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by doy_hal 1

There's this girl at my school that I know and I;m pretty damn sure she likes me. She stares at me during class A LOT and she'll come up to me after lunch to ask what the homework was for the bell before it(even though she knows what it is). So I know she likes me, but the other day on the bus I asked her if she liked me. Before when I was getting ready to ask it it's like she knew what I was going to ask and kept saying "Hey I forgot something I have to tell you umm... umm.." and she was trying to avoid me asking it. Then I asked it and she said "Kinda sorta maybe" Then I got off the bus and said "Well I like you". Ever since then she hasnt been talking to me that much. And when we do tlak its as if she doesn't even remember what I said that day! But she still stares at me in class. I need help plz.

2006-09-20 14:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-09-20 14:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

now that we're past the "survey/ what do you like?" type questions, i need some things that will interest her besides hearing about my boring life. give me some good 'one liners'...

2006-09-20 14:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by paul h 1

Okay...I like a guy in one of my classes. I am a sophomore and he is a freshman. Our ages are pretty close. Now he a very popular...but the quiet kind of popular. I really like him but I am not in his "group." He lives in a gated community and everyone else at that school that lives there too are all in a big clique together. I do not know what to do or how to talk to him. I am not very good a acting calm and normal around guys and do not know what to do. Also, there are other kids from the gated community in the class that are in my grade and would talk about me liking YOUNGER person. Please helP!!!!!!

2006-09-20 14:19:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 14:19:47 · 4 answers · asked by princess 2

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2006-09-20 14:19:20 · 3 answers · asked by dpegra 2