Why is it so hard to find a faithful and honest man? One who is not in to playing games but real. When they say I know how to treat a lady they never do. It is always a lie. I not ugly or fat or anything, just a girl who was raised in a loving home and taught to give everyone a chance. I'm no fool, believe that. Can anyone help me out???
2006-09-20 14:51:23 · 21 answers · asked by littleheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your first clue might be the fact that they are using this statement in the first place. Men that know how to treat a lady will show it in his actions and not have to convince you with words. Seriously, find out the guy's relationship with his mother and you will know right away how he feels toward women and treats them. My daughters have found this out to be their first clue to what type of treatment they will receive. Give it a try and if he treats his Mom like a lady, you should enjoy the same treatment.
2006-09-20 14:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do know how to treat a lady. However, all women are different and no man will know how to treat you until you let them know. If you want an honest man, be an honest woman. So no you will never be able to pick a man off the street and expect him to know what you like, it takes time. So if you're looking for a good man, find a friend (don't let Race or Looks be a barrier), and let a friendship develop, then turn into Love.
2006-09-20 15:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men have very small brains and they think they know what women want. My guess is that it makes their chest poch out when they say that too. Your parents have brought up a good person and with time you will find the right one but you need to keep up your fists to punch the bad ones back out of your way. Most women want good attention from their man but men's brains are so small they can not stay focused long enough to understand that.
2006-09-20 14:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one of the few guys in this world that does know how to treat a lady, some guys, more than half, say that just to impress you or get in your pants, they give the rest of us who do treat you nice a bad rap. I believe that we should still open doors for women, pull out the chair for her, send her flowers to her work or home for no particular reason at all, amoung other things...
2006-09-20 14:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by jon m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's any opposite direction around too. men who take care of ladies like crap often finally end up having the warm ones :S i might extremely want to understand why have self belief me I extremely have been an impressive guy for WAAAAAYY too long and that i've got have been given nowhere. advantageous men do end final.
2016-10-15 05:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you meet these guys? Sounds like you are picking the wrong men. Quit trying to make every guy you meet your boyfriend. Try being friends first so that you can get to know the guy first. The dishonest ones will do things that should make you suspicious. I can't give you all of our secrets:) finally if it sounds to good to be true it probably isn't.
2006-09-20 15:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bigboi47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ones that say they know how to treat a lady, STAY AWAY FROM THEM!!! those are the ones that will try to play you. when in doubt friends first always you need to get to know the guy, some people aren't so clear in their intentions. if they come to you, more than half the time they are *** holes maybe try to get sometime to yourself, the best things come to those who wait it will come when you least expect it. and you should also always listen to your gut, if it doesn't feel right to you, don't even bother
2006-09-20 14:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a stradegy to get in there that works. there is a huge difference between for now and forever. yes with me love develops and i try to be a gentleman....but every guy knows girls dont like nice guys cause they are boring so we act like jerks to blend with norm. another point is its very difficult to ask out a nice young lady to a beautiful evening when she says NOOOOO !!!
so how can we sharpen our romance skills?
young women 20-25 continue to look at cuties same age without considering the maturity level in females compared to males.
All guys 20-25 are more like 17-22...so its time for you all to begin acknowleding 25-30 men...since u claim to be women...D U H !!!!!
2006-09-20 15:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a game but you can't blame all mens for what one man did you just luck upon the wrong one and there are still some good ones out there you just have to wing through themand do your home work on them good luck PS: don't be so trusting
2006-09-20 15:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where your shopping and your selection criteria. From what your describing perhaps you should change your shopping venue and alter your selection criteria.
Incidentally, I have learned through harsh experience NOT to give everyone a chance. If it feels wrong to you initially, it probably is.
2006-09-20 14:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋