Will my ex boyfriend ever call me again after I told him I needed my space to heal and move on?
Is it possible for a guy to break up with a girl that he is madly in love with but just couldn't handle the long distance? The love of my life broke up with me 6 months after I moved away to college because he said the long distance was so hard and he wanted me to have fun, meet people, and enjoy my college years. He called me two weeks after and siad he wanted to stay friends. He still loves me and tells me that but after 1.5 years of staying friends I just told him last week that I need time to heal and focus on myself. I was so emotionally drained b/c i love him so much..but i never could show it b/c i wanted him to think i was having fun and meeting new guys. He has a new girl..but has conitnued to call and act emotional towards me (i think she is just a **** buddy). now that i told him i needed space for myself but that i want 2 be friends in the near future ...will he ever call me?
2006-09-20 14:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys will be friends. It will take time. When the time comes, there will be some awkwardness, but catching up with each other's lives will make it easier.
2006-09-20 14:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart. Dont be ruined by emotions.
The fact that he has a new girl and also in touch with you is questionable.
You have done the right decision by telling him to be a friend.
Will he ever call you will all depend upon him - ie, once his desires are fulfilled with new girl, he might probably try to catch with you.
Or if he is a good person, he might be in touch with you once in a while despite his new girl friend and make you meet his new girl friend/ partner.
By the way you act strange - what was the need to tell him that you need space - this tells that you are no more in love with him and you are in date with another guy - You have already sent a negative signal and he has to look for another date. Since you said you wanted to be just friends, go by it............what was the purpose of using demeaning words to his new girl friend.
Its liek you dont want to be his love partner and at the same time you dont want him to date a new girl friend. YOU MUST SEE A DOCTOR
2006-09-20 15:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by donald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he wanted you to have fun, but you wanted him. Now he asks you back and you tell him you need space? Quit sending mixed messages. If you aren't having fun you'll have to deal (or make him deal) with the difficulties of long distance relationships, but you can always wait till after college if you still love him. to answer your question, if you want him, go for him. Don't be scared to make the move.
2006-09-20 14:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by fret_guy89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"b/c i wanted him to think i was having fun and meeting new guys"
Sounds like you're playing games, and to some extent, so is he. I don't understand why people do this. Just be honest. Who needs that crap?
If it was me, and this girl was the love of my life, I would make it work. Put yourself in his shoes, people break up with other people for a reason - they often sugar coat it so people don't get hurt, but at the end of the day he's still deciding not to be with you.
2006-09-20 15:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by hellfirsthand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I extremely have been thinking the comparable element! My boy constantly calls me acceptable, quite, etc. yet I on no account understand what to call him! He mentioned acceptable and stable-finding have been acceptable yet I in simple terms don't experience like they have the comparable meaning, ya understand? So i'm extremely attracted to men evaluations in this!
2016-10-15 05:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know but if he done thenit is goood but if he dont then i guess u shuf kall him u kno it is not only d guy tat has 2 kall its d grl 2 u kno so yea u should kall urself and ask him how come he stopped kallin u i guess and y did u tell him u needed space wat was tat all bout if u really loved him u wud never told him u need some space if u really loved him then woudnt you keep him i dont kno but i think he still likes/loves u and if he acts emotioal and **** and yea u need 2 kall him an talk 2 him 4 a while
2006-09-20 15:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a very comlex question. Sounds to me like this guy doesn't really know what he wants. If he wants to be with you, which by the way he broke up with you I wouldn't think so, then he will call. If he doesn't want to be with you (or thinks he doesn't) he probably won't call until when/if he realizes he does want to be with you.
2006-09-20 15:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Frank P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in charge of this situation, so I think you should be the one to call. Don,t be a pest but call on a regular basis and share information with him, especially your plans for the future, then ask him what is going on in his life and where does he see his future...
2006-09-20 15:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a player. He is keeping you as a fall-back option. If he is in a dry spell he will give you a call.
2006-09-20 15:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the dude to call you
2006-09-20 15:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋