My gf and I just broke up. She said that lately I've been really negative about everything and really sarcastic. I tend to be sarcastic whenever i joke around. I know that I'm negative because i hate to be disappointed. If I look at the bad side of things, then i feel like i will never be disappointed. I'm trying to sincerely change that, but I don't know where I get it from. I know that my dad is part of it because he has always been a negative person, but I feel like that's not all. My best friend passed away tragically and suddenly a few years ago, and it seems that since then, I've been negative because I'm afraid of being disappointed by how things turn out. If I can imagine something bad happening as a possibilty, then I won't be so surprised if it happens. I guess my question is...do you think that my best friend's death could have triggered my negativity, or am I just blowing air. And how can i change my ways?
2006-09-11
14:23:12
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