OKAY SO MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN DATING FOR ABOUT 5 MOTHS. I REALLY LOVE HIM BUT IT SEEMS THAT IF HE FLIRTS WITH OTHER GIRLS...... IT GETS ME KINDA MAD BUT, I NOTICED I HAVE FLIRTED WITH OTHER GUYS TOO IN FRONT OF HIM BUT I DIDN'T KNOW I WAS DOING IT UNTIL MY FRIEND TOLD ME. SO WHAT SHOULD I DO?? I MEAN I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES THEM, OR IF HE IS DOING IT LIKE ME TOO. AND NOT NOTICING. AND ALSO, HE GETS JEALOUS REAL EASY NOT TO BE CONCIETED BUT MANY GUYS AT SCHOOL LIKE ME AND WHEN I TALK TO THEM HE GETS MAD... THAT IS WHAT HIS FRIENDS TELLS ME BUT I DON'T KNOW. WHAT SHOULD I DO TO CHANGE THIS?
2006-09-11 14:26:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anna Bananna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i think you are cool! And that kepp on because sooner or later he will begin to think.... she's is only flirting becuase of my bad actions
2006-09-11 15:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by armygirl89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know u said girls, but apart from being all for equality 'n' that I think a guys opinion is just as valid if they've encountered a similar problem before.
...all you can really do is give him no reason to mistrust you and his jealousy will dim down somewhat. He might actually feel insecure about loosing you and he's subconciously "keeping his options open". Though it could just be his personality, think back to when you first met, was he just as flirtatious then, and if so was he like this with your other friends.
I think he's always been flirtatious and you've only just become aware of this as your attention has been drawn to your own flirtatious manner toward the opposite sex combined with impure thoughts, and possibly your dwindling love toward him, and your now starting to feel a sense of guilt 'cos he's nothing to hurt you and now your own insecurities are being tested.
2006-09-11 21:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by United_Until_I_Die 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about tihs? Communication is a beautiful thing. It's easy to assume, it's human nature to just assume, although some will say never assume, so who is right?
Talk to him about it if you haven't already, than go from there, think about your own actions in the future with your own flirting and maybe his actions will chance also. Maybe he is getting so upset, because he dosen't understand and realize how much you care, but if you do truly love this guy you would have thought about your actions b4 flirting in the first place.
2006-09-11 21:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by catboxhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Anna, No more flirting,and let your B.F. know he is the one for you, and all the over guys are just friends, and nothing else.It's sounds like you may have a very jealous B.F. on your hands.Lets hope not,This can lead to more problems you don't want.
Clowmy
2006-09-11 21:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so typical...guys want to flirt, but not let their girlfriends flirt. Of course, sometimes it's the girl, but not as often. Um, you can't change his flirting, so you just tell him if he won't stop, then neither will you. Don't let him tell you that it's what guys do...no, it's not acceptable. You want to be treated with respect and this is not respectful...Good luck.
2006-09-11 21:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY GOD who cares if you are flirting with other people. There are other attractive people in the world. Most people cant help but look at them. If you love each other thats all that matters. He chose you out of all the other attractive girls and you chose him out of all the attractive guys. Just relax and dont let stupid stuff like that bother you.
2006-09-11 21:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to convince him that you are not attracted to anyone else, and tell him that you you are not going to flirt anymore and ask him to stop it! But keep it in mind that both of you are too young! Don't expect any magic in your relationship, just enjoy and gather some experience! Maybe he is the one for you, but don't hurry! Give it time and you'll see!
2006-09-11 21:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by Masoud J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..... explain all this to him. Tell him that even if u do flirt u don't mean it at all. U really love him and no other guy is gona get in between u too.
2006-09-11 21:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres one thing sweety, no matter what you do jealousy is always going to be there. you just need to froget about it and dont let jealousy get the best of you. but make sure not to do any flirting around your boyfriend at all. you dont know what could happen.
good luck
2006-09-11 21:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by BrownEyedQT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how it is with my friend and her boyfriend..but she gets so mad.. so she had a talk with him and told him how she feels about all of it..he still flirts a little bit..but now as much
2006-09-11 21:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by hello! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋