Me and my bf are madly in love and tuesday the 12 we have been dating 4 1month. What are somethings we shouldnt do. We already made out and all but ya what else is too early?
2006-09-11 14:12:52 · 27 answers · asked by jennie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex is wayyyyyyyy to early. Only 1 month???? no way. Sex waits till marriage.. that's all i want to say
2006-09-11 14:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think you should worry about what all you guys should do. I think at age 15 it is hard enough to understand what guys really want and what you want. It should be fun, and no added stress of the physical stuff. If this boy likes you for you, then what physical things you do will not be an issue. I think kissing is alright. However, sometimes kissing leads to other things. I think you should be careful about getting too anxious about anything else. If you lose your virginity... you will not get it back. Losing your virginity makes you grow up alot faster than you are probably ready for. I am not your mother. I'm just a grown up that knows a lot of other grown ups that regret the 1st time that they did lose their virginity. And.. it wasn't always something they planned on doing. It was in the heat of the moment. If you ever choose to go further, you really need to make sure you are ready for hurt that may come. I am a grown adult, and I will not even sleep with someone I've only known for a month. I am no saint...however growing up makes me understand myself and made me realize I have to be comfortable with my decisions that may change my life forever.
2006-09-11 21:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think is madly in love sounds like lust. Once you really get to know each other and how your personalities really gel then you will know everything that you did too early. Slow down and work on getting to know the person and leave it at that.
2006-09-11 21:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what is a bad thing to do.. put time on a good relationship... timing is over-rated indeed.. There are somethings that should be left for the future of your relationship.. but if you feel comfortable and know that u 2 care about each other.... just do what comes natural and be comfortable with the spontaneous moment of love....OK
2006-09-11 21:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by cosmoestyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u've only been together for a month then u should definetly wait on sex.. im traditional n think it should wait till marriage, but seriously, if u give it up now then there's no more "suprises" n things 2 look forward to
2006-09-11 21:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slowly. One month is such a short amount of time in the span of a lifetime. If you are truly in love, you can hold off. If you have to ask if it's too early, it probably is....
2006-09-11 21:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by natasha b. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, my dear, you have plenty of time for everything else. Not to say he is doing this, but some guys are very patient until they get it.....after that you are history. So wait as long as you can. Not everything is as it seems.
2006-09-11 21:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making out needs to wait until maybe 3 months or so. Sex needs to wait until marriage.
2006-09-11 21:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 month isn' all that long. But do whatever you feel comfortable with and are ready for. I'd just go out somewhere, dinner, walk, part yetc.
2006-09-11 21:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can easily wait for the sex, as it changes the dynamic of the relationship
2006-09-11 21:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋