I have been talking to the guy that put my AC unit in through messenger for about 3 months. He initiated the conversation. He has drove by to see if I was home, but never stopped. He has my number, but has never called. Am I wasting my time talking to him??
2006-09-11 13:56:00 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't hurt to talk to him but don't sit around waiting for him either.
2006-09-11 13:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by mamaloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt calling than he is that in to you. Havent you ever heard of GregBehrendt. Check out his book called "Hes just not that into you"
Heres a clip of it.
It’s a classic single-woman scenario: you really like this guy, but he’s giving mixed messages. You make excuses, decide he’s confused, afraid of commitment. Behrendt, a former executive story editor for Sex and the City—and a formerly single (now happily married) guy who knows all the excuses—provides a simple answer: he’s just not that into you. Stop kidding yourself, let go and look for someone else who will be. After all, as Behrendt sensibly puts it, "if a (sane) guy really likes you, there ain’t nothing that’s going to get in his way." If you’re not convinced yet, by all means read this smart, funny and surprisingly upbeat little book, full of q’s and a’s covering every excuse woman has ever made to avoid admitting to herself that a man just wasn’t that smitten with her.
2006-09-11 14:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, But sometimes guys are real shy. If he's the shy type maybe not. But if he's not the shy type maybe, if you have his number give him a call. Just ask him what's up and if he'd want to go out. I know i've never actually really asked a guy out maybe once. But go for it, if he says no. Who cares, just another loser that's not worth your time anyway. Well I hope all works out
-Yeli Em
2006-09-11 14:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a strange relationship. If he wanted you, he'd call you by now...3 months? Even the shyest of guys will make a move after that long, especially if you've opened yourself up to it in the things you've said since meeting him. I'd say drop him, he'll just keep stringing this along.
2006-09-11 14:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are calling him then? if you are then maybe you are wasting your time. and it could be that he is shy maybe if you are calling him you could like ask him to go to lunch or out for some coffee or something like that. then you will know and he will know if there is something else there.
2006-09-11 14:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the first move. This is the 21st century, the next you to talk, ask him.
2006-09-11 13:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Smiley Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is shy-give him a call
2006-09-11 13:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats his problem? Does he like you or what? Kick him to the curve!!!!
2006-09-11 13:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe married,forget about him.
2006-09-11 14:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. he does not know what he is doing so he is avoiding you.
2006-09-11 14:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by Heathen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋