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Singles & Dating - 9 September 2006

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I'm so longing for a decent conversation is it hard to ask ?

2006-09-09 15:12:23 · 5 answers · asked by I-C-U 5

after being dumped after a 2 year relationship? im crying constantly what do i do to take my mind off him?

2006-09-09 15:12:09 · 19 answers · asked by koukla 2

To lay out the basics, I'm an eighteen-year-old female from the US. No matter how hard I try, I can't seem to find a guy my age who I am attracted to. He can be the nicest guy, the funniest guy, anything. I just can't seem to get excited about them. What's worse is, the only men who catch my attention are at least 30 years old. And 30 is the low end of the spectrum. I'll find myself looking at my dad's friends, my friend's parents, men at the grocery store, some of my teachers, etc. It drives me nuts. Today I saw this man who was probably around 45, but my god he was sexy...muscular biceps with tattoos, cute smile...anyway, I guess my question is this. What can I do to find someone closer to my age that can still be appealing to me in the ways that older men are? I don't even know if there's an answer, but anyway....advice would be great!

2006-09-09 15:11:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how did you learn?

2006-09-09 15:10:01 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda T 3

I like to have fun. If a guy has set a certain pattern how can it be changed?

2006-09-09 15:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by sophia 4

1-touch their waist
2-talk to them
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly


are you remembering this?


6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends


keep reading


11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved


Are you thinking about someone?


16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her shes beautiful, not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!


..20 u need to show her you mean it too


21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD!!!!
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. SMALL THINGS STILL HELP!


we might deny it but we accutally like and kinda want you to get us things


26-DON'T LIE TO HER.
27-DON'T CHEAT ON HER.
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you


are you still reading this? u better be! its important



31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her


remember this next time you are with her



36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible





41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night
44. Dedicate a song to her.
45. Always Remind her how much you love her.

2006-09-09 15:08:15 · 23 answers · asked by NC_baby_gurl 2

im so bored and its raining...

2006-09-09 15:08:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is VERY MATURE, but her mother doesnt know if she should date

2006-09-09 15:07:45 · 33 answers · asked by okay. 2

Please, dont pay attention to the question. Its just an attention grabber. Sorry.

I'm in high school and there is this girl that I like. I think she likes me too cos she is always trying to be around me and she is always smiling at me. She is shy and I am shy too.
I'm planning to give her a note next week. It will say: "I really like you and I think you are very beautiful so I was wondering if you wanna be my girl friend. If you are not interested, please feel free to say No"

What do you think?
Is it too bold?

PS: I'm new to this dating thing. Thank You

2006-09-09 15:05:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

how?

2006-09-09 15:04:03 · 28 answers · asked by love 2 kill 2

okay, so my bf of like 7 months broke up wit me on the first day of school which was completely unexpected and his reasonings were rather lame like that he didnt want a relationship right now and that he just wanted to hang out with friends and stuff and then went on to tell me that he still loves me he just needs some time...and now hes telling me he wants to hang out and stuff and is all calling me hunny and such....I am really confused as to why he is doing this and I am just wondering if anyone knows a way to make this more clear to me because I am really hurt and dont know what to think.........so yah advice would be nice thanks!

2006-09-09 15:03:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Physically- It'd be nice to have a guy taller than me (yeah, I'm 5'11"), I like tan or creamy skin, kind of messy long but not too long brown hair, bright eyes whether they be blue, green, or brown....I don't like super skinny guys either, it would be nice for them to look like they could take a guy out to defend you or something (lol) instead of looking like we have to defend them.

Personality- He has to be on the same intellectual level as me, if not more. Intelligent and seductive yet funny also (not in the class clown sort of way though). I want a guy that we can just cuddle while I listen to the sound of his voice while he is reading me one of my favorite books and send shivers down my spine. I want him to be chivalrous but not overbearing....there is a balance that you have to find. It would be nice if he liked the same music as I do which would be classic rock (i.e. The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, The Doors and so forth). I want him to be masculine, but not in the big football player sort of type but the more of the bad boy type (with out the bad ways of course). I want him to show respect for me as well as everyone around me, whether he likes them or not, that would show maturity.

I know there is no perfect person, and I don't want there to be....but how would you describe them if they existed?

2006-09-09 15:01:43 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle 1

2006-09-09 15:00:42 · 21 answers · asked by I-C-U 5

Do you shake hands, hug, or neither?

2006-09-09 15:00:37 · 20 answers · asked by Gen Xer 1

Details please.

2006-09-09 15:00:32 · 4 answers · asked by kickbutt 3

I know this guy, he's cute and nice and I think he's going to ask me out. But he seems like a quick mover and I've never had a real relationship. If he asks me out should I say yes and set limits? Or not even risk it?

2006-09-09 14:59:40 · 14 answers · asked by Jenna 1

Hey.

I feel silly for going to a message board to get love life answers, I'm completely stumped. My guy friend (we'll call him Bob) & I have been good friends for about 3 years now. In fact, he's my best guy friend & we talk about everything openly. But lately I've noticed a change. U ever been friends with a guy and u talk & talk and then one day you look at each other and its like "woa did you feel that?" sorta thing? Well, I've started to like him more than just a friend, but I'm afraid to go out w/ him because I don't want our friendship ruined by a messy breakup or something (its happened to me before so i'm cautious) & we believe really differently when it comes to some serious issues. But I think Bob likes me too because (well first of all a few of my friends seem to think it) he's started calling a lot regularly & wanting to hang out (just me & him instead of the usual w/ friends). I know that's not much to go on but do u think he likes me? Should we go out?

2006-09-09 14:59:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

its alot faster than wondering

2006-09-09 14:57:29 · 34 answers · asked by rsist34 5

ok at my highschool we do this thing every friday the football guys wear their jerseys to school and gie them to thier girlfriends and such well my bf brings two jersey to school this years and last years i get this years and he walks off wearing last years next time i see him is at lunch and he doesnt have his turns out this melissa girl has it and is wearing it we've been going out for like 6 months and i give him back his jersey cause he wanted it i go to my next class and this other girl had it

2006-09-09 14:57:12 · 20 answers · asked by Alice-In Wonderland 2

I'm not les (i dont think) im totally into guys i love guys but she always waves to me and blows kisses to me. its kinda scary should i maybe try to at least hang out with her?

2006-09-09 14:56:19 · 27 answers · asked by hockeyangelofdeath 2

2006-09-09 14:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by jojo 1

2006-09-09 14:55:11 · 12 answers · asked by jojo 1

I just broke up with my boyfriend I was having a bad week and not feeling well and I was rude when I broke up with him. But, I didn't mean it and I still love him. How do I win him back?

2006-09-09 14:54:59 · 27 answers · asked by Megan G 3

My ex-girlfriend and I been dating for four years. In those four years we have had a on and off again relationship. I know I havent been the ideal boyfriend. Alot of those times we broke up because of my temper or I did something stupid. But I tried to be a better person. We stay a hour and a half from each other. For a while she was saying this long distance relationship she couldnt handle. Two months ago she broke up with me saying that she no longer wanted to be in a relationship. Shortly after that she told me that she was seeing someone else and it was getting serious. I dont know how to get over her because she is still in my heart. But I still want to be with her. I tried going other dates but I just cant get her out of my mind and heart she hasnt called me or emailed at all. I loved her so much that I propsed to her and she said yes then. Ladies I need help cause I'm hurting and confused

2006-09-09 14:52:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and I have seen each other around before, and before yesterday, we'd talk only about two times before, and it was really nice conversation. But on the last two times, he'd just plopped down and sat right next to me...and he always started the conversation and we, yes I'l admit it, flirted.
But yesterday before work, I was sitting with my coworkers ( I work as a High School worker at the Commons), and he sat down with his food right next to me, and HE introduced himself to me. That has never happened to me before with a guy, I've always had to make 'the first move'., and it never works to my advantage...lol anyway, we were talking, and he was actually making conversation and stuff...he was really nice and friendly and talkative, and I actually had to end the conversation cuz I had to go to work...but anyway, he sat right next to me and started talking to me, I know his name and he knows mine, and I just would like to know if he was just being nice and polite, or not.

2006-09-09 14:51:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we only talk on the computer and we do its always alot, I am alwasy asking questions and i dont want ot eb annoying because to of my ex boyfriends says i am well anyway we only talk on the computer and last night i was at a foot ball game and he sat right behind me and the whole game all he was hello I kind of like him a little and on myspace i comemtned him and then i got a comment back and a picture comment im not sure if he likes me but if he doesnt how do i get him to like me?


my friend talked to him and he said maybe he would go out with me if we hungout a couple of times.

2006-09-09 14:50:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i don't really talk and things are so not the way its supposed to be even though we really like each other

2006-09-09 14:49:53 · 15 answers · asked by roxy_baby56 1

2006-09-09 14:47:57 · 22 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6

what is a girl supposed to do when the love of her life walks out of her life and she feels so helpless cause she's bulit her life around her and now that he's gone the world seems like a very scary and lonely place

2006-09-09 14:46:58 · 11 answers · asked by peaches 2

50 things guys should know about girls

1. Don't tell us when you think other girls are hot.
2. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, don't expect us to dress like Victoria Secret models.
4. Mark anniversaries on a calendar.
5. There is no such thing as too much cuddeling.
6. Just because you L the C doesn't mean we have to S the D.
7. This is how we see it . . . Don't call = Don't Care.
8. Which also means that if we don't call, take the hint.
9. We like you to be a little jealous . . . but overly possessive is not necessary.
10. Putting things in our butt does not turn us on.
11. Return favors: we massage, you massage; we go down, you go down; we shave, you shave (and not just your face).
12. Foreplay is not an option . . . its a prerequisite.
13. We're allowed to be late . . . you are not.
14. Eye contact is key.
15. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
16. Laugh at our jokes.
17. Three words . . . honesty, honesty, honesty.
18. Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers.
19. We never have to wonder if your orgasm was real.
20. Do not start with us. You will not win.
21. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? We didn't think so.
22. If you ask nicely, we usually answer the same way.
23. We will never have enough clothes or shoes!
24. We have an excuse to act bitchy at least once a month.
25. Open the door for us no matter where we are . . . even at our house and getting into the car.
26. We love surprises!
27. We liked to be kissed softly, not with an iron tongue.
28.Pay attention to the little things we do, because they mean the most.
29. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs sometiems . . . NEVER whitey-tighties, NEVER!
30. Clean your room before we come over.
31. Always bursh your teeth before you see us . . . a fresh mouth and white teeth are a necessity.
32. When we use our teeth it means that you suck at going down on us, so we are just returning the favor.
33. Even though you are sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
34. Hit it and quit it, because later I'll be with you're best friend and he lasts for hours.
35. Don't act hard around your friends because I won't make you hard tonight.
36. Sometimes "NO!" really means "NO!"
37. "Wife Beaters" are not an adequate form of fashion.
38. If we wanted to be on video tape, we'd be a porn star not your girlfriend.
39. Sensitive guys are great . . . but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.
40. Don't let ex-girlfriends cause drama, relationships are stressful enough.*
41. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
42. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman.
43. "Fat Chicks" have feelings too.
44. Silent treatment, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling and nasty looks all add up to . . . YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG!
45. If you are not a good dancer, please be self-aware.
46. Just because a girl doesn't pick up on the first ring doesn't mean she's not waiting by the phone.
47. You don't have to spend a lot, if it means a lot.
48. Don't say you love me if you don't mean it.
49. Don't lie to us . . . we will catch you.
50. When the girls get together, we talk about EVERYTHING. Meaning my best friends know everything about you.

2006-09-09 14:45:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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