I just broke up with my boyfriend I was having a bad week and not feeling well and I was rude when I broke up with him. But, I didn't mean it and I still love him. How do I win him back?
2006-09-09 14:54:59 · 27 answers · asked by Megan G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You talk to him, face to face, heart to heart. Pour out what you feel. Be honest.
2006-09-09 14:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww poor thing!!!! Firstly, if you guys really did love eachother , there is no "winning" back. Im sure he is confused. My gf did that a few times , altho she left me for good.
Anyway, i think you should say sorry (something very hard to say at times). Then you should tell him why you did what you did, and its not because you dont love him, believe me, guys need to know that too, at least i know if i was in that situation, id wanna know whats going on.
If he reacts by ignoring or staying silent, i think you might need to give him a little bit of time. BUT i think you should say sorry etc to him as soon as possible, things should be left broken, for long, its bad for both of you.
Another thing, you both have to realise this, (altho i think some people will disagree) when you have arguements etc, it shows the relationship is moving FORWARD. I know it sounds nuts, but it shows Both sides care enough about the other to bother to argue. Usually arguements mean that you both want to get closer, unconciously. (Let him know this too if possible)
Best of Luck! im sure everything will be alright!
Sel
2006-09-09 22:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by DudeWantsAnswers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow Megan kinda harsh well lets see you didnt mean too say it and you wanna know how to win him back well let see dress up nice and when you see him in school act like your not talking to him because when you do he is gonna look at you and you are gonna tell and always wrote him a note saying sorry and i didnt mean too i still love you sign love always megan with a heart give it to him or put it in his locker on the way to one of your classes and he has no choice but to come back to you or he could move on but i think hell come running back to you. Cause i also did the same thing with my bf and i wrote him a letter saying sorry and i still love you and can i have another chance and he said yes a kissed me so say that and hell be back in yours arms and your heart.
2006-09-09 22:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long since you broke up? A week, a month? It's still time to get him back. Just make him remember the best time the two of you orgasmed together and relive that moment.
2006-09-09 22:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Apologize, dont say please forgive me, say I am sorry, that means you truly mean it (otherwise you're just putting the heat on him to forgive you and he can always say no), secondly try to explain what you were going through and that you love him still by adding details about him that you love and can't do without, boost his ego a little and then kiss him.
2006-09-09 21:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by White 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're sorry and you were having a bad week and you didn't mean the things you said to him.
2006-09-09 21:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A phone call tell him your sorry and didn't mean what you said. Telling him that you were a fool treating him the way you did. Asking him to forgive you and you will do what it takes to prove your love for him.
2006-09-09 22:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you worry about winning him back, you should work on this part of your character that made you do something like this. Do you act moody or impulsive often? You may want to consider therapy. You should explain and genuinely apologize to your ex, but there is no guarantee he will take you back. If you can show him you are doing something about your little moodiness/ impulsivity problem, maybe he will be more likely to believe you really mean it. 'Good luck!
2006-09-09 21:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by lorgurus 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him exactly how you were feeling then and why, and then tell him how your feeling now. Tell him how you really feel about him and if he feels the same, all will be well. People break up all the time, usually for some pretty silly reasons.
2006-09-09 21:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Desi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you love him and explain you were having a bad day. If he really loves you then, you will be in his arms in no time
good luck
2006-09-09 21:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by kindaworried 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go back to him and tell him that you are sorry ! And you have been miserable since you left and you have learnt your lesson and assure him that this would not happen ever again.
2006-09-09 22:04:22 · answer #11 · answered by Cessar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋