my boyfriend and i don't really talk and things are so not the way its supposed to be even though we really like each other
2006-09-09 14:49:53 · 15 answers · asked by roxy_baby56 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't start talking you will soon start fighting, and that will be the end of that. If you can't talk to each other openly and honestly without an arguement, then what's the point of having a relationship? Give it a serious try to talk about what's bugging each other, and listen when the other one talks. Good luck!
2006-09-09 14:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if things aren't the way they are supposed to be why don't you two go hangout just you two, that always helps go play a sport with a lot of physical contact like football, yeah sounds stupid but when he tackles you he MiGht just lean in for a kiss and its very romantic if he does and that will bring you back.
2006-09-09 21:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Colleen P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First u will try to fix it, but I think the percent to get better is small. If u guy can not find subject to talk to each others, that mean u guy not belong to each others. U might think is ok, in the beginning, and u keep finding topic to talk to him, but u will be tired soon. GIve up will be the conclution.
2006-09-09 22:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by KAREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think that the 2 of you should talk more. Tell him you think that things are falling apart, just don't get mad at him.
2006-09-09 21:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships have communication problems, but you are astute enough to pick up on it now. Good for you. Now discuss this with your boyfriend... it's very important you communicate with each other effectively. It's mostly LISTENING, not just talking.
2006-09-09 21:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really do anything if things are falling apart...... be honest and open with him let him know what you think and if you and him want to work at it or not
2006-09-09 21:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once things get like that u cant actually mend them back together...and if u 2 really like each other but both want to split up....dont split up on bad terms..
2006-09-09 21:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by BaybieOil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its falling apart its most likely already too late
once the communication is gone then there is no recovery
2006-09-09 21:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by rsist34 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you need to sit down and TRY to talk. you can't expect things to be like they are in the movies. relationships are WORK, and if you are BOTH not willing to work, then you might as well hang it up.
2006-09-09 21:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if something is wrong and why he isn't talking to you. If he isn't talking, then do your best to strike up a conversation.
2006-09-09 21:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋