I know this guy, he's cute and nice and I think he's going to ask me out. But he seems like a quick mover and I've never had a real relationship. If he asks me out should I say yes and set limits? Or not even risk it?
2006-09-09 14:59:40 · 14 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you like him? If so, say yes. You don't need to outline the boundries right then and there. Not until you 'know' for a fact that he's someone who will be trying to jump over these boundries from the start. And when he tries, simply say this is moving too fast. It's as simple as that.
2006-09-09 15:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes say yes i mean life is for living right? & those who have never love & lost have never loved at all or lived .
Take the chance you sound very young so there is always time for the one . But if u do'nt feel comfortable set limits & do what you feel comfortable with . Never be pushed into something that you do'nt wanna do.
If he is forcing you. stop the relationship or talk to someone u trust Good luck with it all enjoy life
2006-09-09 15:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by connertyrone2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pass on this one. If you have never had a real relationship, I wouldn't start out with this person. He may be cute and seam nice but that could all be a put on to win girls over. Once he gets you out and away from others you could be in big trouble. Pick some one else to have a relationship with.
2006-09-09 15:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by ELIZABETH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would want to enjoy the date by letting things flow nicely. Then again, its ideal to set limits will be ideal as we usually see a different guy after they got what they want.
If you're serious about him, tell him face-to-face what you think and see his response. His response should more or less reveal his thoughts. It takes two to commit a serious relationship.
2006-09-09 15:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just for the record say yes and don't take it too seriously and in case things go way over the limit you can put a stop to it without much pressure...
2006-09-09 15:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by roxy_baby56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever you are comfortable with. Remember, you can always get out of a bad relationship. Jump right in to the dating circle and jump out if you feel like it. Whenever
so good luck to ya girl! and live on the edge!
2006-09-09 15:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take the risk if you can handle the pressure. Bring along protection just in case.
2006-09-09 15:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OFCOURSE YOU SHOULD SAY YES! =D when he does move too quickly just tell him you would like to take things nice and slow. the word "nice" is the key word so don't forget to say that.
2006-09-09 15:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you find another couple to double date with you? If you're nervous about it, listen to your inner voice and try to be safe.
2006-09-09 15:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa !!!!!! Slow down ...Just take it one step at a time...He may not be as quck as you think..Just take your time and get to know him better before you do anything
2006-09-09 15:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋