ladies only!!!?

Question

My ex-girlfriend and I been dating for four years. In those four years we have had a on and off again relationship. I know I havent been the ideal boyfriend. Alot of those times we broke up because of my temper or I did something stupid. But I tried to be a better person. We stay a hour and a half from each other. For a while she was saying this long distance relationship she couldnt handle. Two months ago she broke up with me saying that she no longer wanted to be in a relationship. Shortly after that she told me that she was seeing someone else and it was getting serious. I dont know how to get over her because she is still in my heart. But I still want to be with her. I tried going other dates but I just cant get her out of my mind and heart she hasnt called me or emailed at all. I loved her so much that I propsed to her and she said yes then. Ladies I need help cause I'm hurting and confused

Answer 1

I know how u feel because the wrost thing is to get ur heart broken by someone u really love. But u need to ask u self this question do i love her? or do i love the things she does? Because i once was in ur postion and i realise that i love the things that he did for me. And to tell the honest true hun her saying that an hour and half away from each other is rubbish because if u love someone distance shouldnt matter my b/f lives about hour n half away from me n i dont see that as a problem. And from a girls point of view it does seem like she doesnt like u anymore if she has not even try to ring or email u maybe u should try ringing her if u really want to win bk her heart but sometimes u need to just let go even if u feel like u cant do coz u dont want to spend the rest of ur life tie down and who know if it is meant to be she will sooon realise that she made a mistake by leaving u so just hold ur head up high and keep on believe in urself it not the end of the world ur still alive. And if u do get bk together maybe ur should both try to get some counciling good luck xxx And one thing even if i girl saying there seeing someone else sometimes there lying be because they just want to get u jealousy so dont worry she might not even be seeing anyone and maybe she broke up with u because she just wanted to go on a break but didnt know how to tell u (sorry if i confuse u)

Answer 2

You know sometimes we have to learn lessons the hard way. I think you just learned a hard lesson the hard way. You shared your life's together for 4yrs. However, it wasn't smooth sailing if you guys were off and on for the 4yrs. So.. it obviously was something you guys should have let go of sooner. And relationships shouldn't be that hard if they are the right ones. And remember for future references.. don't ever go down the same road you have been on. Meaning.. It doesn't matter if it looks a little different it is the same road it still heads N,S,E or West. Don't repeat your mistakes. Own up to what mistakes you made, and learn from them. Mistakes are worth making as long as you learn from them. This girl sounds over you, and it will just take time to get over her. I say do all you can to keep yourself busy, and if you have a temper problem then I suggest get involved in some activity that allows you to express it in a positive way. Such as football, or boxing.. or karate. This was actually a good lesson... it will make you think the next time before you say or do something. It will also teach you to appreciate the relationship that you are in, because at any time it could be gone. Good Luck, and keep your chin up. It will be ok

Answer 3

Chances are, longer isn't always better. It's time you moved on. If you're really worried about your anger and stupidity, try anger management, i'm not being sarcastic or anything, just recommending it. Its better than getting into a relationship and hurting her for real. What if you broke her? That would be bad. Some people need it, some people don't, and some people don't admit it. Just ask yourself if you need it. I don't know how bad it is, but if it caused her to break up with you more than once, chances are it needs to be fixed a little. Good luck.

Answer 4

I have read your detail, and the others 2 girls answer. one month ago, I have same situation with u. I love a boy, and we agreed to have relationship. we are in the long distance apart too. I love him, but he just so so. ( never hear he said he love me) I have use many differents ways to keep this relationship. He doesnot do much to help it. Finally last month, I gave up, I let it go. I let it go, do not mean I do not love him anymore, I love him more than anything. But I understand If I love him , want him to be happy, I need to let him go find his happyness. I have try to datre many guys after him, it go ok, but I do not have the deep feeling as I was with him anymore, I will not pay more attention on relationship anymore, LOve is hard. !!

SO, My advises to u, u love her, let her go, let her be with whoever she will be happy. U might be sad in the beginning, but at least she is happy. I know it is hard , try your best and do not let her know u are sad without her, Be strong !! Be brave !! There are still many girls waiting for u to love them. If u can find a girl now, just cool down and wait, separate your love to your family and friends. they are the people care about u too. After u cool down , u will see the sky is really wide. Hope u can find a perfect girl soon, good luck !!

Answer 5

Love hurts that aint no lie but if your a believer.
Love keeps on trusting God , it keeps on expecting the best even when the right choices you make don't turn out the way you want.
You will love again don't worry. Love doesn't give up just because something goes wrong or because your feelings are hurt God is in charge.

Answer 6

well, you gotta take the truth and deal with it. at least she was honest enough to tell you the truth. course, it hurts. it sucks, and you wanna scream. but listen, life is still gonna go on, whether you are sitting around crying in your beer, or out there living life to the fullest.

sure, you are entitled to spend a few days feeling bummed. but dude, you gotta get up and over this hump. there is no law that says you must have a girl in your life at every given moment. just go with the flow, and what's meant to happen will. hang out with the guys for a bit. build your esteem back up. do some stuff you have always wanted to do.

call your mom...call your sister...call your auntie...call another important woman in your life. she will tell you what a great guy you are, i guarantee it. that's bound to make you feel better.

Answer 7

Heartbreak is a bit$h, but it happens to all of us at one time or another. Be thankful that you didn't get married and THEN find out it wasn't going to work. No one says you have to date someone else right away, just hang with your friends for a while.

Answer 8

well I'm sorry , i know how you feels i have been in the same place, but i have also realized that there's no reason to spend all your time and life on someone who's in a different world. I'm tryna say that you have the ability to make this pain stop, you need to control your life , cuz it sounds like she is. Think about that

Answer 9

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Answer 10

1 & 1/2 hrs apart is long distance to this girl? how old are you 2? look, she didn't have the courage to break up with you honestly so she used an excuse. you deserve better or maybe just need to be on your own. good luck!