Singles & Dating - 28 August 2006

WHAT IS IT THAT YOU LIKE THE BEST WHEN A GUY GOES DOWN ON YOU? ALSO.. wHAT DO YOU LIKE BETTER, INTERCOURSE OR ORAL?

2006-08-28 06:04:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.. my boyfriend is fat. Ive made many very clear hints to lose the weight. Ive made bets with him, pointed out the size of his parents, made him promise to eat no more fast food, and i had little minor talks with him. I tried everything.. i even considered slipping diet pills in his drink!
When we first started dating he was 235lbs... now he is 265. i dont like "doing anything" with him because its such a turn off. He doesnt find motivation to excercise and cant control his eating habits.
I push off goin to the shore with him.. cus im embarrased when he takes his shirt off.
So many people tell me to dump him, but i cant.. i love him madly. \
But i cant be with someone forever if im gonna be disgusted everytime i look at him.
I know looks/weight should not come between 2 people in love, but hes pushing it.


please! give me some advice! what the hell should i do!?

2006-08-28 06:03:44 · 33 answers · asked by Krys 1

2006-08-28 06:02:33 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2

How do I get her to be open all the time? She is still fun sober, but the bedroom life is a little bland then. When she gets drunk, which is about once a week or less, then we have a great time in bed, but she passes out right afterwords and I'm not used to that. I want us to be open and be able to experiment when we are sober to make sure this will last. When she isn't drinking, she only likes missonary and nothing else. I"ve tried many times and she won't go for anything else or for morning sex, which I love :)

Any idea from guys or gals on how to get her to relax and just be herself? Thanks everyone.

2006-08-28 06:02:26 · 14 answers · asked by just a guy 1

2006-08-28 06:00:59 · 2 answers · asked by is8nchubbycool 1

I have been with my guy for 2 years and we live together. Occasionally when I am bored or curious I will scroll through his phone. The other day I said something to him about a call on his phone and he got all weird about me looking at his phone. It is not out of lack of trust that I do this. And on the other end of the spectrum, I would have no problem if he looked at my phone. I feel that we should have nothing to hide from one another. Am I in the wrong?

2006-08-28 06:00:32 · 14 answers · asked by h_nanny 1

when someone does or say's something to you that really upset you, can and have you forgiven them and forgotten what they said? When ppl do it to me i try to forget about it and forgive them but i can't, i try not to hold grudges but when i speak to some ppl i still think of what they said and treat them a little differently to how i used to.

2006-08-28 05:59:50 · 44 answers · asked by missy minx 3

to get what you want on a date? Did you feel remorseful after?

2006-08-28 05:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you have sex with a guy, 1st time or not do they always want to go "down " on you?

2006-08-28 05:57:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok maybe i didnt make my situation clear to those of you who think i'm a SLUT or a hoe...i'm not!....i've only been with my bf for a month...he lives in dc..he's in the army...i live in PA...i've only had the chance to be with him 2x's since we've gotten together...but this guy i kissed and cuddled with...i've known a year...and he lives about 20 minutes from me...me and my bf...we dont seem to have that beginning relationship butterfly's for eachother...the kind u get when you're excited to hear from each other..its like...we're just friends....but we're dating eachother..i get more butterfly's for this guy i was with friday..just due to i know i have feelings for him...but i have feelings STRONG ones for both of them...and thats why i'm asking this question cause i'm sure many of you have been here before...and i dont wanna get to deep into 1 and then hurt the other by telling him he hasn't been the only guy i've been close to or moderatly romantic with...THAT is the mess i'm in..

2006-08-28 05:56:51 · 16 answers · asked by mercedes_19842002 2

2006-08-28 05:54:01 · 13 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4

I need some songs to help me heel. I got my heartbroken and I was wondering if anyone knew any good songs or treatments to help me out. Thanks!

2006-08-28 05:52:59 · 35 answers · asked by ~*~Steph~*~ 2

HOW MIGHT HE REACT IN PRIVATE ?

2006-08-28 05:51:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

given that no-one is perfect and we have to tolerate people's faults. this guy has a habit of shouting aggressively in response to the slightest provocation + giving verbal abuse in order to provoke an argument. he seems to be unaware that the behaviour is offensive, therefore is unable to alter it. does this sound like i am being unreasonable. can a person learn to get a grip of their emotions? am i expecting too much out of this guy?

2006-08-28 05:51:15 · 23 answers · asked by jay dee 1

What do you think is the most beautiful word combination in the english language? It was said by a famous linguist that out of all of the numerous combintations of words in our language that the words "Cellar Door" were the most beautiful...What do you think?

2006-08-28 05:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

if she gave u a hard tym b4, but nw she realises that she lykd u, wud u stil hav feelings for her, or hate her?

2006-08-28 05:50:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you want to do now and who with?

2006-08-28 05:50:36 · 1 answers · asked by PhotoARTist 3

2006-08-28 05:48:12 · 2 answers · asked by q.u.e.s.t.i.o.n.e.d 1

It seems socialy acceptable for an older man to date a younger women but not when its other way around the women gets ridiculed.I personally would date an older women if the age gap wasn't to big.Whats you view?

2006-08-28 05:48:03 · 9 answers · asked by Petrol Head 2

Im talking girls that look like the hotties on the spanish channels...you see them on tv, but i go out and maybe you see one, but thats it? Where are they all hiding??

2006-08-28 05:47:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-28 05:46:22 · 15 answers · asked by ___________ 2

2006-08-28 05:46:17 · 6 answers · asked by Kacey A 1

me and my boyfriend recently moved in together and we was doing fine,but recently we have been really struggleing money wise ,he has 2 jobs and i had 2 jobs,anyway 1 of my jobs was working in a bar,well last week we was having a private funtion for a stag night,there was 50 men there all trying to cop a feel,well 1 of the men said that he would give me $100 just to insert his penis into me for one minute and thrust then he would pull out well all the men offered me $100 to do the same we was really strapped for cash and this was like all our prayers have been answered,so i agree 50 men for $100 each just one minute of thrusting into men they all wore condoms so there was no worries there,anyway the last man thrust until he c.u.m. i went home with $5000 and a smile on my face altho i was slightly sore,i told my boyfriend and he chucked me out and said we didnt need the money that bad but i have told him i only did it for him who,s right in this situation him or me??

2006-08-28 05:46:07 · 38 answers · asked by verons_girl 3

he doesnt live round here so has no reason to be driving past. he says he worries about me but i think that's just an excuse to try + hang around. i don't really want to carry on the relationship because i don't think i care about him enough

2006-08-28 05:44:37 · 29 answers · asked by jay dee 1

I called my ex-girlfriend to get my things back that were left at her house. She told me no and said this was peety. I"m confused, everything that was left at her house I purchased and she cant use it. It wasnt a bad break up. So why would she want to keep my things.

2006-08-28 05:44:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best food a girl can cook for you?

2006-08-28 05:43:52 · 21 answers · asked by sophisticatedJES 2

This is the situation. So I dated this guy summer of 2004. We went on 3 shitty dates and I pretty much stopped talking to him because he got annoying. . I met him through myspace. He had emailed me and told me that he actually been friends with some of my friends from up here in the SF Bay. Plus he had gone to my highschool for a year...so I figured he was more normal than the average myspace guy. lol Let's just say he seemed to be really sweet at first and I was curious. But I basically went out with him like 3 times and then pretty much stopped speaking to him for about a year or so after I got annoyed with him. Plus he started to seem kind of shady. Then this past October we randomly started talking again. He tried to hit on me the last time I was down in la but I basically hinted I just wanted to be friends. Some of the things he said about girls he's dated seem weird too.... . like he always denied getting this girl pregnant and denies he has a kid.

2006-08-28 05:43:41 · 13 answers · asked by Choirgirl81 1

2006-08-28 05:41:25 · 24 answers · asked by ___________ 2

I'm 27, he's 29, we went to high school together, and our paths have crossed again briefly. He's divorced, I'm divorced. We have so much in common, but he didn't ask for my phone # or anything. Should I make the first move? If so, how do I do it? What's appropriate?

2006-08-28 05:40:45 · 20 answers · asked by Karla W 1

If men are all the same what is the complication that women have to chose the right one!!!

2006-08-28 05:38:25 · 25 answers · asked by angel eyes 2