ok maybe i didnt make my situation clear to those of you who think i'm a SLUT or a hoe...i'm not!....i've only been with my bf for a month...he lives in dc..he's in the army...i live in PA...i've only had the chance to be with him 2x's since we've gotten together...but this guy i kissed and cuddled with...i've known a year...and he lives about 20 minutes from me...me and my bf...we dont seem to have that beginning relationship butterfly's for eachother...the kind u get when you're excited to hear from each other..its like...we're just friends....but we're dating eachother..i get more butterfly's for this guy i was with friday..just due to i know i have feelings for him...but i have feelings STRONG ones for both of them...and thats why i'm asking this question cause i'm sure many of you have been here before...and i dont wanna get to deep into 1 and then hurt the other by telling him he hasn't been the only guy i've been close to or moderatly romantic with...THAT is the mess i'm in..
2006-08-28 05:56:51 · 16 answers · asked by mercedes_19842002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to resolve this issue is to go lesbian.
2006-08-28 05:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by ezydriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack yourself , you claim you areDATING the guy in thearmy but you DO NOT Have those butterfly feeling ... WTF is that ... you want to bang the guy thats 20 minutes away from you.
Talk about eating your cake and having it too. SO how would you feel if the guy in the Army was banging some beaver near the base and hung out with you?
You would be pissed off and want to castare him , so PICK ONE and drop the other witch !
next - how can you not hurt one - you been leading both down that road to relationship and you CLAIM you dont want to hurt one lOL YEAH RIGHT and the check is in the mail ! Nice try you can belief that line of BS all you want , the real world sees through that foggy BS like we do other crap !
Grow Up and pick one clown !
Since you wantte guy who is 20 minutes from you and you CUddle ( yeah right only cuddle ) snickers loudly ... pick him since you have those Butterfly feeling for him
2006-08-28 06:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live hours from a guy who you are dating and have no feelings for and 20 minutes from a guy you do have feelings for? Well, I have to point out that you are DATING these guys and you have to be upfront about it with them so that neither believe that you are flying solo with them. When you feel more comfortable with one over the other, or maybe neither, then you will know the right decision to make. But until you are ready to settle down, have fun but be honest with they dates and yourself.
2006-08-28 06:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on by breaking it off with your army bf cause you dont have real feelings for him anyways. Stop playing and dragging on that relationship. You're just afraid of hurting him.
2006-08-28 06:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG>>> THEN END IT WITH THE ONE MONTH GUY!!! I still firmly believe that someday the man of your dreams is going to pass you up for cheating. If I were you... Id NEVER do that cheating s h i t again and hope that NOONE ever asks you if you ever have... I know tons of people who ask that FIRST... So good luck with your life.
2006-08-28 06:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right 2 points
2006-08-28 06:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go wit da one u lives closer to u he can give u time u need inna relationship..believe me ive been thru dis many of times.. and iff u let dis contunue der bound to find out about each otha and denyull b da one hurt.. da army guy sounds niece but it aint gonna work ma.. ive tried long distance ones b4 and dey jus don work out as good as if da person dat does live close to u
2006-08-28 06:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by tavis c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i grow to be interior the comparable seize 22 difficulty as you some weeks in the past. My female chum grow to be extremely agnostic. All i had to do is sit down her down with my mom and clarify to her what it takes to get into the kindom of God. Now we are the two christians. I propose you do the comparable. do no longer purely say "i've got self belief in God and you do no longer, so we are able to artwork greater perplexing to make this artwork" pray approximately it, artwork at it, and in case you won't be able to convert him, it would be unwise to proceed seeing him.... God bless
2016-10-01 00:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by sisson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think those butterflies last forever? They don't. Love matures beyond the butterflies.
2006-08-28 06:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to decide whether or not u want to still be with ur boyfriend. don't hurt anyone if u can avoid it. first u need to be honest with yourself and the others and make ur decision if not leave them both alone until ur able to make a proper decision.
2006-08-28 07:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋