This is the situation. So I dated this guy summer of 2004. We went on 3 shitty dates and I pretty much stopped talking to him because he got annoying. . I met him through myspace. He had emailed me and told me that he actually been friends with some of my friends from up here in the SF Bay. Plus he had gone to my highschool for a year...so I figured he was more normal than the average myspace guy. lol Let's just say he seemed to be really sweet at first and I was curious. But I basically went out with him like 3 times and then pretty much stopped speaking to him for about a year or so after I got annoyed with him. Plus he started to seem kind of shady. Then this past October we randomly started talking again. He tried to hit on me the last time I was down in la but I basically hinted I just wanted to be friends. Some of the things he said about girls he's dated seem weird too.... . like he always denied getting this girl pregnant and denies he has a kid.
2006-08-28 05:43:41 · 13 answers · asked by Choirgirl81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all his friends on myspace say it's true because they are friends with his ex and seen the baby and his sister is disappointed at him because his negliance in the situation. I've never met his friends or his sister or roommate. I only know these two guys and he always tells everyone he doesn't know who I am.
He calls me when he comes up here but.... all my earlier intution seems to have paid off. When I was sort of seeing him, I sensed that he always looking for sex. I mean when we talked on the phone it was fun to talk to him...but in person he was like an octopus (hands everywhere). He'd play it off like he was this sweet, nice guy but I was like dude...I hardly know you, and I'm not that type of girl. And yet he'd always seem to be pushing me towards sex in this sort of subtle ha ha or not soo subtle way and guiding my head to the oral sex position. He tried to have sex with me but we never did...we got slightly physical (let's just say oral)and then I dumped him
2006-08-28 05:46:04 · update #1
after a shitty date as I said earlier. he had a dna test done with his ex and he is the father of the child but cliams he isn't ready, she's trying to running his life...blah blah blah...its her fault, she is harasser him...blah blah...but why would his sister be involved . I've seen pics of the baby and she looks like him....how can someone not want to see their own flesh and blood, doesn't matter how they were conceived? If he was lying why is she sueing him for custody,support and visitation?
2006-08-28 05:48:36 · update #2
email me at heather1981@aol.com or message me on myspace
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=1840148
2006-08-28 05:49:39 · update #3
He seemed to be nice though and was lending an ear to some troubles I was having. So I feel bad totally dropping him...even if he IS the BIGGEST SKEEZE when it comes to girls. I think I will put him in the category ...as a person who has some issues.
Don't get me wrong I LOVE to PARTY and go out...but I don't sleep with just anyone. I mean come on, a girl has to have standards. Besides I'm somewhat inexperienced in that department which I let him know at the very beginning. Yet he didn't seem to care and was in a hurry to rush things along. (Don't worry he didn't get far and he won't) So feeling the possibility of being used I dumped him. Thank god I listened to my intuition or I might been like his ex. I hope that girl avoids him at all costs...what kid wants to know that their dad is a tool? I feel bad because he always said she was a slut and slepts with alot of guys. Hello? The girl is beautiful! If I were a guy or a lesbian I go after her ..lol..but believe him like him like
2006-08-28 05:51:27 · update #4
an idiot! The girl doesn't sleep around. She only dated him. why do guys say that about girls when **** hits the face. HE IS 27 YEARS OLD!
He calls me every now and than rambling on about B.S. that someone hates him. First he was like I swear on my family's life...blah blah...and was like someone hates me and is against me. Funny how he is always the victim. He tried to call me but I just screened the calls. I don't have time for his BS. I have a life. lol... Maybe now he will get a clue and start thinking of actual funny things to joke about.. I think he just desperately needs and wants attention. Or maybe, he needs a situation for his comedy...whatever. I'm mad at him, but I think he figures there's no point in bothering me about it. Anyways I just I just listen to his ramblings because it seems he needs the attention and ignore his antics. I can't believe how much of a dick he turned out to be. I never would have thought...
2006-08-28 05:53:51 · update #5
NOW HE IS TELLING ME THE CHICK IS MAKING UP BEING AND ITS NOT HIS KID BUT THE DNA TEST SAIDS HE IS 99 PERCENT THE FATHER!!!
2006-08-28 05:54:35 · update #6
IS HE LYING ABOUT THE PREGNANT GIRL AND WHY WOULD SHE FILE FOR CUSTODY AND SUPPORT? I REALLY LIKED HIM AT THE BEGINNING BUT NOW...
2006-08-28 05:55:42 · update #7
ALL HIS FRIENDS NO HER AND ALL HIS FRIENDS LIKE HER AND ADORE THE BABY...SHE IS FRIENDS WITH HIS SISTER! i DON'T GET IT!? WHAT DOES HE WANT WITH ME?
2006-08-28 05:58:03 · update #8
this is him:
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=640017
I'm sort of jealous of his ex because she is beautiful and sickening sweet.. I feel sorry he has been a dick to her and isn't man enought to see his own baby. I guess I really don't know him well.
2006-08-28 06:02:05 · update #9
no he has a kid and there aren't just assumpations....the dna test proofs he is the father and i've seen it....his close family friends won't tell me anything because they said it's none of my business and i don't even know him or her or them. I guess i really cant figure him out
2006-08-28 06:15:03 · update #10
can someone call me and talk to me in person about this?
1-925-285-9551
2006-08-28 06:15:45 · update #11
i really wanted to believe he was a good guy and meant well but i guess i was wrong.. i'm a graduate student at the san francisco conversatory and he is a college drop out aspiring comedian...lol
2006-08-28 06:17:23 · update #12
This guy sounds weird......... I would stay far away from him. I would have NO contact with him as he obviously is one messed up guy who sounds like a pathalogical liar! You don't need someone like that in your life....
2006-08-28 05:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you question is here - is he lying about having a baby? Well I guess you and I can't answer that. However what you need to ask is why you are friends with him. All you have listed here is bad points 1.He portrays himself as a friend and a nice lad but 2. Is only after sex. 3. Has a shady past with women. 4. You only dated him 3 times. I would say trust yourself, you knew what he was like. Why are you doubting yourself now? Plus ask yourself what he brings to your life. I think if you re-read what you have written you have already answered your own question.
2006-08-28 05:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by priestesshp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about - Why does anybody lie? Why will each individual on the planet tell a lie? Human Nature. shielding instincts. we favor to influence others, be envied, be the dominant, sense good and sense major. each in certain situations your own existence accomplishments do not really degree as a lot as what you sense is staggering. i'm a woman and definitely, i trust the lads who do lie (and in no way all do- not about huge issues besides) is because they prefer to influence! Now in the journey that your boy is mendacity about seeing different women and getting round properly he's a sleeze and there is not any element questioning the lies, your extra constructive off backhanding the son of a *****. yet when he's mendacity to talk himself up slightly then take a step back and picture about all the white lies an exaggerations you've made concerning who you're. you're taken aback, and per chance the question will be reversed to why do you lie?
2016-12-05 19:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by barras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run far away from him! dont answer his calls! he is clearly lying about knocking his ex up. He lives in hollywood. Why in the hell does he want to take responsible when he can sleep with a different hoe anytime he wants? I hope he gets the max in child support payment. Just be lucky it wasn't you that got knocked up, especially since your a grad student!
Also, ask yourself, why she is friends with his sister and friends? They seem to say nothing bad about her and the baby. He sounds like a selfish immature boy who wants mommy and daddy to bail him out live off their wealth. The dude is 27 years old. Time for him to grow up and be a man...he has a kid!
2006-08-28 07:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by alwayscheerin49ers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn girl.. you puttin' his business out there on the streets! even got his myspace up! hahaha.. that's dirty
real talk though.. do you really want to get involved with someone who might have a kid? even if it's his or not? who cares if he's lying or not.. that should be reason enough not to date him
if you really do have standards like you say.. drop that n*gga and step your game up.. there's better dudes out there who work hard and have their sh*t together.. trust ya boy
anyway.. what your saying about the dude really doesn't make sense.. i can't even tell if he's lying or not.. you're making assumptions about the dude.. you never know.. he might be telling the truth about what he's saying
anyway.. wish you the best.. hope you find what you're lookin' for.. stay up
2006-08-28 06:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by do it movin' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away as possible!! These days, you NEVER know who youre dealing with. Sounds like hes got quite a dark past...not something you should get yourself involved in. If youre questioning his character, then follow it. Its your "gut's" way of telling you something isnt right. He's a dog...drop him off outside the pound and let him fend for himself...
2006-08-28 05:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by inevitable2277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already have the answer to this question. Follow your intuition.
2006-08-28 05:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by T S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a guy that treats you better and dont force sex on you either. i say change your number and find someone better.
2006-08-28 05:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning his honestly...then more likely he is lying. Trust your instincts!
2006-08-28 05:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by deepadot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to run like hell away from this stupid and lying man. don't waste a minute...get away from him now.
2006-08-28 05:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋