How do I get her to be open all the time? She is still fun sober, but the bedroom life is a little bland then. When she gets drunk, which is about once a week or less, then we have a great time in bed, but she passes out right afterwords and I'm not used to that. I want us to be open and be able to experiment when we are sober to make sure this will last. When she isn't drinking, she only likes missonary and nothing else. I"ve tried many times and she won't go for anything else or for morning sex, which I love :)
Any idea from guys or gals on how to get her to relax and just be herself? Thanks everyone.
2006-08-28 06:02:26 · 14 answers · asked by just a guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Communication is key. Maybe she has issues with how she looks naked. Just be patient with her and keep reassuring her to make her more comfortable.
2006-08-28 06:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a little moderation on the bottle might get her just drunk enough...
also sounds like she's maybe had some issues involving... umm... not nice people and her privates...
But asking her flat out about something like that would be a pretty bad move on your part.
You asked us. Maybe it's time to ask her... but ask nicely, and don't get mad. Remeber, you just want to understand, because she really rocks your world when shes drunk, and you think it would be great if she could remeber it when she's sobler, and have a long, happy, truely fulfilling sex life with you... and not die of liver failure ten years from now just because she isn't getting your rocks off when she's sober.
2006-08-29 01:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea...she's got issues. I mean, don't get me wrong, drunk sex is great! But sometimes it's nice to be wit dat person you like when she's sober. Just talk to her.. and once ur in the moment, if you see she don't like some things well just back off and start doing other things until you see she feels relaxed
2006-08-28 13:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may be insecure about her looks or the way she performs in bed. Compliment her and reassure her that she is beautiful. Find out one thing she likes about herself and focus on that. That way, she will not feel uncomfortable about the compliment, because she will already believe it herself. This will help her to trust you more. Once done, you can start pointing out her other good qualities and because she trusts you, she will believe you and find new confidence in herself. Confidence is key in order to get a girl to open up in bed. Good luck!
2006-08-28 13:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not satisfying her mind before sex u need to romance ger mentally take her on a picnic feed her strawberries or sliced peaches be her romantic knight just make sure things feel sincere wash her feet and suck her toes softly because she is a freak you need to bring it out. when im drunk i feel more sexy and exotic when im sober i just dont feel like all of that. u need to make her feel that away boo lol
2006-08-28 13:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by firered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to either keep her drunk or sit down and have a long talk about it!
2006-08-28 13:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldnt need to drink to open up, thats mingling at a party... you should try doing daytime activities then enjoying time together alone
2006-08-28 13:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by ??ThiNk PiNk?? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my dream girl!
2006-08-28 13:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make her fill you and not you too feel herand tell how you fill when she gets drunk
2006-08-28 13:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by minty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewww drunk sex that is so gross. talk 2 her about how u feel.
2006-08-28 13:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋