he doesnt live round here so has no reason to be driving past. he says he worries about me but i think that's just an excuse to try + hang around. i don't really want to carry on the relationship because i don't think i care about him enough
2006-08-28 05:44:37 · 29 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were together 2 - 3 months. but it is not illegal for one to drive on a public highway if he has paid his road tax, etc
2006-08-28 05:54:04 · update #1
Report him to the police and get a restraining order. It sounds like he is stalking you.
2006-08-28 05:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds To Me Like He Is Stalking You And In This Case You Should Be Worried As The Police Will Not Be Able To Do Anything Unless He Attacks You But Keep A Diary Of Every time You See Him Outside Your House Date, Time, Car Details, Ect... If He Calls You Keep A Record And In A Month Take It To The Police And They Can Get A Harassment Order On Him But The Only Trouble With That Is Once He Gets That You Are On Your Own And He Could Get Dangerous
I Know What That Is Like I'm 21 And Have Had A Stalker Since I Was 12 And Even Today He Still Can't Leave It Its Not Nice
2006-08-28 05:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
2016-07-19 17:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Butts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
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2016-04-28 01:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know this guy, so I don't know if he poses a threat to you, but my ex used to do similiar things. He actually moved into the same apartment building as me (not because I lived there), and had a view of my living room from his bedroom. He would tell one of our mutual friends that he stared into my place to catch a glimpse of me all of the time. It was creepy, but I ignored it because I knew he was of no danger to me. If you feel your ex would harm you in any way, you ought to consider a restraining order. Or maybe just talking it out with him would get him to leave you alone. Either way, your life is not his business anymore, so he should stop stalking you.
2006-08-28 05:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be worried, he sounds like he's becoming a stalker. He's probably gonna be doing that for a while hoping that you'll come back to him. You need to end the relationship with some kind of a closure.
2006-08-28 05:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you sure this IS your ex and if it is you need to tell them to their face to stop driving past your house and THEN you can file for a restraining order or ppo but only after ... if i was you i would follow him (take a friend with you maybe) see how they like it make sure it is them just to see if it is confront them about it and tell them to leave you alone at that point that is your telling them at that point to their face part and then if they do it again go to the court house cops whatever but really there are probably just unresolved issues there or they just miss you and want to talk if they are driving by and maybe they want to talk or something and just afraid to stop because they are afraid you will get mad or something....but if it scares you that bad then ...do the above and let them know...just all kind of sad....
2006-08-28 06:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you got a stalker, tell him to stop it,, n cut all contact with him,, if he persists,, report him to the police for harassment. Then have your solicitor file for an interdict against him to stop him coming within a certain distance of you.. If all else fails,, get yourself a great big bruiser of a boyfriend to beat him up on the sly.. Mind now,, no witnesses,, no charges.....
2006-08-28 05:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by badassbiker1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not obligated to get back with him just cuz he's still got a thing for you. Go about your life and ignore him. Just be careful. He sounds like he has the potential to be a stalker.
2006-08-28 05:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NASA , don't worry about that , you probably the one who broke up with him so i think his pride is killing him , besides there is a possibility that was having only a crush on him
advice , when he passes around your place , don't show up at all and if he calls you don't answer or even send him a busy tone , just disappear and he'll give up on you eventually
2006-08-28 06:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as all he does is occasionally drive past, try to ignore him.
If he escalates to following you, knowing your routines and waiting for you, go to the police as he is becoming a stalker.
2006-08-29 22:37:47 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋