I met this person online. We clicked in all ways possible. We're long distance, western US from eastern US. We're going to meet shortly and plan out what we want to do. Talk constantly on phone and online.
Problem is, I've been hurt in local relationships, and I am afraid of being hurt again. I want to give this my all, and I have developed a significant amount of feelings for him. His family and friends know about me, and I've been on the phone when he's talked to them... and I've talked with several of his friends.
QUESTION: He's quite open with this, and practically every one knows about "us". BUT... am I just being paranoid? Because two particular girls leave him notes on his profiles using pet names and saying "hey lover" and such things. At one point he deleted one of them, he told me because he felt uncomfortable... but he readded her. I know talking about it is an option... but I don't want to feel over-bearing.
So, paranoia? Or reasonable suspicion?
2006-08-26
08:50:13
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Dawn
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