My boyfriend went out to a party 2 nights ago, he said he was gonna get drunk, and of course i didnt apperciate that but anyway. He decided to piss me off even more and not talk to me yesterday. I was worried that he was arrested or dead. So today he talked to me for 5 minutes, logs off and then comes back on. I had to go so, i asked him when we was coming on so we could talk and he said 8. so im waiting, hes a half and hour late.... here's my question.... should i tell him that im mad that he decided to play playstation and ignore me? or should i just let it blow over? what should i say to him? I dont want to get in lots of fights... but i dont know how to express what i feel to him... adivce?
2006-08-26 08:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, there's a couple things that aren't clear to me: are you guys an Internet type couple? If that's true then relax, it's not worth your time to be so angry. If not, then try not to talk to him for a couple days yourself. When a girl I'm dating jumps in my face about something, I think "my god, this girl's a psycho!" When she doesn't call for a couple days, I think "whoops she really is mad. I'd better grovel like hell." You know what I mean? The cold shoulder works wonders for girls who want to tell their guys that they're upset. But if he's half an hour late to chat with you on line instead of half an hour late to meet you for a romantic dinner or whatever, then maybe it's not really serious enough to get so bent out of shape over. Just my opinion.
2006-08-26 08:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend went out to a party 2 nights ago,? he said he was gonna get drunk,? and you didnt apperciate that ?but anyway. He decided to piss you off even more and not talk to you yesterday.?? You were worried that he was arrested or dead.??? So today he talked to you for 5 minutes, logs off and then comes back on. You really had to go ? so you asked him when we was coming on so you could talk and he said 8. so you are still waiting, hes a half and hour late.... where's your question.... should You tell him that you are mad that he decided to play playstation and ignore you? thats it????? or should you just let it blow over? what should you say to him? you dont want to get in lots of fights... but you dont know how to express what you feel to him... ???
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2006-08-26 15:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesnt have a whole lot of respect for you, girlie. You deserve someone who does.
What you need to do is let him know that you dont appreciate that he isnt considering your feelings, and tell him that something needs to change or this relationship is going to go downhill, fast (and it is....i know!).
He may have some personal issues going on, so let him know that you care and if there is something going on that is making him act this way, then you will be there for him. Make it clear that something has to change. Dont pick a fight, be courteous and caring but be firm.
2006-08-26 15:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ridiculous...any girl that would let her boyfriend play Playstation and ignore her and still consider him her boyfriend is already setting up for failure. You are crazy to continue this relationship...just keep that in mind ok? If you stay with him one more day, one more minute, you are crazy...Playstation is the least of your worries.
2006-08-26 15:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by 1n51ght 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore him fora while, don't let some guy play 'round wich your emotions and stuff like that. i know guys are confuzzling, but he just seems to be a butt, and u should dump him for a bit, if he really likes u he'll ask u back out, and if not just move on. be strong gurl!
2006-08-26 15:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by allena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby gurl i think u should tell him how u feel and the way to do that is to just say wats in ur heart and you'll be ok
2006-08-26 15:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth it. Just send him an email letting him know how you feel and if he does not like it the move on. No drama... The right person is drama free.
2006-08-26 15:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by davidcool756 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who doesn't play games with the feelings of others.
2006-08-26 15:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and if he doesn't seem to care then move on. a relationship's not worth it if he doesn't put anything into it. you should find someone who respects you.
2006-08-26 15:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to see a physiatrist.
2006-08-27 10:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋