I want to sleep with someone but I don't know him that well. I don't want him to just dump me after we sleep together.
2006-08-26 08:45:26 · 20 answers · asked by MAMA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about it; you DON'T know him well enough to know if he will dump you after sleeping with him, you DON'T need to be sleeping with him!
Interest won't happen if you give in so quickly, if he isn't willig to wait, he is NOT worth your time! believe me, you will be happier IF you wait.
2006-08-26 08:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by walterhawthorneiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't! Having babies doesn't keep a man either!
What ever happened to waiting until the man shows intrest in you & makes a decent proposal?
I don't care what society has put forth,it is still bad to be a whore!
Everyone wants someone they can trust to stay faithful,but all are screwing around all the time! It is crazy! Why do you think there are diseases running rampant?
If you have no self control or morals,you better get some before it is too late!
2006-08-26 08:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, getting dumped would be pretty hard.
So...
Why don't you wait until you know him better? You don't have to sleep with someone so that he'll like you better.
If he chooses not to be interested in you because there's no "action", that's his problem. You're better off without him.
If he's a good guy, get to know him. Then, after the relationship has deepened, you won't have to worry about keeping him interested. He'll want to be with you because ... you're you!
(You are the prize.)
Good luck!
2006-08-26 08:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't make love, you had sex ! Big difference He cried, maybe from guilt, but more probably because he was scared his wife would find out. Of course he didn't spend the night with you, that would take too much explaining away to his wife Of course he looks at you longingly - you offered him sex on a plate and are happy to offer him sex again . I don't agree with some of the posts here that call you a slag .... on one level he is the one in the relationship, you are not.. but you are being naive and rather silly if you think this is going to get you anywhere..You are 31 years old, not a silly teenager who doesn't know any better. And yes if he were happy in his marriage then he wouldn't be chasing you, but maybe he is the sort who wants casual sex as and when he can find someone to give it to him.. if it wasn't you it would be someone else.. Have more respect for youself please. If nothing else, do you really want to be with someone who can treat his wife that way... down the line it may be YOU he cheats on ! For your own sake and peace of mind, forget this loser and find yourself a decent man who is free to be with you. Don't demean yourself by throwing yourself at a man, who is not free to be with you and has told you that basically it was a mistake and must never happen again.
2016-03-18 04:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - what are your priorities, what do you want more, to date him or to have sex with him? If you want sex more than a relationship, then it shouldn't matter if you have sex and he leaves you, because its all about the sex. Now in that regards, if you go in there not caring so much because your number one priority is the same as sex, and he likes it, there's no reason for him to stop seeing you.
If your priority is to have a relationship, then cultivate that first. Make sure he wants you as a person before you give him your body. That can take a couple of dates, or it can take months... its your choice.
Good luck!
2006-08-26 08:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by thoughtfulwind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They will dump you or they won't. I've been dumped and I've been not dumped. It depends on the guy. Just make sure he doesn't give you a disease and that you don't get pregnant.
Easy, right?
2006-08-26 08:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Hi T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really good question.Men sometimes,like to sleep with a woman, and after they go to sleep with other,and on and on.sometimes they do not care about the lady,they have only interest in have sex and that is all they want.My advice is :Before you even thinking to sleep with a man,know him very well,before you have a bad experience or get disappointment. Try to know him very well first,before you go to sleep with him.Good luck.
2006-08-26 08:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know him that well why do you want to sleep with him? He is sure to dump you afterwards and find the next easy one (and pass your name along to anyone else looking for an easy one).
2006-08-26 08:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be preferred if you learn more about the man before you will sleep together. Probability of him dumping you is great if you do not develop common interests before having sex..
2006-08-26 08:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him well, geez whats so hard about that? why would u even think about sleeping with someone who dont know really well anyway? Thats to me kinda strange. But i suggest i find a place to look for honest men like a church or something just me.
2006-08-26 08:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by the sponge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋